POSTED UNDER Breast Reduction Reviews
34F to 34C - San Diego, CA
UPDATED FROM Rastakat
5 days post
First post op appointment
$5,000
Well ladies I've had my first appointment post op. I went there feeling so much anxiety about unwrapping and facing the new girls in that great big wall of mirror! I decided to just sit in the chair facing away from the mirror. My nurse sat wiping my tears, and cried with me. Some how it gave me comfort knowing that she understood what I was going through, and that she didn't judge me harshly. The drains are still in and the bruising is pretty scary.
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Had my surgery on Monday 3/17/2014 Four days post...
Had my surgery on Monday 3/17/2014
Four days post surgery, minimal pain. First two days everything itched like crazy. I am not to sure how I'm feeling about the drastic physical change. I'm writing this to share what's happening to me, so that others considering this surgery will know what to expect. I find that I can not look at myself in the mirror, because I get discussed by what I see.
Oh and I feel cold in my chest area all the time!!
I will post pictures soon.
Four days post surgery, minimal pain. First two days everything itched like crazy. I am not to sure how I'm feeling about the drastic physical change. I'm writing this to share what's happening to me, so that others considering this surgery will know what to expect. I find that I can not look at myself in the mirror, because I get discussed by what I see.
Oh and I feel cold in my chest area all the time!!
I will post pictures soon.
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Thank you for sharing your raw feelings. I am 2 days post op and although I am not disgusted by the sight, I am also not comfortable with it. I attribute that to everything still being fresh. Once the healing/scar fading process begins, I strongly believe WE will feel much better about the results.
As for cold in your chest, I understand completely. I was coughing a lot and originally thought I'd contracted a cold in the OR. Then I learned when you are given general anesthesia, they place a tube down your throat to help with breathing. That should clear up within the first week. Mine has already gotten a lot better since Thursday.
Thank you for taking the time to read my story and for giving me support it really helps having others share their own experiences too
I don't have a problem looking at myself but it does feel surreal. I kinda feel like they belong to someone else. I also have an indent on the top of my flabby belly on both sides where my breasts rested. It feels so strange. It has been very emotional at times, sort of like something is missing, but I was told to find something I really like about the new girls (such as the shape) and think about the things that led me to make the decision I made and actually followed through with it. It is done, so learn to love all the good things to come. I find that bending over, squatting, tying my shoes, all the little things that caused discomfort and even shortness of breath. Even walking just feels different. I think I may actually like working out at the gym better. Running, wearing a belt, low cut or tight fitting tops, horizontal striped shirts, all things I avoided most of my life. I hope you don't regret but rejoice as you will find there will be much more good than bad to come from your decision. Good Luck and Best Wishes
Thank you,
I think it will all work out fine. Just never considered that it would feel like such a loss of self.
I felt the same way. I didn't even want to hear about some of the particulars of the procedure. Once, I was able to take a shower & re-bandage, I was forced to look. I felt extremely bloated & hated my body in general. I'm happy to report, this passes. It's day to day! Remember we have changed our bodies for a reason. Try to look forward to the future & something you really looked forward to wearing or doing which started this whole adventure. Remember, you're not alone.
I'm so glad that I found this place, where I can be real and honest while working my way over the rough spots in this journey.


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