I ended up with a good side and a bad side. On my bad side I developed an ugly jowl. I looked more sad and old than I felt. Initially I inquired about fat transfer but after considering several options I decided on sculptra.
Even after just the first treatment I could see a softening in my features. After the third treatment now my bad side looks fantastic and even my good side looks better.
It was pricey due to the amount of vials I used total (6) and possibly because I went to facial plastic surgeon rather than go for a strip mall deal but Dr Barrera was fantastic. He's an artist. I love what he did to my face.
I still look like myself. The symmetry is there now that I didn't have before and the fullness softened my face without changing it. I don't look 'done'. I will definitely keep it up with yearly maintenance.
I don't feel comfortable posting face pics here but if someone is considering it you can PM me