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I'm 45 Years Old Having Bladder and Rectum Problems - Sacramento
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I'm having problems sneezing, running, or even...
Pleasehelpyg1June 17, 2015
WORTH IT$15,000
I'm having problems sneezing, running, or even coughing. Each time I do one of these things, I would pee instantly. When standing for a long time, I feel like I need to do number two also. I always carry baby wipes with me continuously because of my hemorrhoid problem. I have gave birth to my last child 12 years ago. Sex and loose vagina were never crossed my mind. I devoted my life with my family and never thought I would have to go through hardship...but I did. My ex left me a few years ago to be with a younger lady. I've never realized how loose my vagina is unti these last few months when my 35 yr old boyfriend told me. It wasn't easy for me to discuss sex with him. A few times in a month, during intercourse I'd feel like I'd wet him with pee and needing to do number 2 at the same time. I have kept these problems to myself and afraid to be intimacy with my boyfriend. Now that I found this site and read about everyone's story here makes me happier, less depressed knowing that I will be able to feel normal again. I'm busy with work and internet services is limited where I live..it is so hard to search for the right doctor. I just wish to get a good referral from here. I like to thank everyone for being honest and taking the time to answer questions on this site. It's very helpful.
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June 18, 2015
Welcome to the community, I am thrilled that you found us and I just know that you will get the support here that you need. The "Find a Doctor" directory is the place to find a board-certified doctor. You will also be able to read related reviews, doctor Q&A and special offers on the same page, so you can do all of your research in one place. Thank you for being so open and honest about your problem, as you know, it really helps other women feeling that exact same discomforts. I look forward to hearing about your next steps, all the best to you.
UPDATED FROM Pleasehelpyg1
1 year post
March 23, 2017 marked a year after my surgery.
Pleasehelpyg1April 5, 2017
I waited a year to see what really changed after my surgery with Doctor Red Alinsod to update my review. I can honestly say that without this doctor's work of miracle, I would not be as happy as I am today. Even a year after the surgery, sex was amazing. The tightness that he had done to my vaginal walls were so little that I was worrying that it might eventually closed up. At first I could only use a small size of tampon but now I can fit a large one. It is like an elastic wall of muscles. It shrinks and expands by itself.
Although, I'm back to my routine of easily leaking after sneezing or during sex, I was advised to have the Thermeva done once every year. I was charged for 3 sessions but only done two of them because traveling back from Sacramento to Laguna Beach was a big deal...too long of a drive. I'm thinking about getting the ThermeVa treatment locally. I honestly, had such a bad experience with Doctor Red Alinsod during the procedure due to local anesthesia but for the work that he had done to my body after giving birth to 5 grown kids, it's well worth it.
Although, I'm back to my routine of easily leaking after sneezing or during sex, I was advised to have the Thermeva done once every year. I was charged for 3 sessions but only done two of them because traveling back from Sacramento to Laguna Beach was a big deal...too long of a drive. I'm thinking about getting the ThermeVa treatment locally. I honestly, had such a bad experience with Doctor Red Alinsod during the procedure due to local anesthesia but for the work that he had done to my body after giving birth to 5 grown kids, it's well worth it.
I also suffer from UTI's, and I read that approx 75% of women do —unfortunately it's so common! Be sure to go to the washroom right after sex and to drink a ton of water. I also drink cranberry juice regularly, the one without sugar - you could add it to a smoothie if it's too strong. Also, I take Apple Cider Vinegar daily and drink Kombucha, I think that also helps. I really feel your pain, and I hope you find some releif soon.