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Hello, I am 32 years old, I have 2 children 13...

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nayd80
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Hello, I am 32 years old, I have 2 children 13 years old and a 6 years old I'm scheduled for TT w/flanks lipo and hernia repair on June 13.
i'm so so scared, nervous and have anxiety! I know this will be worth it. i decide to have tummy tuck about 2 month now. Dr T was the first consultation i did for tummy tuck and i like him i took 100 questions with me i didn't get to ask him any because he answer all of them before i even ask. my fiance said take your time do other consultation before you decide i told him his the one. before i went to consultation i did my home work i check him out and i love his work. I told my parents about this they said i'm crazy not to do it so now i'm hiding it from them it told them I'm having a hernia repair they will freak out if they find out my parents don't believe on having plastic surgery. then i told my fiance he said i'm crazy too...to do some crunch and that will do it. he don't see anything wrong with my stomach he still don't want me to get it but i already decide and i told him i need his support i have to tell him the truth because i'm need him to take a few days off to take care me. It's just 1 week away I'm trying to mentally prepare myself for the pain i don't have no pain tolerances. so decide to joint real self so i can have some support I'm gonna need it since i can't tell none of my family member they all think I'm just getting a hernia repair.

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August 8, 2016
Hey hope it all went well.... I didn't tell my parents either! I've just avoided them and just showed them my face while facetiming! Hope Ure better
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August 8, 2016
Hey farah I got it done 4years ago... I hope u feelling better I still haven't said anything to my parents they won't understand
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7 days pre

Thank you so much ladies this mean a lot to me....

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Thank you so much ladies this mean a lot to me. One week from now is my big day and I'm ready but I'm so scared, anxious, nervous I was hoping to get some comfort from my fiancé but his worse than me his freaking out too. I am having mixed emotions now. Did I make the right decision but at the same time I have high confident and trust my PS His very knowledgeable that put me at ease a little :) and he comes off as a skilled, technical and confident surgeon that why I pick him and I liked his before and after pictures patients that I seen.

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June 6, 2012

Welcome to RealSelf.  So glad you found us and joined!    You are not crazy for doing this so keep your chin up and be proud that you are doing something for yourself.  This is all about how you feel and what you want for your body.  Not what somebody else wants.  

 

Your day will be here soon so hang on and know you can do this and everything will be fine.  Keep us all up to date on your progress as you go.

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June 6, 2012
You are in good hands! I used Dr. T! You are going to love your new tummy! Good luck to you, I will check on you!
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June 6, 2012
Thank you Bag snob You one of those people who inspired me too I been looking at you pic. for 2 weeks now you look fabulous.
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June 7, 2012
Aw thanks girl! It gets better with each passing week and I promise you the worse part is what you are experiencing now, the waiting! It really isn't that bad. It's just a process but it is so worth it! You are going to be thrilled! I am excited for you!
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June 7, 2012
Nerves are SOOOO normal sweety. I was a ball of nervous tension the entire time leading up to my surgery. You're going to do great. My PS told me, I do this everyday and I'm good at it - don't you worry. If you trust your PS, and his staff, you're in great hands I'm sure. Just think about the end result and how sexy you'll be!! :)
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2 days pre

This is it, 2 more days is my day I'm excited...

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nayd80
This is it, 2 more days is my day I'm excited anxious and nervousI can't sleep or eat anymore i think I'm losing it..

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June 11, 2012
Hi Ana313 thank you for the support and wish i really need it. If i look as good as u look right now I'll be so happy.My mom don't really now what I'm having done but she is trying to calm me down. I'm starting to have panic attack I'm so so scared I can't sleep or eat anymore i just been thinking thinking thinking...
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June 11, 2012
Hi. I can't tell you not to worry cause I was a wreck myself. Its natural to worry and think about the worst case scenario. I just tried to keep it together and not show that I was nervous. As soon as I saw my ps the day of surgery I felt so much better. I saw that he was so confident and relaxed. I asked him are you ready to do this? You got good sleep last night? He smiled and clapped his hands and said "oh yeah, I'm ready.". Then I got some happy juice and lights out. You are going to be fine! :)
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June 11, 2012
Hi irgaec thank you so much this is exactly what i needeed someone to tell me relax u give me such a big relieve. what u said was exactly what i was doing i went to every youtube videos good and bad. I been reading everything that can go wrong and i get freak out more. My fiance will stay will me the first day than my daughter last day of school is on the 12th she supposed to help me in morning an he take over in the after he get off at 3 I been taking laxatives i hope that will help. Thank u for the big relieve I'm a little relaxe now :)
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June 11, 2012

Hi Nayd80!

 

I am so excited to follow your recovery and see your after photos!  Thanks for sharing your  story. :)

 

Kate

June 11, 2012
My TT is tomorrow, I am super nervou too, but we will be fine! in two weeks we will be so glad! hope it goes very smoothly for you!! Good luck!
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June 11, 2012
Kate H. thank you for yor support :)