Not good at communicating or listening

Had a septoplasty, rhinoplasty, rib graft for perforation. 7hr surgery. Nasal valve doesnt work now, can't swallow, can't sleep, can't eat. Everything is worse than before. Never called me after surgery. Follow up two weeks later was with a PA. Actually saw him and spoke with him 6 weeks after my surgery. Told him of my problems and his response was "I've never heard of these symptoms." Told me to come back in 8 weeks. [RS bleep]. Would not even acknowledge my concerns told me nose still needs to heel, but I know it's not the healing that's the issue. It's the valve has collapsed. I have had to go to er, and have been on anxiety mess ever since. He ruined my life.