BA Scheduled, Age 46, 34A After BF

I've been quiet here since my 3 month post-op visit, because I have felt like I need to process my situation before coming here and talking about it.
Basically, my right breast is okay if it stays where it is, but my left breast keeps dropping. My plastic surgeon wants to see me sooner than a year, so we can see what's what at that time and discuss the best way to handle it. I wish I had gone with my pre-surgery gut, which was hesitant about my poor skin tone which was made even worse by many stretch marks, and asked him to put in a sling under each implant. My animation deformity is also so bad that I can wiggle my breasts up and down. Basically, my muscle tissue is stronger than the surrounding tissue, so every time I use my chest muscles, they're pushing my breast implants downward and outward.
So...I am not working out my chest muscles specifically, I avoid using my chest muscles when my husband sees me naked, and other than that, it's just...continuing to follow the surgeon's instructions and waiting it out.

I've been experiencing hormonal breakouts on my chest and back, so I don't want to post nude shots this time, but I had time to post an update this morning, so here goes. After 25 plus years of marriage, this has been the best decision we've made to boost intimacy. I am only as sexy as I am confident, and there really are no words for the difference it makes when I feel desirable instead of ugly. If you think ugly is too strong a word, go back and look at the first photos I put up. My breasts didn't bounce back from pregnancy and breastfeeding my large brood of kids (I started out a B cup, typically went to a D or C during breastfeeding, and ended up some horrible A size saggy baggies that were unable to be correctly fitted in any bra that has ever been made. The little pouches of flabby breast tissue would get caught under the underwire of the padded bras I wore to make my clothing look and fit better. My surgeon told me I had about the same amount of breast tissue to work with as a mastectomy patient. Because I have a wider bone structure through my shoulders, and my "breast pockets" were far apart, I have never had cleavage and still don't unless I lie on my side with my arm under the lower breast, but I do have side boob, which I personally find highly erotic. Cleavage would complicate my preference for V neck shirts, since I am publicly pretty modest and have told very few people about my surgery. It doesn't take much effort to look similar to how I looked wearing a padded bra, and that's exactly what I wanted. :)
Physically, at 2 plus months post-surgery...my breasts get achy if I go more than an hour or so with no support. My right nipple and lower breast are still mostly numb. My scars are healing nicely and only look red for a day after we've been super vigorous with our sexual activity. My right breast is still higher and tighter than my left, I'm guessing mostly due to being right-hand dominant. I've been doing cardio almost every day for over a month. Not doing any weight training, but my lifestyle is somewhat physically rigorous, and I think that has contributed to the animation deformity I experience when tightening my pec muscles. I stay mindful of this during sex, which would be a pain except that it's more than made up for by the other perks of being shapely! I'm guessing that I'm going to end up a 32DD. :)
I hope all my December surgery buddies are doing well, and that you're as ecstatic with your results as I am with mine!

Everything is going super well here! I'm so happy to have curves again, happy with how I look and feel, happy to have my "intimacy confidence" back!
I haven't had any real issues. Some drying and flaking skin on my nipples that others have spoken of. I'm guessing it's partly due to the increased activity? I put ointment on them so they look better. My right still looks a tad higher than my left. Since I went sub-muscular, my boobs look contorted and weird when I tighten my chest muscles, so I make sure not to do that during lovemaking. Lol!
I'm at the gym almost every day and look forward to having restrictions lifted, hopefully at the 3 month mark!