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Primary rhinoplasty regret - a smaller nose doesn't equal better
UPDATED FROM tinks8989
9 months post
Can there really be nasal tip swelling at 8/9 months
tinks8989October 5, 2017
$6,101
Hi All,
Just wanted some personal experience advice. Asking my Surgeon rarely results in a direct answer.
From experience, can anyone tell me if at 8/9 months there could still be swelling on the tip and just above the tip? Or is this most likely scar tissue? When the cast was removed my nasal tip was sharp and refined... now it just looks really swollen and round! I don't understand how it could go from refined after cast removal to this very swollen looking tip?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Just wanted some personal experience advice. Asking my Surgeon rarely results in a direct answer.
From experience, can anyone tell me if at 8/9 months there could still be swelling on the tip and just above the tip? Or is this most likely scar tissue? When the cast was removed my nasal tip was sharp and refined... now it just looks really swollen and round! I don't understand how it could go from refined after cast removal to this very swollen looking tip?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
UPDATED FROM tinks8989
8 months post
Revision an everlasting possibility
tinks8989September 9, 2017
Hi guys
A lovely real selfer sent me a morph of a picture of what my nose could look like with a straight bridge. This is what I wanted all alobg. I absolutely HATE my curved nose, I'm so ashamed. I've attached the morph as well of pictures of me now, let me know what you all think?
A lovely real selfer sent me a morph of a picture of what my nose could look like with a straight bridge. This is what I wanted all alobg. I absolutely HATE my curved nose, I'm so ashamed. I've attached the morph as well of pictures of me now, let me know what you all think?
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September 9, 2017
I think all your noses are nice, but I'm not the one wearing it. It's clear something needs to occur to make you be able to move forward. The way I see it if you elect to have a revision there is two different directions you could go surgically. One is your rebuild the nose with harvested cartilage and maybe bone and leave the tip relatively as is. The other avenue for less curvature is heavy work to the tip and possibly a minor build up to the bridge. Similar to what doctor Denenberg provided in his morph to you several months back. Each option is your personal wish and each option comes with its inherent positive and negative things to weigh out pretty seriously. The rebuilding option will in all likelihood require cartilage harvesting. Usually, surgeons need a rigid firm cartilage and in pretty ample supply for rebuilding the bridge. Usually this results in harvesting happening from your own ribs. As if that statement isn't enough to consider there are complications that can occur in the Harvest location that must be weighted out. The to further your thinking the surgeon must be highly skilled in making the grafting timely and artistically or you will run into major cosmetic issues that require further revision. Lastly, the surgeon must be absolutely perfect in execution and placement. After all of those considerations there are a few more to consider as well like statistics, etc. Keep in mind what I am telling you is the tip of the iceberg, but there is much more too it to get a good feel for the gravity of your decision. If you elect to go the Denenberg path you will likely need grafts, but from septal cartilage if any is remaining or ear. This need will likely be minimal, because Denenberg is further reducing for a straighter more refined appearance to create balance. If you go this route there are some heavy considerations too. Tip work is considered to be pretty complicated to get right. It's imperative you speak with surgeons that have a huge background in tip work since this will be most of what this option entails. This comes with a host of possible cosmetic complications too. If you are considering revision it might be best to visit who's the most stellar doctor in your region and explain to him your dislikes and have him do morphs to show what's achievable surgically on both sides of the coin. I would also want to know which option is the easiest and least risky to achieve from a surgeon's mouth who's very experienced and trustworthy before making any decisions on which option I would want. If I lived in your region I'd see Lucian Ion to consult about this.
It's been a few weeks since we last spoke, but how are you feeling emotionally? I can see you are still thinking about your nose, but have you been able to live life or do you still feel indentity issues and guilt/remorse?
It's been a few weeks since we last spoke, but how are you feeling emotionally? I can see you are still thinking about your nose, but have you been able to live life or do you still feel indentity issues and guilt/remorse?
September 9, 2017
Hiya thank you for such a sound imsight. I'm totally fixated on my nose and can't think of anything else. All my days are cinsimec by it and I can't think think of anything else or be me. I'm ashamed in public and keep my head down as I look so fake. I totally hate the curve and I just can't bear it or the fact that I'm an uglier version of me. I don't know what to do
September 9, 2017
I can't tell you if revision is the solution or not. This is something you must answer and of course you must weigh out all the facts and your feelings surrounding them. As you know all surgery is a gamble. Of course revision will be too. The question would be is the risk/reward ratio worth it to you? Many cases of people with PTSD a successful revision really helped them overcome some of the issues. However, if you have PTSD revision won't fix everything. You'll still need therapy to put your nose behind you. However, BDD and personality disorders tend to get worse with revison even when the aesthetic goals are achieved. I know you were speaking with your doctor to obtain a referral to a psychotherapist of some sort. Have you had the opportunity to meet this person yet? Most of the people in your shoes I have spoken with are suffering PTSD or OCD. The PTSD didn't exist before the surgery, but as a horrible result. OCD and OCP were symptmatically present for those suffering prior to surgery but undiagnosed, because it wasn't symptomatic enough to interfere with their lives. After surgery however it was extremely bad. I'm not sure what you have. I more often lean towards PTSD, but of course I'm just some gal on the internet who's heart goes out to you from afar. Either way, I think it's imperative that you fully understand why you are here and what's in your best interest to move forward. I really wish I could tell you the answer. What I can tell you is be patient even though it might be miserable. Allow yourself to make a truly informed decision.
I know you said previously you were engaged and working. Are you still going to work? How's your relationship with your fiancé? Have you confided in him about all of your thoughts and feelings yet? If not him your mother or father?
I know you said previously you were engaged and working. Are you still going to work? How's your relationship with your fiancé? Have you confided in him about all of your thoughts and feelings yet? If not him your mother or father?
September 9, 2017
I just wanted to add that the statements I've made I have done so in an effort to keep you from making any hasty decisions while in a heightened emotional state. I'm not opposed to revision and I'm also not a propent per se. I am however opposed to anyone ending up in a surgical hampster wheel. In order to avoid the wheel you really must fully understand your current situation, all of the options and the true gravity of the revision decision. I'd advise anyone this even if there wasn't an emotional or psychological component. Revision can be life changing in both directions and the decision about proceeding forward should be scary as hell considering all the possibilities. If there is any chance without surgery you can put daily thoughts of your nose behind you this would be best for all the obvious reasons. However, this is not the case for many people.
I also want to advise you not use any fillers if you are considering revision.
I also want to advise you not use any fillers if you are considering revision.
September 19, 2017
Many of the doctors I have spoken with stated that fillers can damage blood supply and oxygenation. I suppose fillers doesn't make a difference if you're certain you will never have surgery. I'm not sure about that though, because I've never considered getting fillers.
September 10, 2017
Ok I get it now. Not sure if you want to go through with a revision at this point but you may want to check out Dr. Christopher Khorsandi in Las Vegas. That's who I'm thinking about going with simply bc he tends to keep the bridge straight.
September 10, 2017
Can you just get it deprojected a little, this will make the slope look smaller.
September 19, 2017
I'm no expert but that crossed my mind as well, although I like her new nose, if I was being picky I'd leave a slight curve and just get the tip taken back further .. have you thought about that tink?
September 11, 2017
I like the nose you have now and not the morph; i think morph would suit a man...but then it's your nose and you got to like it.... I still think you have swelling on your tip, my swelling lasted for 4 to 5 years! what does your surgeon say about it? please dont get a revision in haste and then regret it down the road... please try to wait a couple of years, i think you will fall in love with the nose you have right now.. cause, GIRL!, it's GORGEOUS!
September 18, 2017
Oh wow.. your swelling lasted 4-5 years! I do think sometimes that perhaps my swelling is still present in the tip. As much as I sometimes feel like addressing my problems 'NOW', one thing that this journey has taught me is to not rush into anything!!
September 11, 2017
Tinks i love it! Please read my message i sent to your inbox. Are you planning on going for a revision?
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August 15, 2017
Hello,
I've recently had rhinoplasty myself and am very pleased with my results. As an outsider looking in I feel the need to tell you that your new nose looks wonderful and I personally think it is an improvement for you. The amount of anguish and attention you're giving this makes me wonder if perhaps your issues are psychological. Have you ever been diagnosed with BDD?
You certainly don't have a botched result, whether it is what you had in mind or not. It is a nose and it looks good on you. Just some food for thought. Enjoy your life, you are beautiful and a different looking nose doesn't change who you are at your core.
August 29, 2017
Yes. I keep unfollowing this, but still get every notification that's posted. Her nose is fine. It is certainly not botched.
August 15, 2017
I think your nose looks great but it's how you feel what matters. I've had temporary filler once it was suppose to last almost a year. It lasted a couple weeks and 750 US down the drain. I'm considering Artefill. It is a long lasting filler but I worry if I don't like the results I would have to have surgery to fix it. That means more risk, money and wasted time. I may just say no and accept my improvement. It definitely is an improvement.
Once you come to terms to trust a surgeon I believe you can find the right person. I like Dr. Lucian Ions work . Check out HOPE76324 realself story. She looks amazing after Dr. Ion and there's many others who are looking great.
You are beautiful. I hope you find peace.
Once you come to terms to trust a surgeon I believe you can find the right person. I like Dr. Lucian Ions work . Check out HOPE76324 realself story. She looks amazing after Dr. Ion and there's many others who are looking great.
You are beautiful. I hope you find peace.
August 16, 2017
oh dear, dont go for artefill, please read the its horror stories on realself first.
August 16, 2017
Thanks for sharing with me diamondgirl. When you had the temporary filler in your nose, how did it feel? Were you aware of the filler in your nose, was it natural looking?
August 21, 2017
I felt the pinch from needle and the fluid (filler) entering my nose. It only lasted a couple seconds. After that my nose felt slightly tender for a day or two. My nose looked very natural.
August 15, 2017
I have been reading your story and I'm sorry you are unhappy with your nose. As a complete stranger looking at you, I think you are totally gorgeous and your nose looks beautiful. I think you may be obsessed with it. It happens but I think that some counseling might help you from being over critical. I say this will love and kindness. I think you look fantastic.
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I just want to let you know that your nose looks beautiful! I understand there are certain things you are unhappy with but keep in mind there are ways to fix those things! I think you are gorgeous! Sending positive vibes your way.
My first surgery didn't change at all after the first month, since there were no grafts or anything, so I didn't mention that one