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"58 And Ready To Reclaim My Body, Mind, Spirit" - Ponte Vedra, FL

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After getting so much information from reading RS...

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PerkyT
After getting so much information from reading RS over the last six months or so, and corresponding with several lovely, informative women, I have decided to jump on this band wagon and blog my experience for all of you to see and take away what you wish. I am looking forward to building new friendships along the way and giving and receiving much needed support. This has not been an easy decision for me to make, but I am excitingly and nervously moving forward. Please hold my hand as anesthesia and surgery have never been in my 58 years. My story is very similar to yours in that I have been carrying around these big "Ta-Tas" since I was a very young woman. When I had the knockout figure with a cute, perky, 36 C, I was so naive that I didn't know how adorable my figure was. You know what happens after that cute, perky, adorable girl gets more mature......Everything goes south!!!! Now I think I am a 38 DDD. Oh well, at least I am living at a time when the medical technology and physicians are so on top of everything that I now have a choice in what I do with my body. Poor Grandma, she carried her big ole' "Ta-Tas" around her whole life. All 92 of them!! God Bless you Grandma, I miss you everyday! xoxo
A hairdresser for more than "Forty (WOW) Years", my back can't take it any longer. I am 5'1" and 162 lbs. Holding my arms up cutting, coloring, perming and on my feet all day long has taken it's toll on my back. Having to give up my business and say goodbye to my very faithful clients after many years of laughter and tears, this was not easy, but it was time.
I don't know why I never even thought of getting a BR before nor did any physician or medical professional ever suggest or mention it. I don't know. Maybe I was too busy with doing for everyone else, I never really took the time to focus on ME? (Novel idea huh...:) It's funny how life just happens.
After much research and searching for a board certified, experienced PS that posted before/after pictures and was within a radius of where I wanted to travel, I found my guy! I made an appointment for a consultation with him, grabbed my husband and off we went. (Hubby is very supportive with this and he knew if he came with me, we would stop for something to eat on the way home. It works every time).
My consultation was on Wednesday, January 7 2015. My research was well worth it as I knew after I had my consultation, met the doctor and staff and left there, I had found Dr. Right for my BR! I loved him from the get-go! I did bring with me a folder of paperwork to show the different appointments, documentations and list of over the counter remedies that I have tried to use over the years to relieve my pain. I was assured that as soon as the insurance company made a decision, they would let me know.
So, here I am on Super Bowl Sunday, Saturday, February 1, 2015 letting you know that I have been APPROVED by insurance to do this procedure for medical reasons, my pre-op is this Tuesday, February 3rd and I am scheduled for surgery the end of the month on Monday, February 23. Also my out of pocket expense will be my co-payment of $15.00!!!!
This is all happening way too fast!!!! Maybe that is better.......I will be flying to Delaware to see my eldest daughter and twin baby granddaughters on March 28th. I will be about 4 1/2 weeks post op.........

PerkyT's provider

Robert W. Burk, III, MD

Robert W. Burk, III, MD

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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February 3, 2015
i also live in fl and im 56 soon to be 57 i started my journey sept 20 2014, long story short . My doc cancelled me once then gain then i surgery didn;t show up. while i was in the OR waiting for him to start.. I guess everything happens for a reasonl. i found a way better doctor on Dec 22. im waiting now fro my Aurthorisation to be switched over to her.. I don't know why it;s taking so long.. Good Luck .sounds like everything is going smoothly for you. Even with the hubby... My hubby is scared and doesn't seem to want me to do it... but he doesn't have to deal with the discomfort.. Best wishes.. ill be following you
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February 3, 2015
thank you for writing me. It is so nice to have the support from other women out there.
February 5, 2015
Congratulations on getting approved so quickly. I understand exactly how you feel. I was nervous at first, and now I am relaxed and waiting for my surgery on March 24th. I wish you all the best, and please keep in touch because this is a learning process for me.
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February 6, 2015
Will do! Support from other women going through this is just great! We are all learning at the same time. Good luck to you also. Lets stay in touch!
February 7, 2015
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February 7, 2015
:) thanks
February 7, 2015
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February 7, 2015
I do not think it is appropriate that you are doing this - this is a site for women who are considering a life-changing decision, and the pictures are not here for your enjoyment. Have some compassion and sensitivity.
February 7, 2015
ditto
February 7, 2015
Yes it is so nice to have this support... Ifeel like I can't always talk to my husband about it & no one else knows.except my daughter (28) . not even my MOM. I feel it's such a personal thing.. But I was in my towel today & i turned to my husband and said see honey my boobs will be here... ( lifitng one up) and not here ( by my waste) ! He smiled & walked away,, So maybe it's not just him nervous cause i should open up more .. ttyl
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February 8, 2015
Thank you for sharing this cute story. I bet you made your husband laugh! I told mine to enjoy them now, because they are going to be forever gone!!!! Ha! Ha!
February 11, 2015
I'm 58 to and now getting my BR! The big day is Feb 17th, I'm excited and anxious at the same time. My insurance is going to cover the surgery so I'm very happy about that. I'm also wondering why doctors don't recommend this to patients. It was the gal who does my nails who told me her story that she had a BR 5 years ago that encouraged me to look into it. Hoping all goes well next week.
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February 11, 2015
I don't know why doctors don't reccommend this procedure. Good question. I also don't really know why I didn't even consider it an option years ago. I just thought that this is what I was given and this is what I will live with for the rest of my life.'wierd huh! I am sure glad the lightbulb went on in my head finally......
February 17, 2015
me too
UPDATED FROM PerkyT
21 days pre

"Peek-A-Boo"...

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PerkyT
Well, who knew that my left breast was larger than my right? Not me!! Nor my husband!! It took my surgeon to tell me this. Just goes to show you how often I have really looked at these huge appendages...Funny though, now that I know that surgery will be in a few weeks, I am feeling kind of sad but glad that they will be gone....how can that be?

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February 3, 2015
i feel the same.. weird huh..
February 3, 2015
i also took photos one night and i couldn't believe my boob ba's are crossed eyed!! Never noticed.. but i always cover up quickly cause i don't like to look at them.
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February 3, 2015
Yup, covering up my whole life to hide them. Sitting hunched over to make them look smaller. I can't believe that we are living at a time when we can actually be pro-active and do something about this. The older women in my family just suffered their whole lives with their large breasts. I am so thankful that I don't have to do that.
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February 5, 2015
It' funny you call them "boo-ba's" as that is what i always called my italian grandmother. Ha! Ha! And now my granddaughters call me "Boo-Ba", too funny. Svogee99, I was wondering where you are in your process and do you have a doctor and a date yet? Keep in touch! - Smile
February 5, 2015
Congratulations. I found out from the surgeon that my right breast is lower than the left. It scared me for a moment, and I started to think should I be doing this, but anything is better than this pain. Wishing you the best in your surgery.
UPDATED FROM PerkyT
19 days pre

Blue skies today in sunny Ponte Vedra, FL. Great day for a Pre-Op Appt!

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PerkyT
Hubby is driving and I am posting.....nervously, anxiously, excitingly. I have never going through any surgery before. I take that back, I had a TVT (tension vaginal tape) procedure done years ago for a post baby leaky badder. But other than that which was a breeze that has been it, (thank God) until now. I have my list of questions for Dr. Burk. My surgery is scheduled for February 23, 2015 at 2:00pm. I am concerned about the time as I am hypoglycemic and have never gone that long without some kind of protein in my system. Also have severe sleep apnea and was wondering if a pulmonologist checkup and current numbers would be helpful to the anesteologist during my procedure. I also want to clarify how much he thinks he can remove safely and stress to him that I want to be a very very small C. Not a medium, not a large. SMALL and perky. Dr. Burk also said that he would lipo my side boob fat. I think I will probably come home with instructions for pre-op and supplies, what kind of bras to get, and a list of what to do or not before surgery etc. Some women have talked about blue paper tape for sensitive skin by 3M. About $6.00 a roll. Does anyone have experience using this or for that matter any suggestion for prepping the puppies before surgery with creams or ointments? I will be traveling by plane about 5 weeks pos-op to visit my daughter and twin granddaughters. I hope that is enough time to be doing pretty well. (The power of positive thinking.) Listen to me babble on and on. I am almost at my destination. Thanks for listening, it really helped me not be so anxious before I arrive. Talk soon!

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February 7, 2015
My surgery is scheduled for February 9th, so I will go in before you. My surgery is scheduled for 12:30, I know how you feel I wish it was earlier. I will post how it went next week!
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February 7, 2015
Great! Keep posting!! We learn from each other!!!
February 7, 2015
I am curious if you know the cost without insurance? My story is similar but I have no prior documentation of care so I don't know that insurance will cover.
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February 7, 2015
I am thinking about 6-7K. Only guessing as in my case, my insurance (Anthem BC/BS of NY) is picking mine up in full. My out of pocket is $15.00. I have been so blessed as this doesn't happen too often.
February 20, 2015
You are going to be so happy you did this! I am 56 and had my BR done on 30 December 2014. I had a wonderful surgeon and have had no post-op difficulties. My left breast is slightly bigger than my right at this point but I believe it is because there was more removed from that side and more trauma = more swelling for a little longer. I hope that's right but I have decided that I'm not going to worry about it until my next follow up appointment at the end of April. My main reason for posting is to address your flying question. I flew to Quebec City at approximately five weeks after my BR and had no problems. I also walked and walked and walked around the city in the frigid cold with no ill effects. I still don't know what size I am but I started at a 38H. I am hoping for a D cup but suspect that it may be a DD - which is still a vast improvement. Oh, I also had the side boob lipo'd - although not covered by OHIP, I believe it was worth it. Twin granddaughters - lucky you!
February 22, 2015
BR might also help with sleep apnea?