Finally Getting my Body Back - Plattsmouth, NE

Ok so here goes... I am 41 with 3 boys ages 21, 12, and 19 months... After my first two boys were born I was pretty much able to get my stomach to go back to normal except I was left with excess skin from all the stretching from my boys. Now that I had my third son I can not get my stomach to go back down and looks like I am still pregnant. Now I am to the point where I need to have a TT for my own happiness. My hubby says he is fine with it and I should be too, he just don't understand. I need to be happy with myself as well and I am not at the moment. I do know that once this excess skin is removed and I don't look like I am pregnant I will be much happier. Am I nervous? Of course I am. It has been 22 years since I have seen my before baby body and I can't wait to get it back. I do have questions like what I will need to have after surgery so any suggestions will be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.