25 Year Old Ready to Feel Confident in Herself Again - Paramus

So after 2 children(whom I adore) I am ready to bring my body somewhat close or even better :) to what it was before my children. I am having a full tummy tuck with lipo of the flanks. I have a stomach full of stretch marks that make it up to my rib cage and am so tired of feeling so unattractive. My husband doesn't agree with what I'm doing but says he will still be there for me. I'm am scare and excited at the same time. I've been wanting to this since my second child who is now 2 and my oldest is 4. I will have my aunt come stay with me the first four days but then she has to go back home (she lives 14 driving hours away). I hope I don't chicken out. I did the required labs and go in on the 17th to pay the rest of the surgery and see the doc. Any tips on what to buy and how to prepare since I have toddlers will be really helpful. Plus I only have one week of work, since I don't have much time. I work an office job ( biller) so hopefully I won't be in too much pain.

So I received my labs today and the aptt is prolonged. I go see my hematologist this Monday for clearance since I have lupus anticoagulant. I'm afraid he might not clear me. I want to be alive to enjoy this, so if he is against me having the tummy tuck I will not go foward with this and will have to get used to gurtles and one piece bathing suits. Hopefully not. Let's see what he says on Monday. I will post pics tonight of the damaged goods .