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Breast reduction, asymmetry and lift.

Name: Breast reduction, asymmetry and lift.
Item: Michael S. DeWolfe, MD
Rating: 5
Author: Sweet Mina

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Back pain, neck pain, bilateral asymmetry, not...

Sweet MinaFebruary 9, 2012

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I have had two kids and I am now 27 and its time to get rid of this physical and emotional pain once and for all. I cant wear a bathing suit or any bra without it looking really bad. The right boob pokes out of ever bra I wear, and I am so ashamed of them. FINALLY I got an approval from insurance and now that its realistic I am starting to back out slowly.

My doc is gr8. He told me he will lift them really well during surgery, but he I will only be a Bigger b cup or smaller c. I think A ,B CUP is small but at this point, I will do anything to get rid of this nasty sight, thats how emotionally drained I am. Then I have those close family members who are judgmental and say I dont really need it, please look at the photo and give me your advice. Most people who say I dont need it, have not seen them bare.

I am worried about the recovery and the surgery. How will I breathe during surgery? What is the pain like after. I have a 5 month old baby who is about 18 pounds, will I Be able to hold him?, if not for how long? I also have a three year old who is needy. I plan on breaking the news to mother tomorrow so that she can help.. How long will I need her for after surgery, as shes real busy. Will the pain be unbearable? Is this something I can totally hide under my shirt after say a week or so?

I have lots of family functions and I dont want them to notice I am missing more then a week. Like will I be able to get dressed and hide this a week later..? ALSO do they put a breathing tube down my throat? I am so scared. Please someone who has done this with kids give me some advice. Do they look that bad? Should I GO FOR IT? Is it worth it?

Also I just lost 60 pounds and I workout 5x a week for 2 hours, mainly cardio like stair master, elliptical because I havent been able to run from my saggy boobs.. I do not want to gain this weight back at all bc I am sitting at home, How do i avoid that, and when can I return to the gym?

Im also finishing up my last dosage of phentramine that a weight loss doctor prescribed to me, I think I have to be off this medicine for surgery? right? like a week before? Please give me opinions and answers!!!My doc can answer but I prefer answers from someone who is been in my shoes.

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Katie6134

February 9, 2012

I think it will be ok. I dont know much because i myself have not done the surgery but i am looking into doing it because i cant stand mine either. I am 21 have not yet had kids but plan on it soon enough a year or two i think. But i am a 34O in bra size i have saging an back pain. plus i am getting a little bit of depression from not being able to find clothes and bars that fit right an without spending tons of money for custom made stuff!! I think if you think you need then go for it only you really know yourself and body.

Sweet Mina

February 17, 2012

I am glad I am doing it, I will let you know how it goes. Thank you

kittenluvvr

February 9, 2012

Hi, You will not be able to lift anything for i think a couple of weeks..including your baby. as for hiding it. I cant believe your family is not supporting your decision. that must be really hard for you :( I dont think you should have to hide it and maybe you should find a good therapist or something to help you through this. If you have been approved for insurance then that tells me that yes you need it. If you are self concious and hurting then yes you need it. When you are insurgery they put a breathing tube down your throat but you wont even know its there because you will be under anesthetic. I havent had my done yet but am scheduled for the 24th. My sister had it done a few years ago and she was fine. From what i have read on the site the pain is definatly something that you can handle. If you have had kids I am sure this will be nothing for you. As for the weight loss meds you should talk to your surgeon about that. There are certain meds that you shouldnt be on for about a month before hand. Once you heal you will be able to workout much better. they lift them and tighten them so they wont bounce around so much. And they will be the same size so you wont have the bra issue. Trust me im terrified too. But it is a common surgery and I am sure you will be fine. But i really wish you didnt feel like you had to hide it. I know you have to wear a bra for four weeks non stop afterwards. And i am sure you wont be able to put your hands over your head so you can hide it by wearing a button up shirt if you like. If you want it but are really scared just do what i did...Do your research, ask people. This site is great for that. People love giving feedbakc and you will see most of them say they would do it again in a heartbeat. It is your decision. And it is not one to be taken lightly. But from your photos I would say that it would benefit you for sure. Maybe you could get another appointment with your surgeon to talk about it more and what the real benifits would be. I hope i helped ease your mind a bit. Love Shannon

Sweet Mina

February 17, 2012

Now they are supporting it, All I need is mommy by my side and I can care less about the rest, I am suffering not them. Thanks for all your kindness.

LR128

February 10, 2012

I have had a breast reduction, almost one year ago, but I do not have kids. I'll try to answer some of your concerns though :) It sounds like the lack of support from your family members is adding stress to your decision to have this done: however, they are not the ones who have to live in your body, and look in the mirror and dislike what they see, it's unfortunate that they are not very understanding. As far as being scared, I would say you have no reason to be scared but surgery IS surgery, there are always risks involved (infections, etc.), but if you follow your pre and post-op directions chances are good you'll be fine. As someone else mentioned, they do put a breathing tube in during surgery and you are under general anesthesia. You are told you should not lift anything for several weeks after surgery so you will definitely need help with your kids; I've read other comments from mom's reviews here who talked about it being difficult to not be able to pick up their little ones post-op, so that is something to consider. The pain for me was NOT unbearable at all, and I consider myself a bit of a baby...but I was only taking tylenol about 2 days after surgery and that's it, only used a few of the percosets they prescribed in the first 36 hours after surgery because I kept expecting to feel severe pain--but I never did. You should be able to "hide" under a shirt unless you have drains inserted for the first few days post-op (ask your Dr. if he uses these). Doctors vary on what they tell their patients, but I believe most say you can return to the gym a month post-op. Yes you will have to stop taking that prescribed weight-loss medication prior to surgery--your Dr. will tell you precisely when to stop.

If you decide to go through with the surgery, I believe you will be very happy with smaller and evenly symmetrical breasts, it IS worth it but you do have a lot to consider as far as getting help with your kids and whether your mom and family and friends can help you. Most people who have waited years and then had this done say they should have done it sooner; the only negative things you will find about this surgery is that some people have had complications with infections and Dr.s that were not attentive, or results they were not pleased with (size still 'too big'), so you need to be clear with your Dr. as to what you want and what results he believes he can achieve for you.

I hope that these answers help! I also hope that you will get some more support from your loved ones, that will make it a little better. Good luck :)

Sweet Mina

February 17, 2012

thank you, everything is my much better, mom is going to assist me during recovery:) I pray for the best and thanks for all the kind words and advice.

Princessp

February 10, 2012

I am having my surgery on Monday. I am a little scared too.

Sweet Mina

February 10, 2012

Good luck, I will pray for you:)

Sweet Mina

February 17, 2012

tell us how it went?

Sweet Mina

February 10, 2012

Thanks for al the kind comments, well My mother is supportive and she thinks its best, I just dont like outsiders not judge, like distant family members, besides they are not in my body like you said. Its not severe enough to get a therapist involved lol. My mom took alot of weight off my shoulders as she said she will come and stay with me for a week or until I feel better to help with the kidos:) I am relieved, but still worried. I had axilary breast tissue removed under both arms 2 years ago, and the surgery was a breeze because I was asleep, but the recovery was hard because my boy was only 13 months and heavier, but mommy assisted at the time, I actually stayed with her. My husband is also pretty supportive and will help on the weekends when he is off of work:) Now last but not least, I worry about the size. The right is currently 34 DDD and left is 34 c-d. Its all a big ball of confusion. Doc told me that he has to take out a certian amount for the insurance to approve, however I am scheduled for my pre-op MARCH 1 and this is where I will get in to alot of detail with him. He mentioned a b cup,but I Dont know, All the pics of the b cups online look too small. He said I would be a bigger B or a smaller C. I have to make it clear to him that I do not want a flat chest or golf balls as boobs. I will take a photo or 2 with me so he can see with his eyes what I am hoping for. I do not want to push it, as I know he has to follow insurance directions in order to get paid. He was nice enough to tell me he will lift them completely and make the areola much smaller to go with the new size. I am really excited about perky boobs but what do you guys think size wise?
and Princessp good luck, please let us know how it goes!!!

UPDATED FROM Sweet Mina

16 days post

Back pain, neck pain, bilateral asymmetry, not...

Sweet MinaMarch 29, 2012

Back pain, neck pain, bilateral asymmetry, not able to do any physical activities like running, rashes and grooves in shoulders. Like most of you, I have battling huge sagging breasts since I have been 9 years old. WORST of all my right breast is around larger then my left breast and they sag. My nipples have also become different sizes.

I have had two kids and I am now 27 and its time to get rid of this physical and emotional pain once and for all. I cant wear a bathing suit or any bra without it looking really bad. The right boob pokes out of ever bra I wear..

My doctor is amazing so far... He told me he will lift them really well during surgery, and put my mind at ease about the whole procedure.. but he I will only be a Bigger b cup or smaller c.Then I have those close family members who are judgmental and say I dont really need it, but who are they to decide?

I am worried about the recovery and the surgery. How will I breathe during surgery? What is the pain like after. I have a 5 month old baby who is about 18 pounds, will I Be able to hold him?, if not for how long? I also have a three year old who is needy. I plan on breaking the news to mother tomorrow so that she can help.. How long will I need her for after surgery, as shes real busy. Will the pain be unbearable?

Also I just lost 60 pounds and I workout 5x a week for 2 hours, mainly cardio like stair master, elliptical because I havent been able to run from my saggy boobs.. I do not want to gain this weight back at all bc I am sitting at home, How do i avoid that, and when can I return to the gym?

Will I need to stop medications such as diet pills/fat burners. I have yet to ask my doctor. The doc seems to be real helpful and very understanding. Wow what an amazing doc!

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Sweet Mina

March 30, 2012

Gosh my doc was amazing! They look amazingggggg after picture coming soon!!!

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