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Tummy Tuck, Breast Reduction, at 56 Wearing my 22 Year Olds Bikini ! (In the House) - Newtown Square, PA

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It seems like my whole life , I've had large...

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It seems like my whole life , I've had large breast. At eleven years old I lived in France, and would walk to and from school every day. That sounds ideal, but to me it was a nightmare, men thought I was older due to my breast size and they constantly were approaching me on my walk home. I'd look at them and whimper " I can't go out with you , I'm only 11years old!" I learned the trick of putting on 3 undershirts... In my college years, my breast were fine, I was a D and weighed 105 pounds. I felt feminine and confident. At that point a size D really wasn't strenuous on my shoulders. I grew up in family of health nuts, and there was constant awareness of being in prime shape. Fast forward to motherhood and my late forties. When I saw myself in the mirror I didn't recognize myself , I had been soo busy concentrating on everyone else that I had forgotten to take care of myself. I looked like Roseanne Barr, I couldn't see my torso my breast had grown into triple d"s and covered it. I was 5'4"and 160 pounds! I looked matronly! I had gained 40 pounds since I got married . Needless to say I was so ashamed of myself. I was about 43 when this all started. My kids were in school full time and I was a stay at home mom, there was no room for excuses. I was so upset and uncomfortable in my skin I went to the gym everyday, boot camp, spin class, you name it I did it . Fast forward 10 years, after all the exercising and all the diets I was still overweight at 152. All that work and my breast were still gigantic , everywhere I went, people commented on them whether I wanted to hear it or not. Most of my family and friends would say things like" you're really not that fat, it' s your breast that are huge. Just get a breast reduction and you'll be fine!".
Sooooo took me awhile, but here I am today at 56, with new breasts size D (went down 2 cups, plus had a lift) and enjoying my new flat belly, after my full tummy tuck. Dr.Bottger has freed me from my uncomfortable skin, and has given me my old body back! He achieved in 51/2 hours of surgery what I couldn't accomplish in 15 years of going to the gym and eating healthy! I am so happy I finally did it!
I am about 3 months post op, these blogs have really helped me on my journey. I would love to help any of you who are going through the same struggles as I was going through . I posted my review two other times and cried when I realized they vanished into thin air! I know thats happened to a few of you , so frustrating to have written my whole experience and then zap its gone!
So now that I'm a bit frustrated with recounting my journey for the third time, please check out the bottom of the page where I wrote DrBottgers review. I pretty much summed up my experience in his review.
I am going to try to post some before and after pictures. I think pictures speak louder than words. Dr Bottger is a miracle worker , he gave me my body back. I am now 3 months post op. The swelling is finally going down. The scars are fading. If I can give you one piece of advice it is to be patient , the body heals at its own pace, you will be amazed how well it does.
I will keep everyone updated as time keeps healing my body .

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March 15, 2016

Thanks so much for sharing your review. I'm sorry to hear that it disappeared a few times first, that is very frustrating and will get passed on. Your results are amazing. No wonder you sound so happy. Please do keep us updated on your progress, we'll be looking forward to your updates.

March 18, 2016
Hi Teddiemc, thanks for the welcome! I have had a few problems when replying to my post . I am using my iPhone and hitting the reply button, but it seems that only 50%of my response shows up . Are my replies too lengthy ?
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March 18, 2016

Are you using the RealSelf app?

March 16, 2016
You look amazing.
March 18, 2016
Thanks kaybee4, it's been years I've heard that !❤️
March 18, 2016
Aww your so welcome. I no it feel good to hear ppl tell u how good u look. Enjoy
March 16, 2016
Thank you for your story. It has moved me to tears. My story is similar except l need a breast lift and implants due to being heavy for 14 years. At times I think I'm crazy for wanting surgery but then I read stories like yours and realize that im not
March 16, 2016
Hi stacyrf, so sorry to hear you have a similar story to mine , but there is hope , I'm living proof ! I'm curious why you think you're crazy for considering surgery ? Maybe , since I'm now post op , I can help you with any questions you have . I would love for you to feel as good as I do !! What is holding you back from surgery ? I know I held back because my children were young and I was fearful of leaving them motherless. Now they are 22 and 19 , I'm an empty nester and I'm trying very hard to be selfish and take care of myself . The surgery was my first step doing something for myself !
March 16, 2016
Hi. It's so nice of you to get back to me. I gained weight the year my daughter went through cancer treatment. My twins were a year old at the time. Between her after cancer issues and her brother's autism, I was so wrapped up in taking care of two special needs kids that I didn't pay attention to myself. I started taking the weight off in May 2014. 55lbs, 15 to go. As you know, it is very disheartening to see my mushy tummy and saggy breasts, especially since I have a very intense workout program and strict diet. I have to convince myself that it is ok to spend this money on myself. Also, when I think about recovery, I realize how much I really do for my husband, teenage kids and the dogs as a stay at home mom. I've been reading about how intense and long recovery is. I am feeling guilty about not being able to do for them and them having to do for me. I'm also afraid of the pain I've been reading about. With that said, I would really love to like the way I look, especially since I'm 50 and was huge from 34 to 48. Sorry for the ramble.
March 17, 2016
Sounds like you lost yourself while loving and caring for your children . They are soo lucky to have you as their mother. Being a mother is hard , but being a mother with two special needs kids is being a super mother. Now that they are doing better you need to think of yourself , you so deserve it after all you've been through . I wish I had done it at 50 instead of 56! Also , way to go with your weight loss, that's incredible . At least your body is responding to all your hard work
March 17, 2016
Thanks for the encouragement. I am thinking about Dr. Bottger since I live in the Philadelphia area.
March 17, 2016
Don't know why but my whole reply to your previous post did not post
March 17, 2016
Oh, I liked your reply. I think it's very thoughtful. Thank you so much.
March 17, 2016
I don't know why but only 1/4 of my response posted . I wanted to let you know that the recovery is not bad at all. Dr Bottger gave me an injection of exparel during surgery . Thanks to the injection I had very minimal pain ! About a 2 out of 10! The only time it hurt was getting out of bed . If you ever had a c section the pain level after you get home from the hospital was about the same . I also have a husband who relies on me and a diabetic cat . My husband has never cooked an egg , grocery shopped , or done laundry in the 28 years I'm with him. I hated having to ask him to do stuff around the house so I did cheat and did wind up pulling the stitches under my breast at the t juncture . In retrospect I wish I would have just let the laundry and house work pile up ! I was up and about very soon after surgery ( about 4 days) I read that in order to avoid blood clots it's very important to walk around and not lay in bed all day . I was driving after 7 days and doing errands ! (I did get tired easily ) As for feeling guilty about the $, just think of it as a necessary operation . Nothing you do at the gym will remove the skin
March 18, 2016
Good to know, thanks. I am addicted to my workouts. Sounds crazy but my way of life is based on them, even when and how I eat. I can feel off if I don't work out. I fear becoming a size 16 again after getting down to a 6. Two months before getting back to the gym? When did you stop getting tired? Oh, I haven't had a c section.
March 18, 2016
I could have worked out sooner than 2 months,. I was being super careful since I had the t section wound . It took about 6 weeks for it to heal ! I was extra cautious but I'm sure I could have worked out on a stationary bike or something . I was tired for about 3 weeks . But never had to lay in bed . I would get tired after being out doing errands for 8 hours. Wow, congrats on being a size 6 !! That is my personal goal ! I was a 10 before surgery , after surgery I'm an 8 . And now I'm going to gym 21/2 hours a day and doing Jenny Craig to get to a 6 ! Weight won't budge, but losing inches !
March 20, 2016
Thanks for the compliment. To be honest, you being a size eight is the same as me being a size six because I'm only 5'2". I was also heavier than you were so maybe my results wouldn't be as good. At one point I was 190 lbs I was 180 lbs when I started my weight loss journey. I have a no oil vegan diet. It's a lifestyle change but I really enjoy the food I eat. I also need a lower face and neck lift due to the weght loss.
May 9, 2016
Thank you for sharing!! You look fab!!! I am 29 years old (no kids!!) and i battle with big boobs since ever :( doing some research about this doctor I see many good reviews and great pos operatory surgeries. I also read your insurance paid for your breast reduction, right? Would you ming sharing how was the process for your insurance pay for it? Thank you so much !!!!! (L)
May 10, 2016
Hi dianephilly, thanks for your compliment
May 10, 2016
Ugh!!! My whole response got deleted
May 10, 2016
Not again ! It got deleted again !!!!!!! I will try to answer your question tomorrow , hopefully things will be working better by then!
May 10, 2016
Ohhh nooo!! Okie! Thank you!!!
May 13, 2016
I'm going to try responding again
May 13, 2016
Didn't work
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Sorry, I couldn't post my pictures until my review was actually posted on Realself!

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March 15, 2016

Thanks for sharing your photos, and your amazing results!

March 19, 2016
Thank you for posting these! You look great! I'm considering going to this doc, so it's good to see your positive results.
March 19, 2016
Hi Cravinrain, thanks for the compliment ! What are you thinking about having done? So happy you're considering DrBottger, you'll be amazed at what he can do . I had never heard of him till my friend referred me . I had scheduled drBucky, and drLoahner,(and DrNoone but he retired) for consults but as soon as I met DrBottger I cancelled all my other consults, that's how much he impressed me !
March 20, 2016
I'm considering a tummy tuck and breast lift. I haven't reached my goal weight, yet, though, so I still have some time to research and save. I think Bottger is a bit more on the expensive side, but I find no matter who else I look at, I keep placing him at the top of the list.
March 20, 2016
Hi Cravinrain, that's the procedure I had , only I had a breast reduction with my lift . ( I was fortunate insurance paid for it.) DrBottgers consults are free, and his patient coordinator is awesome , she will give you an estimate very quickly . I was also over weight 163 at 5'4" ( healthy BMI is 145) , dr Bottger did not seem to worry about it . I also saw some of his post op pics and some of his patients looked like they were at least 60 pounds over weight ( and they turned out fabulously !) I Couldnt believe my eyes!! I really don't think DrBottger is more expensive than other docs . Remember this is your only body, a couple thousand could be the difference between a botched job and an incredible job ( I read a few stories on RS that reflected that
March 20, 2016
My response didn't completely send . I just wanted to say , I can't wait to see pictures of you at the end of your journey ! Hope to see you on the flat side soon!
March 20, 2016
Thank you so much for your reply! I love your positivity! :-) ...you've definitely helped cement Dr. Bottger at the top of my consultation list.
April 18, 2016
WOW, can I ask did you lose any weight before your op, Your stomach looks amazing, was that achieved with surgery only?
April 18, 2016
I tried very hard to lose weight before surgery but nothing worked !!! So I was about 167 or something can't remember , but that before pic of me in my beige miminimizer bra was taken 1 day before surgery . I told DrBottger that I still wanted to lose weight after surgery , he looked at me and said " that's fine but you might not need to after the tummy tuck !"! I was shocked how flat my stomach was after surgery ! I only lost about 2 pounds from surgery but I lost a lot of inches ! People said it looked like I lost 30 pounds !!!!! Woohoo!!! I'm around 4 months post op , and I am going to the gym and dieting , I am trying my hardest to lose weight in my thighs and firm up my arms . Haven't lost but a few pounds but wearing smaller clothes ! So , to answer your question "yes" my stomach was alllll surgery !!! And it's even flatter now