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Dr. Sadati in Newport Beach, CA - (Don't Wait As Long As I Did - Do It Now!)

UPDATED FROM shreeeker
29 days post

Almost 30 days since surgery - still healing and reflecting on my positive results.

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WORTH IT
Tomorrow it will be 30 days since my surgery. I'm still swollen along my jaw line and my neck still remains a light shade of black and blue. Although its too soon to really see the final outcome, I couldn't be happier with where I'm at so far. The stitches in front of my ears have literally disappeared. My turkey neck is gone. My jawline has reappeared and I no longer have jowls. I've had a slow recovery but its been without any pain or serious side effects. I feel good and I'm so grateful to be on the other side of this decision. Getting to this place was the hard part! I spent years hating my neck, avoiding photographs, wearing only collared shirts and scarves. I look back wishing I had moved faster, made this decision earlier, not wasted so much of my life being unhappy and fearful of having the surgery. There is no point in regretting that lost time but I can share with others that might read this. If you are thinking about doing this get started now! Do careful research. Read the reviews here. Read the forums and the comment sections. I actually found my doctor from Real Self. I chose him because he had the most positive reviews of any doctor on this site - the majority for face work. He's also located in my state which helped! I think I read every single one of his reviews. I went to his website and read everything there. I emailed his office. I sent him photos for his opinion on my face/neck. I scheduled a consultation with him. I interviewed two of his previous patients over the phone. I wrote to two of his patients via Real Self. I met two of his patients in person. I spent a great deal of time researching his work before I made my decision. I chose him because every single one of his patients DIDNT look like they had had plastic surgery. They looked better, refreshed and certainly younger, but they still looked like themselves. This was important to me. I chose him because at our consultation he took his time explaining everything, asking me questions, looking me in the eye, never making me feel rushed or trying to sell me on other procedures. I chose him because his office staff was communicative, warm and friendly. I feel I made the best decision for me and got my great outcome based on my RESEARCH so I can't emphasize this enough. I can't take credit for the beautiful work that Dr. Sadati did on my face and neck but I can take credit for choosing him.

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Kevin Sadati, DO

Kevin Sadati, DO

Facial Plastic Surgeon, Board Certified in Otolaryngology – Head and Neck Surgery

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Replies (5)

May 23, 2017
I just read your entire story and appreciate your honestly and excellent advice. I'm sorry that you've had challenges along the way, but the results are just stunning. Dr. Sadati took 20 years off your face. Inspiring! :)
May 24, 2017
Thank you so much, Lisa. I have to say that this has been a life changer for me. The challenges have been minimal considering how much I've gained from this experience. Again, it was this website that helped me find my way to Dr. Sadati so I hope that writing my story helps someone else find their way to the right doctor for them.
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May 29, 2017
You look like a teenager now. I don't know how old you are but you look very young now. Your smile is beautiful! Your ears look fantastic! Your story inspirational! Thank you!
May 30, 2017
I'm 61 and counting! Thank you for the sweet compliments - I'll take all that I can get!
May 30, 2017
I agree, u look great! bd
May 24, 2017
I am so, so glad to hear you are continuing to do well! Yay! I can't wait to see your final results!
June 3, 2017
I still can't believe how well your incisions have healed. Mine are no where near that invisible! I am jealous!!! :)
June 3, 2017
ps shriekers are better maybe it was the chamber that improved healing all around?
June 4, 2017
I would not doubt that. The benefits of oxygen chambers are numerous!
June 4, 2017
I think my doctor deserves the majority of the credit for his incisions. Its one of the reasons I was drawn to him. He is meticulous with his stitching and I looked very closely at all of his patient photos and two of his patients I met in person. I couldn't see their stitching either. He made it a point to hide them right at my hairline on my face above my ear and then right on the edge of my ear - so that when they healed, they sort of disappeared into my hair and ear. The ones behind my ear are also hidden under my hair. I'm so excited to finally be wearing my hair up! I haven't worn my hair up and away from my face in years!!!! I was always too embarrassed of my neck - BUT NOT ANYMORE!!!! WOOOOHOOOO!!!
June 4, 2017
fabulous! enjoy buddy, oxoxo bd
June 4, 2017
Yay!!! That is SO much fun and I am so excited for you! Well, he did a FANTASTIC job on your scars.
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August 16, 2018
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I have sent you private message can you answer to me ?thank you so much
May 29, 2017
sooooo happy for you! u really did it the right way and with a small stumble did not panic. I am so impressed. good work and thx for sharing details, hugsbd
June 2, 2017
Hi, you look great. I am considering going in to see the same doctor for lower facelift/neck lift. May I ask what you paid ?
June 3, 2017
Call Dr. Sadati's office and speak with Janet. She will go over costs with you. You can even send her pictures and the doctor will review and give you an estimate. Worth every single cent and I would do it again in a heartbeat!
June 3, 2017
I did go in for a consultation w doctor, spoke w Janet etc... quoted me 15,500. I thought that was extremely high, curious what you paid??? Thx for tour reply, very much appreciated
June 3, 2017
Am always curious as to whether the doctor asks patients not to disclose what they paid. One of the highest rated PS on here with more than 150 facial surgeries has every patient with costs clearly stated. No guessing what others paid (and why would you want patients not to know what others paid?). Is he getting paid by the hr or based on degree of difficulty and not by the procedure?
June 3, 2017
I am anxiously awaiting reply as to how much she paid...
should be full disclosure
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June 3, 2017
It might be that some patients need more extensive work depending on their age, health, facial structure, what they want done, and amount of time it takes. I would think that plastic surgeons probably take all of that into account when deciding what to charge,
Hollypes said what he quoted her, so it was not a secret.
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June 3, 2017
I personally would not feel obligated to disclose what I paid. You can't compare all surgeries. Different methods are used for different patients.
June 3, 2017
She doesn't need to on my account~ just wondering why.
June 3, 2017
Well to use Dr Harley, for example, as a surgeon most are familiar with on RS. Seems to always charge 6400 for his Biltmore lift~ doesn't matter if the neck is heavy or not, if the person is 70 or only 40, if the jowls are very saggy or not.....same 6400 no matter what. Guess, for me, that kind of transparency is appealing.
June 3, 2017
I think disclosure is optional. it is not hard to call the doc and get an estimate. likely my mastectomy did not cost the same as my neighbors! just my opinion... bd
June 3, 2017
I totally agree Grace60
June 4, 2017
Hi Grace,
I can tell you my doctor (who has over 200 positive reviews here) never asked me not to disclose what I paid. It's 100 per cent my decision not to disclose this information because I don't really think its anyones business. I've shared on this site what I wish to share - which was I had a great surgery with a great outcome and I'd do it again in a heartbeat. I've tried to be polite to the few people that have asked me. I've shared that anyone interested in seeing my doctor can call him up, just like I did, and get a quote - just like I did. And yes, every patient IS different. My quote and what I paid was based on the work I wanted. Not everyone would be having the exact same procedures as I did. A neck lift may cost one amount, a lower face lift another amount, botox, laser, lipo, - all additional options. All I know is that its super easy for one to get their own quote by calling his office and why wouldn't someone do that if they were seriously interested in having the work done? We're not car shopping here - its facial surgery!
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June 4, 2017
Correct! I would not disclose the amount money I paid for surgery. If someone is generous enough to share their experience, thank you. Too many variables go into the doctors fees.
June 4, 2017
Shreeekers surgery was worth a fortune and she sure got your moneys worth!!! stay giddy!! oxoxo bd
June 4, 2017
Hi Lover and Barbie and thanks for your input.
Worth a fortune, yes! Did it cost me a fortune, no. I would never even think of asking someone how much they paid for something. I guess that's just the way I was brought up. I suppose I can understand people asking on this site but to imply that I was asked not to tell the cost by my doctor or that its not "full disclosure" is ludicrous. I would argue that full disclosure applies more to those posters that fail to post about their terrible outcomes, their deformed ears, their permanent scarring, their manipulated photographs. That's the kind of full disclosure that interests me.
June 4, 2017
just kidding about the fortune but not about the moneys worth! I have met an RS pal who based on this site also will see your doc in the near future. I cant wait to see her result. be well, bd
June 3, 2017
Hi Shreeker. You look great and so happy for you. I am curious as to whether the dr did liposuction on your neck and if that is why you were so bruised?
June 3, 2017
Hi Jac,
I did have lipo but only under my chin, not my neck. Saw my doctor yesterday and the bruising is more likely due to me being an ex-smoker! The bruising is very light now but still visible . I can cover it with makeup but I must remain patient for it to fully go away. IPL or a V beam laser might help even things out in the future. It's not awful - just looks like a slight rash.
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June 3, 2017
I would just let it resolve on its own. What's a little bruising...it is nothing. You look amazing.
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June 3, 2017
In fact, and I am not kidding you, and I have said it before, you look like a teenager.
June 4, 2017
Thank you so much. I really am so thrilled with the results that I'm acting a bit giddy like a teenager!
UPDATED FROM shreeeker
24 days post

Day 23

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Its only been 23 days since my lower facelift/neck lift and this is a photo of how my scars are healing around the front and back of my ears. Remember, I had the dreaded necrosis on the back of my ear and so my ears have been slower to heal. However, can you believe how faint the scars are from the stitching? Look at the photos of my stitches right after surgery and look at this just 23 days later! Its unbelievable!

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May 19, 2017
Wow! They have healed so well! Does your doctor have you do any scar regimen or just let them be once all the stitches and scabs were out? I am so excited for you!
May 19, 2017
My doctor gave me a silicon gel called SILAGEN that I've been using for about a week now. I had to wait until the scabs had healed. I just think its so remarkable that the scars from the stitching can heal and practically disappear so quickly. The body is an amazing thing.
May 19, 2017
I will look for that! I do have to wait for a little more crusting to disappear! Thank you!
May 19, 2017
You look so much younger. It's incredible how much of a difference fixing the neck makes. I'm 6weeks today into the healing of a facelift, fat transfer n neck lift. Its a long road. I'm still slightly more swollen on one side than the other. Every day it gets a little bit better. I live in new york and wish I had done this in the winter. My plan wasn't to tell so many people, but I had no choice. I looked like I had a severe allergic reaction to something cause my face blew up like a balloon. I was so scary looking. Now, I'm happy as I'm seeing the results. They're not even final yet. I won't see the final results for a few more months.
May 20, 2017
Agree 100% - fixing the neck makes an INCREDIBLE difference to ones overall appearance. I'm still swollen in my jaw area and under my chin. It still feels quite tight - and of course I still have some black and blue on my neck. I have no problem waiting this out because honestly, being swollen and black and blue is better then the ugly turkey waddle I was sporting prior! It may be months before everything has fully recovered but I can't even begin to express how happy I am that I had the courage to do it! I spent too many wasted years wanting this, thinking about it, worrying about it, researching it, going back and forth and literally just making myself crazy. Now that its over, I am so happy that whatever time it takes to get to the final result will be 100% worth it. Congrats on being 6 weeks out and being happy with your results!
May 23, 2017
Thanks, but you did the right thing researching everything. Plastic surgery, especially on your face, should not be taken lightly. There's always the potential for a screw up. And, as I've learned, it's quite impossible to hide your face for the most part. It's not always sunny out n I felt weird wearing sunglasses in stores. The face is just such an important part of how you feel about yourself. Good luck :)
May 20, 2017
Thank you for sharing your story. I am scheduled to have my surgery done in a week and a half and I am a nervous wreck! Dr. Sadati is my doctor and I trust him completely. It is just that I am such a coward when it comes to medical things and pain. And I am having a lot of trouble getting clearance because of my blood pressure being high. My blood pressure sores when ever it is taken by a doctor. When I take it at home it is low but sky rockets out of fear when a doctor takes it. I am freaking out that this might prevent my surgery. Did you have any problems with that before surgery? Any suggestions about what I can do to calm down before going to my doctor for clearance? You look gorgeous and I want my surgery more then ever after seeing your results!
May 20, 2017
Deb - I'm so glad you reached out. I can't imagine that there is anyone out there that could be more nervous then I was! I was a wreck - but I am here to tell you that you will get through this and you will be so surprised and THRILLED at how easy it was! When I have my blood pressure taken I uncross all body parts (legs/arms) and make a conscious effort to relax my body. I breathe slowly and I think about my favorite vacation spot. I imagine myself there, relaxing in the sun, feeling peaceful and serene. Don't think about the surgery when you're having your blood pressure taken -concentrate on thinking about peace, relaxation, serenity, beauty, love. Its all mind over matter. And to clarify, is it Dr. Sadati taking your blood pressure or another doctor? I ask because you will have taken a valium before if its Dr. Sadati and that should certainly help you feel calmer. Also, banish your thoughts about pain. I have felt no pain throughout this entire procedure. Nothing was painful - and remember, I even had a problem with necrosis during my recovery and that wasn't painful either. I wouldn't have even known I had it if not for Dr. Sadati being concerned at how my skin was healing. (And dont worry about that either - very rare and easily and swiftly resolved.) Follow Dr. Sadati's instructions - no coffee, chocolate, anything with caffeine the day before the surgery. If you're anything like me you will be out like a light for the surgery and they will be waking you up to say its time to go home. Please feel free to reach out if you have any other questions or concerns and do call Janet or Kay and let them know of your concerns. They were both very helpful to me.
May 20, 2017
Thank you so much for getting back to me! And thank you for your suggestions on lowering my blood pressure when it is being taken. I never would have thought of it. It's a good idea. Dr. Sadati is not taking my blood pressure. My medical doctor, who I do not get along with since his primary interest seems to be in protecting himself, is the one who needs to give me clearance for the surgery. His is the only one who has been a problem in this whole thing. Dr. Sadati's staff have all been wonderful! Janet called my general doctor to get clearance for me but they refused unless I come in and have the blood pressure taken at their office, but it is a catch 22 since my blood pressure always goes way up when he takes it, which of course makes me even more nervous! I didn't realize I could take a Valium before a blood pressure test. I did ask Janet about that but have not heard back from her. It is also very helpful to know that you got through all of this without pain and just some discomfort, although I know everyone is different and will have a different experience. I have never had anything done to my face besides Botox so this does seem a bit over whelming. I am so happy that I reached out to you and can have you and your experience to help me through this! Thank you so much! Deb
May 20, 2017
Shreeker is right about controlling your bp. It will be a factor that could disqualify you so practicing might be a great idea. She was nervous, I witnessed that and she overcame it! best luck, Sadati looks great! best barby doll
May 20, 2017
Thanks barby doll. I know how important this issue is and I plan to do what ever it takes to get it right! My surgery is May 31st. I do take medication for my blood pressure but it still goes up when I am nervous and doctors make me nervous! When I take it at home my blood pressure is very low. Deb
May 20, 2017
ahhh white coat syndrome! likely this will not impact surgery as shreeker said u have a great doc. my doc says I pay him to worry so just let him do that! best luck, bd
May 21, 2017
One of the staff at Dr.Sadati's office is the one who told me about white coat syndrome. I am sure that is the problem since when I take my blood pressure at home it is always low. I even did it for a week three times a day to make sure it was going to be OK. But all that goes out the window when a doctor take it. Dr. Sadati is the one that wants the clearance. I am already so nervous about the surgery, all of this extra stuff is really annoying. Thanks for the good wishes!
May 21, 2017
Hi Deb,
Do try the relaxation techniques - they work! I didn't mean to suggest you were allowed to take a valium before a blood pressure test with your doctor. That I dont know. I meant that Dr. Sadati had me take a valium the night before the surgery and the morning of the surgery so I was good and relaxed. I hope you can conquer that white coat syndrome!!! Good luck!
May 21, 2017
Thanks again for your advice. I intend to take it. I did ask Janet if I could take a Valium before the blood test but she hasn't replied yet. I will probably hear from her on Monday. As the surgery gets closer I get more and more nervous. I fluctuate between being excited that I will look better after the surgery, and then I catch my image in the mirror and I think I must be crazy doing the surgery, that I look fine and I really don't need it. But I do know that I am the kind of person who wants to look my best and so I just have to keep moving forward and get the courage to do this. I must really deep down want to do it because it is very important to me to keep moving forward and to get that blood pressure clearance. Thank you for your support and your well wishes. It is much appreciated! Deb
May 21, 2017
it was suggested that I take a few pics of my saggy face in bright lite and look at that when these "I'm ok" moments strike. it was a big help, I posted one of these before pics. best luck, bd
May 21, 2017
Great suggestion. Will do today at the beach! I know that you are right. I have seen my reflection in the mirror at times and I just want to scream! By the way, I have a kitty named Scarlett who looks a lot like your kitty!
May 21, 2017
ahhhh kitties are great comfort during the healing. she loves it when I'm sick cuz I lie down and stay still so she can cuddle, take care, bd
May 23, 2017
Hi shreeeker, Good news! I got my clearance from my doctor today and also the results of my blood tests. He said I am very healthy and I think he realized that I do have the white coat syndrome. Now I just have to stay healthy. The cashier at CVS today was so sick I didn't want to touch anything she rang up! Now that the blood pressure hurdle is done I don't need any more hurdles! Deb
May 23, 2017
Kitties are the best! I have two: Scarlett is the little girl and Jake is her brother. They are both so sweet! Also, I went to the doctor for my blood pressure clearance and I got it!!! Also got my blood test results and the doctor said I am very healthy according to the results. Whew! Now I just have to be courageous and keep on moving forward!
May 23, 2017
movin forward, good work and good luck, bd
May 23, 2017
Thank you for the kind words and support!
May 24, 2017
Fantastic news, Deb!!!! Please reach out and let me know how you're doing after your surgery. I'm very happy for you!
May 24, 2017
Thanks shreeker! I am very relieved. It was looking grim for awhile. But when I went in to see my doctor he was so nice and tried to do his best to calm me down. He and I were always butting heads in the past so it was a nice surprise to have us getting along for a change. As of today I will start taking the Arnica and stop drinking my wine. That is going to be hard for me as I usually have a few glasses of white wine in the evening to lull me to sleep. I still need to get my pillow to elevate my head. I did find two possibilities yesterday at Bed and Bath. One is a TV type pillow that looks like a chair that sits on the bed but it's straight up and down so it might not be too comfortable. The other one is at an angle and it is kind of a pad that sits you up but it's more like a recliner. Good for the back. Of course that one is twice as much as the other one. Any advice? My best girlfriend lives downstairs and she is going to watch my two kitties while I am having my surgery. They are less then a year old and the cutest little creatures on the planet. I will miss them a lot! And of course, I am scared and nervous about the surgery, which I guess is natural. I did tell my friends that I work out with about it since I will be gone for awhile and I am always there at the classes. I am so glad that I reached out to you about the surgery and that you replied. It has been a great help to me to be able to "talk" to you about all of this! Thank you. Deb
May 24, 2017
dear deb, sleeping elevated is important. it was a help to have something with arms so I did not roll to the side or sleep in the couch and pull the coffee table close. also melatonin was ok by my doc for sleep. even Benadryl which u may have to ask about. wishing you the best. warmly barbydoll. love those kitties!
May 24, 2017
Good to hear from you barbydoll! I took melatonin years ago when I had trouble sleeping and I have Benadryl here for my allergies so I think I will run that by my dr. to see if it's OK to use. Thanks for the suggestions. As to what I will get to sleep on, I am torn between the TV chair with arms as it is straight up and down and might be uncomfortable on my neck, or a wedge shaped roll out pad that goes along with the shape of the body. What do you think would be best? One of the hardest things for me will be not being able bend down and pick up my kitties. They are so adorable! Jake, the boy kitty, is an orange and white stripped tabby with yellow eyes and his sister Scarlett is black and gray with a big fluffy tail. I adore them. My surgery is a week from today and I am getting very nervous and very excited! Thanks for all of your help and concern! Much appreciated! Deb
May 24, 2017
as for kitties keep snack at your waist height and hand to kitties; they will come up for a treat so u don't have to lift them. maybe u do squats at the gym. those came in handy for me during recovery so I did not bend at waist and kept head up to scoop litter etc. as for the back. I would have found straight up much to hard to sleep. I used the wedge with one pillow on top which was the approximate height of 3 pillows which I was told is the recommended height. play with it a head of time. the travel neck pillow was very important to keep neck supported. give it a practice run tonight! wishing you all the best and looking forward to seeing u on the other side, hugs, bd
May 24, 2017
Deb - do figure out your sleeping arrangements as quickly as possible. Being able to fall asleep sitting up IS super important- and it ain't easy! Bed, Bath and Beyond sells another backrest/sitting up type pillow called the Crystal Faux Fur Backrest $24.99. If you can't afford to invest in a recliner (It was my saving grace and I'm still sleeping in it) I would go with the softer back rest from BB&B. You could supplement it with extra pillows and it will keep you upright and comfortable. Also, the soft, bean bag, neck pillow is a must have! Will your best friend be helping you the first couple of days? You definitely need someone to drive you to your surgery, pick you up, stay with you that first night and take you to and from your first appointment after the surgery when the drains are removed. And do follow all of Dr. Sadati's instructions. Give up the wine now so the meds do their job the day of the surgery! Don't be scared! (Easy for me to say now!) Just keep looking at your bad pictures and think about how happy you'll be when you don't look like those anymore! My "ugly" pictures were a great motivator for me. I pinned one up on my bathroom mirror so I could remind myself a few times a day how much I wanted this! Read all you can on Pre and Post Surgery tips in the forum section. It helps to be well prepared.
May 24, 2017
Thanks for the suggestions about the pillow possibilities. I am going to get that done today. Is the Crystal Faux Fur Backrest the one that looks like a chair with armrests? I saw that one there yesterday. The reason the recliner isn't right for me is that I live in a one bedroom apartment and there isn't any place to put it. The other thing they had was like a blanket type roll up that had a wedge at the top of it. That one was about one hundred ten dollars. I am not familiar with the bean bag neck pillow. Where can I purchase that? My husband is going to take care of me after the surgery. We live in Studio City so we will go to Newport Beach the day before and stay there for a few days. I am hoping he will be able to handle it. Also, I really don't want him to have to look at me like that but it can't be avoided. He thinks I am beautiful just the way I am. I really don't look bad, I have a bit of jowls, but my neck is starting to get loose and I have that awful double chin (like you I am thin so it's not from excess weight). I am in my sixties and I know this is the time to get this done. The other thing that is worrying me is I have a sore throat and I hope I am not coming down with a cold. I am especially worried because the lady at CVS who checked me out was sick as a dog! I disinfected everything she touched as soon as I got home but I do feel a bit under the weather today. Yikes! I will let you know what I end up getting today. Thanks for all of your helpful suggestions! Deb
May 25, 2017
Go to the BBB site online and put in a search for BACKREST. The first backrest you see should be the PLUSH Backrest Pillow. Its shown in a bright blue but comes in other colors and its $24.99. This is the kind of backrest I'm suggesting because its soft and pliable. You can add some regular pillows on each side of it or even behind it to keep yourself upright or at an angle. It's good your husband will be with you and you will be staying overnight. I did the same - went up the day before and stayed the night after but was looking forward to coming home after the drains came out the following day. You won't really feel like doing much those first few days - at least I didn't. Again, no pain but you will feel swollen and just kind of blah. You won't look that bad - just bandaged in the head wrap the first day and then after that you'll just be swollen and maybe black and blue. I've seen some women that didn't get black and blue but I sure did! I'm still black and blue around my neck. I'm not joking when I say I must be the slowest healer on the planet. My bruising is taking its ever loving time going away. I had no bruising on my face (well maybe a little near my jaw) and the stitches in front of my ears have already disappeared. The stitches under my chin were also not noticeable because he puts them in your natural crease. That scar is also fading quickly. Dr. S will give you some gel to put on your stitches when you go back for your one week visit. Oh - the bean bag neck pillow. If you can't find one at BBB you could always go over to the Burbank Airport and find one there. CVS might even have one. They are those travel pillows you wear around your neck on an airplane. Just dont get the kind you have to blow up. Get one that is filled with some kind of soft material so its comfortable and soft around your neck. Your ears will be sensitive because of the stitches so the neck pillow actually helps protect your ears. One last thing - get and bring with you a stool softener. You dont want to get backed up or have to strain after your surgery. You will be taking pain killers and antibiotics, etc which could affect your system. Better to be prepared then sorry! I got Senekot S - worked like a charm that first week after surgery. What day is your surgery?
May 25, 2017
My surgery is a week from Wednesday on May 31st. I am having second thoughts if I need the surgery or not. Everyone tells me I don't need it. I don't need a lot done, just a tweak here and there to lift and stop the sagging neck and face from getting worse! I did end up buying the wedge pillow for the surgery. It's made by Brookstone and it's really a good product. It's something that I can use after the surgery and recovery. The material is very soft and the wedge can be positioned to be a back rest and also a pillow to sleep on. It's the one I told you about at BBB for one hundred dollars. It will be good for my back as well once I have recovered from the surgery. They actually had a pillow there that was a bean bag pillow but it was eighty dollars which seemed ridiculous. And it was not like the ones that sit around the neck but a real pillow. I have been so over tired today I could hardly keep my eyes open. I do have a sore throat, so I am hoping that I am not coming down with anything! It could be stress or allergies. I just hope it isn't a cold! Tonight is my first night of not having my wine. It is such a habit for me. I just hope I can stick with it. I guess you have to refrain from drinking after the surgery as well. Guess I will just take it a step at a time and see how it goes. All that you have told me has been so helpful. I am truly grateful that I reached out to you and that you responded! I wouldn't have known where to start and what to do without your help. And just reading about your experiences makes me feel better knowing what to expect and that you got through it with flying colors! Once again, I thank you.
May 25, 2017
just a reminder that if u do come down with a cold u will need to cancel. not to scare u just to prepare u. try to relax, not too much time on this site as there are some stories that just raise the anxiety. keep looking at the "before" pics as a reminder assuming they show u in a light u don't like. glad u have your bed ready and are going off the wine in advance. truly this is not as hard as most project and the majority of us are thrilled with results fairly soon after surgery. keep the faith, bd
May 20, 2017
I am in the same time frame but still have a few dissolving stitches that are in. but since they are behind hairline I do not worry. Sadati does amazing Singer like stitching! so glad to see u finally enjoying recovery. Vancouver too. I have a bit of lumpiness where liposuction was done but doc said not to worry. ez for him to say! he did not suggest massage or heat so I will wait a bit before I request a quick hand holding visit. He has been so good accommodating my anxiety!!! So glad we are on the other side and can give a thumbs up to those about to take the plunge. u look great! enjoy, hugs, bd
June 4, 2017
I am looking at this picture of your scar lines and I am just in complete awe. Mine are looking nothing like yours. This is just an incredible scar line. Congrats!
UPDATED FROM shreeeker
20 days post

The slowest healer on the planet is starting to see results!

shreeeker
Although still black and blue in the neck area I have been able to cover with make up! Coming up on 3 weeks and FINALLY I'm seeing what a HUGE difference this surgery has made to my neck and face. No more turkey neck! No more wrinkles! No more jowls! I can't even begin to express how happy I am. Dr. Sadati is a genius.

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May 14, 2017
u look gorgeous, I'm sure u feel it is worth it but would have preferred quicker healing. sending a big mothers day hug, bd
May 14, 2017
Thank you, Barbiedoll! Yes, I do like instant gratification but it has all been worth it. Still more healing to do - but the worst of it now seems to be over and looking back, 3 weeks is hardly anything to get where I am today. I'll take it and I'll be forever grateful!!!
May 14, 2017
things will still change but u surely have a good sense now of the results. when the swelling went down I looked less alien but more wrinkled!!! I salute your courage, hugs, bd
May 15, 2017
I dont think you look wrinkled in your pics! I think your results have been fantastic. What are you talking about? Botox might be your friend if you give it a shot.
May 15, 2017
tx for the kind feedback, the facelift has surely addressed the lower face as expected but now the upper area is in contrast so it looks more wrinkled. I am tempted by botox for the 11s but the reports on RS have scared me about the side effects. I see this happens to many of us that when u fix a part then the unfixed part becomes more obvious but where does one draw the line!? I am still happy with my outcome. I got just what I wanted realistically. fantasy is yet another story. looking at the younger gals tends to make one imagine looking 40 again! anyway, so happy that you are finally in the home stretch, hugs, bd
May 15, 2017
facelift...by upper part are you talking about the forehead. I think that if everything below the forehead looks tight and wrinkle free you are very lucky ; when the cheek and mid face is nice and lifted as it appears in your pics, post swelling, that is really the look of youth!!
May 15, 2017
thanks Grace. I have always had a forehead expression with many lines. got it from dad and never minded til now! as for the 11s I had planned to get botox a few months before my surgery but this site had some very scary reports. I saw my doc today and he is happy to do botox and feels there is not a great risk with the small amount used between eyes and says it is a large molecule.. when I spoke of crossing the barrier to the brain but of course he said no drugs is are absolutely safe... so I will ponder but still happy. big thanks
May 14, 2017
Wow, wow, wow!!! Your jawline is that of a 16 year old! You have the cutest smile. I am serious! Beautiful! Hooray for being on the mend and healing!!!
May 14, 2017
Awww - thank you. I will take more close ups once the black and blue is totally gone. I am so thrilled. My family is so thrilled. I HATED being in any pictures for the last decade or so because of my neck. They were getting upset with me as I was always missing from the photographic memories of family and friends celebrations. Look out world - I might become one of those obsessed selfie posters! Ha ha -so darn happy.
May 14, 2017
Yay!!! :)
May 15, 2017
that's wonderful!!!!
August 16, 2018
Just reading through this all now and yes you have the cutest smile. The jaw line looks amazing but I would love to see your whole face- I bet you look beautiful x
May 15, 2017
I've done botox for 11's for years and never had a side effect. It really makes a big difference! Good luck whatever you decide to do!
May 16, 2017
I too have tried it 2 x but I read that is not assurance that u cannot react ... I think one must weigh the risks but sadly Allergan is big and we don't have all the info. I encourage others to share experience so we can be more informed.
May 15, 2017
Why dont you try one little test shot and see how you do? If you're going to have a bad reaction you'll know from that test shot. Have him do it in a not so obvious area just to make you feel more comfortable.
May 16, 2017
You look amazing!!! Wow!! So happy for you!!
May 16, 2017
Thank you! Very kind of you to say so. :)