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39 Yr Old, 2 Kids Via C Sections, 5.2 Height and 156 Lb - Bbl in NYC
UPDATED FROM RussianDollToBeSomeDay
10 days pre
Surgery is cancelled- my dreams collapsed :((
$9,600
My husband completely flipped out to the point of almost getting into the hospital with super High blood pressure because he was arguing and stressing with me over this surgery. Telling me to cancel or he will make it very difficult and knowing him he can make it difficult when he is pissed off. I had to postpone my surgery indefinitely. I am so sad. I cried most of the day because it was my dream, my desire and it was less than 2 weeks away, ugh. Of course I think I made the right decision because my husband and my family worth more than a nicer body but I am so upset. Maybe I am dreaming again but I want to work more on him, on convincing him to agree although deep inside I have little hopes. UGH!!!
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UPDATED FROM RussianDollToBeSomeDay
13 days pre
Drama, not sure what to do
I am 2 weeks exact from my bbl procedure. Husband has not been himself the entire weekend just to tell me today that he is considering leaving me if I move forward with the procedure. My balance is due today and I am so confused. All this time was not very supportive but he was giving me different reasons all the time. I know I don't want to loose my family over a nicer body but I want this surgery so much...
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N
April 25, 2016
Seriously? Wow...I'm sorry to day him but that is kinda selfish of him. Why doesn't he want u to have the procedure?
R
April 25, 2016
I was trying to understand myself what's the real cause. I don't think it's about $ because I am paying for it myself. Insecurity? Jelousity? Fear of risks? He is just telling me that the whole thing makes him uncomfortable. He doesn't understand why I want or need it. Saying I am setting a bad examples to my 7 and 9 years old daughters. I am so pissed. I got clearance letter, blood work, bbl pillow, creams, vitamins, faja etc all ready. My surgery is may 9 at 8 am. I really don't want to cancel. But my husband worth more. Why do I have to make thus gard decision
P
April 25, 2016
Omg!! So sorry ur stressing. Why wait till now and you might not get a refund now either???? I know you love him but this is something you want to do, I question myself cause u have a daughter if I'm setting the wrong example by having my surgery. I believe I have to do it for me to be a better me and in turns that's makes me better for my daughter. It's all about you and ur happiness.
L
April 25, 2016
Hey its me again :-) I hate to hear how unsupportive your husband is and just to think that he would be considering leaving you over this I know is frustrating and hard to believe due to the fact that you both made vows for better or for worse. He needs to understand that this surgery is something you are going to do to be happier with yourself. You came this far and he shouldn't try to hold you back. If you don't go through with this it might be a regret and something later on you'd wish you had done. We don't want to live with regrets in life honey. Be completely straightforward with him and I think you guys should really have a heart to heart! Either way please keep us updated. Good luck. My prayers are going out to you.
N
April 25, 2016
And even if you decide not to go through with it....don't you think it still will have an effect on your marriage because you are not happy with yourself?.....just sayin.
R
April 25, 2016
I am happy regardless of my flaws. I never had a beautiful body anyways, but God gave me other things to be happy with. I am concerned with having a long lasting grudge to my husband that will affect our relationship. I don't like to be treated as a child, ugh
N
April 26, 2016
Hey luv!! I meant not happy with yourself because you decided not to do the procedure...I can't imagine what it would be like to have that support. Sounds like you really have to sit down and tell him how you feel. Best wishes and God Bless.
R
April 26, 2016
Hello Doll,
I'm so sorry about your situation. I understand and can relate. My husband showed no interest or support. But before I decided to have my procedure I made a vow to myself that I would not let people discourage me. This was something that I have always wanted, and all my life I took care of my family and put them first. It is time for me to do me. Only a select few family and friends were told....to avoid negativity. I even tried to include my spouse by asking his opinion with regards to my wish pics....he had no interest. When he realizef how serious I was and planning to go through with it....he came around. Its a hard position to be in....but keep in mind because this is important to you and you cancel....it may cause some tension in your marriage. I would have a real heart to heart with him and explain that your family is essential to you....but this is important to you as well....and it would mean a great deal if he supported you.
I'm so sorry about your situation. I understand and can relate. My husband showed no interest or support. But before I decided to have my procedure I made a vow to myself that I would not let people discourage me. This was something that I have always wanted, and all my life I took care of my family and put them first. It is time for me to do me. Only a select few family and friends were told....to avoid negativity. I even tried to include my spouse by asking his opinion with regards to my wish pics....he had no interest. When he realizef how serious I was and planning to go through with it....he came around. Its a hard position to be in....but keep in mind because this is important to you and you cancel....it may cause some tension in your marriage. I would have a real heart to heart with him and explain that your family is essential to you....but this is important to you as well....and it would mean a great deal if he supported you.
V
April 28, 2016
I so agree!:) i feel that when people are so fiercely against you doing something to better yourself, it is usually an underlying issue going on. However...You must make yourself happy before anyone else! I would be willing to bet that once he sees your results, he would change his tune! Good Luck;)
UPDATED FROM RussianDollToBeSomeDay
20 days pre
Pre-op
my pre-op with dr. D went great! He was very easy to talk to and he seemed very nice. He took a few naked pictures of me and viewed my wish pictures. He expects great results! I'm keeping my fingers crossed. although he will be performing my surgery in his Medical Center in NYC, he said he will take out 5 liters of fat and planning to lipo all my unwanted fat out. he is thinking to give me approximately 2500 cc. I was thinking more like 1500cc. wondering if 2500 cc is too much for my height. I am 5.2. thought ladies? ?
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X
April 22, 2016
Good luck when is your surgery mine is may 13th
R
L
April 22, 2016
No 2500 cc is not too much for your height. I'm 5'3 and I weigh 125 I plan on gaining 30 pounds in time for my procedure. Want to be at least 155 so I can only hope to get that much fat put in from Dr. D. I'd rather get more than less due to the fact that some of your fat will be reabsorbed and the ever so famous booty greed! Seems like a lot on paper but you may see it differently when it's put into your butt, the swelling starts to go down and your results become more pronounced. You are going to look wonderful. Waiting on the outcome.
R
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I'm sorry you are dealing with this. You should read through some of the comments on this blog post, I think you might find some support:
https://www.realself.com/blog/husbands-hate-plasti...