My MTF SRS Journey

Sorry guys for all of the typos in my original Post. I was typing very fast and was very emotional. Now that I’ve had time to settle down emotionally i can speak with a clear mind. I am not here to discredit anyone. Im just here to help the next girl. As I’ve previously reported I’m very unhappy with my Vagina (if I can even call it that) it doesn’t look remotely like one in my opinion. I am currently in the process of seeing a revision I was recommended a Dr in NY I have a consultation in March I will gladly take you guys on this journey with me if you would like to
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I would like to first say that I'm sharing MY PERSONAL JOURNEY . I am just one person to the many that Dr Kathy Rumer has operated on. First thinking's first I hear lots of complaints about her bed side manners in my opinion she was perfectly fine and attentive to me I have no issues there . My issues are more cosmetic .

At first sight I was very swollen and to be seen to look pretty normal and as expected however the swelling started to go down pretty quickly as soon as my first post op appointment with Dr. Rumer I noticed something was a little off. My left and right labia were two completely different sizes. I brought this issue up to Dr. Rumer and she told me that that would be natural with the swelling going down I should wait six months before things will start to look remotely normal. Which was fine I was willing to do so still in the back of my mind I had my doubts one because I am very in tuned with my body. I know how my body heals this was not my first surgery I tend to swell very minimally and when I do the swelling goes down very quickly however I know Dr. so I listen to her recommendations. Still feeling not so easy about my new vagina I brought this issue back up to her also I felt like other things internally were off as well so I focused on those issues my problem with Dr. Rumer was that she pushed everything aside she never once considered what I was sayingShe only pretty much forced me to take whatever was going on and follow her advice so because I wanted to give it an honest effort I listened.Now I have seen plenty of vagina before I know that I should have a clitoris a clitoral hood labia majora a labia minora However I felt like I was the missing quite a few of those key parts. I brought these issues up to her again and she once again asked me to just let things heal here I am a year later fully healed And as you can see I have no clitoris or hood And my labias basically fuse into one another. The same issues as I noticed as little as a month after getting surgery. I honestly feel like Dr. Rumer is not very experienced with trans surgeries. And feel like she's only in it for the money not for the best outcome. I wouldn't recommend anyone that I know or that is considering surgery with Dr. Rumer to go to her