Don’t Schedule Consultation Unless You Have Thick Skin

I had a consultation with Dr. V on March 11, 2026, at 8:00 a.m. The office was nice, and the drive there wasn’t too bad. However, my first impression of Dr. V was not positive. I paid a $200 consultation fee, and during the appointment he commented that I have a “big body.” That comment felt unnecessary and dismissive.

After having twins and two other boys, I’m well aware that my body has changed. The reason I scheduled the consultation was to discuss my goals and what I hope my body could look like after having children. I’m very active—I run marathons, work out regularly, garden, and stay busy outdoors with my kids every day.

Instead of feeling supported in discussing my goals, I left the appointment feeling judged and discouraged, which was disappointing given that I was seeking professional guidance.