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34 year old mom ready to love her body again.
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34 year old mom ready to love her body again.
$8,400
I have a complete mom body and I hate looking at myself naked. My ex husband told me no one was every going to love me because of the way I look. He told me I had saggy boobs and ass. How could anyone want to see me naked. Of coarse his words are still stuck in my head. When I see myself naked that’s all I see. My bf is amazing and tells me all the time that I’m attractive and he loves me just the way I am. Unfortunately, I am still afraid to let him see me naked because I think he’ll end of leaving me. I’ve decided to take this journey for my self esteem and self love. I’m tired of hiding behind clothes to feel better. I’m ready for a new me.
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December 2, 2018
Hi RedQueen3, I do understand how you feel about yourself, my ex made me feel the same. I am also having a MMO, scheduled 01/07/19 to help my self esteem. Like you, I am doing this for me and NO man. Your body is close to how my body like, I will be checking back with you after your surgery, keep us posted and I wish you well with Great results.

December 2, 2018
Thank you FinallyMe6 - I’m nervous and excited to be on this journey. I will definitely post pics after surgery. We’re having surgery 3 days apart!! How exciting. He’s to an awesome 2019 and a speeding recovery for us!

December 18, 2018
Your extra skin will automatically go bye bye after your tummy tuck. I can't wait to see your results. My ex told me almost word for word hateful things about why he's the only one who could handle seeing me naked. His words sunk my self esteem. This is what I call payback lol.
UPDATED FROM RedQueen3
2 months pre
Doubtful
I’ve been looking at a lot of before and after pics and sometimes I feel like my expectations of my results are too high. I’m doubtful that it’ll be a drastic difference once I have my lipo and TT. I’m excited about my surgery but then I’m worried if it’ll be the change I’m expecting.
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November 22, 2018
You’re confidence will definitely go way up when you get the mommy makeover believe it! I’m so sorry you’re ex had said those horrible things to you but just know you’re making a step to improve your appearance to feel attractive again. Just know you have to love yourself first before you feel comfortable with someone loving you. I know your pain because I have self esteem and I don’t feel confident in the mirror but once you make the changes to love yourself 100% then your life will be so much happier. Good luck on your journey doll
UPDATED FROM RedQueen3
19 days pre
Getting nervous
So, I’ve been stress eating and I’ve gained weight instead of losing. Gotta get on it ASAP!! I go in for my blood work on Saturday. It’s become more real now. I’m nervous but finally getting excited!! Wish me luck!!! Also if anyone has any suggestions on how to lose some weight fast feel free to give me a few pointers.
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December 15, 2018
I bought Progesive Light soup. I had that for lunches for about 4-5 days. They have so much variety. For breakfasts, its always egg whites Light 100 cal english muffin and a cup of coffee. Dinner I eat what everyone else, just in half portions. Water with Lunch and Dinner. After your surgery, stay away from anything carbonated( sodas, sparkling stuff) because you'll be having lots of gas pain. Just buy a 40 pack water bottles from walmart. I've been drinking it nonstop since it's the only drink in our hotel room

December 16, 2018
I’m going to follow this plan! Thank you for the tips. I love sparkling water and would of probably bought some - thank you!!
Thank you for starting your review I know it can be hard to take that step. I wish you luck on your journey to self love! Be sure to check in here to connect with other community members preparing for their surgery. Good luck and be sure keep us posted.