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BettyM
UPDATED FROM BettyMueller
2 years post
Me 2 Years Later
WORTH IT$12,954
Just hopping on to post some 2 year anniversary photos. I can still see my scars clearly, but then I didn't have great skin to begin with so this is no surprise. My doc did an awesome job with the placement of the incisions. I'm happy.
No regrets here. Good luck to everyone taking the leap.
No regrets here. Good luck to everyone taking the leap.
UPDATED FROM BettyMueller
7 months post
Almost 7 months post op Here I am and I really...
Almost 7 months post op
Here I am and I really wasn't going to post. But then I thought of myself before I had this done and I wouldn't have gone through with the whole thing if it wasn't for those who had taken the time to post. I think, though, that this will be my last.
Things are good here. Would I do it again? Absolutely. Did it suck? Absolutely. Did I panic, and worry, and question my decision constantly before, up to, during, and after I had it done? Absolutely.
When I look back I think that I got really lucky in terms of my doctor. I didn't do as much research as I should have. I had spoken to a friend ONE TIME and they told me this guy was good. Six months later I was in his office for my consult, where I was less then impressed. I was FREAKING OUT. Why wasn't he? I couldn't understand. Now I see. He was confident. He wasn't cocky. He knew his stuff. Thank the LORD. I went back for one other consult with him and that was it. I was in. I didn't bother to check anyone else out. I am really lucky he was who he said he was. I think that was one thing I probably should have done better--researched my options. But now, with my results what they are (AWESOME), I am glad I did end up with Dr. Leigh. He was the doctor for me. I've seen so many people with results they are not happy with. The angels must have been watching over me.
One thing I couldn't have done without is this site. It was my rock. It was the place I could research, ask questions, and weigh my pros and cons with like-minded people. It made me feel secure. No one judged me here. I was normal. I am thankful for it.
I love the results from my TT, BL, and BA. They are EXACTLY what I wanted. I even was wearing a two-piece this summer and didn't give a care if people saw my stretch marks (which btw are still in residence and things I've grown to LOVE). The scarring is also still there. And I think I said it in an earlier post, I love my scars too. They are part of me and make me who I am.
I've seen so many people doubting the size of implant they wanted to go with. I've seen people wishing they would have gone bigger after. I am not one of those people. I had doubts about getting the implants but I'm definitely glad I did. The small ones are wonderful. So far haven't seen any creases or lines from the saline implants anywhere. They are natural for me--nice and small. :) For the first time in a long time I love my body. It's the best feeling.
One thing that hasn't improved much is the numbness around the incisions. I don't know if it'll ever come back. And to be honest, I really don't care. My sex life is better despite it--WAY better. My husband can't keep his hands off of me and I don't mind! I'm not pushing him away because I'm embarrassed and not comfortable about how I look naked. I'm really glad I didn't tell people what I was doing. It wasn't anyone's business. People couldn't blatantly tell, and I am glad I'm not being judged for it over and over again. It was something I did for me and I do not regret it one bit.
So that's it for me. Life moves on--happily! Sometimes, in the beginning, I would think that I was going to be obsessing about my procedures for the rest of my life. Thankfully, I'm over myself! :) I do think about the maintenance I'll probably have to do on my implants in 10 years. Knowing what I know now, I can cross that bridge when I get to it. Sending calm, happy, and healing thoughts and feelings to everyone on this site wherever you are in your journey. All my best!
Here I am and I really wasn't going to post. But then I thought of myself before I had this done and I wouldn't have gone through with the whole thing if it wasn't for those who had taken the time to post. I think, though, that this will be my last.
Things are good here. Would I do it again? Absolutely. Did it suck? Absolutely. Did I panic, and worry, and question my decision constantly before, up to, during, and after I had it done? Absolutely.
When I look back I think that I got really lucky in terms of my doctor. I didn't do as much research as I should have. I had spoken to a friend ONE TIME and they told me this guy was good. Six months later I was in his office for my consult, where I was less then impressed. I was FREAKING OUT. Why wasn't he? I couldn't understand. Now I see. He was confident. He wasn't cocky. He knew his stuff. Thank the LORD. I went back for one other consult with him and that was it. I was in. I didn't bother to check anyone else out. I am really lucky he was who he said he was. I think that was one thing I probably should have done better--researched my options. But now, with my results what they are (AWESOME), I am glad I did end up with Dr. Leigh. He was the doctor for me. I've seen so many people with results they are not happy with. The angels must have been watching over me.
One thing I couldn't have done without is this site. It was my rock. It was the place I could research, ask questions, and weigh my pros and cons with like-minded people. It made me feel secure. No one judged me here. I was normal. I am thankful for it.
I love the results from my TT, BL, and BA. They are EXACTLY what I wanted. I even was wearing a two-piece this summer and didn't give a care if people saw my stretch marks (which btw are still in residence and things I've grown to LOVE). The scarring is also still there. And I think I said it in an earlier post, I love my scars too. They are part of me and make me who I am.
I've seen so many people doubting the size of implant they wanted to go with. I've seen people wishing they would have gone bigger after. I am not one of those people. I had doubts about getting the implants but I'm definitely glad I did. The small ones are wonderful. So far haven't seen any creases or lines from the saline implants anywhere. They are natural for me--nice and small. :) For the first time in a long time I love my body. It's the best feeling.
One thing that hasn't improved much is the numbness around the incisions. I don't know if it'll ever come back. And to be honest, I really don't care. My sex life is better despite it--WAY better. My husband can't keep his hands off of me and I don't mind! I'm not pushing him away because I'm embarrassed and not comfortable about how I look naked. I'm really glad I didn't tell people what I was doing. It wasn't anyone's business. People couldn't blatantly tell, and I am glad I'm not being judged for it over and over again. It was something I did for me and I do not regret it one bit.
So that's it for me. Life moves on--happily! Sometimes, in the beginning, I would think that I was going to be obsessing about my procedures for the rest of my life. Thankfully, I'm over myself! :) I do think about the maintenance I'll probably have to do on my implants in 10 years. Knowing what I know now, I can cross that bridge when I get to it. Sending calm, happy, and healing thoughts and feelings to everyone on this site wherever you are in your journey. All my best!
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That was a great update!!
B
Thank yoouuu! I read your page earlier today before I posted to check in. It had been a long time since I've visited this site and I don't get the updates in email like I used to. I hope you are doing well, too. Time is flying here. I can't believe we're in mid-October. Big hugs and thank you's to you. It's a pleasure to know you and thanks for all of your words. Couldn't have done it without you!
Betty
Thanks for posting. I am just now 2 months PO and I like to hear from those who have gone before me to see how things are going. You look really great.
Thanks Lynda. Those photos are fairly old. But honestly at this point I can't bring myself to take another naked photo--camera shy. :) I peeked at your profile. You look GREAT. Your incisions look so good--clean. I had to look twice to see if he made an incision around your areolas--it was hard to tell. :) And isn't it good to stand upright? Good luck on your journey! It's exciting. :)
I understand about the pics....I have a seven & eight week PO pic to post and that will probably be my last for awhile...thanks for the compliment ...I can't believe how smooth and light my breast scars are..I will admit I was the most concerned about them.. I agree with all the points you made !!! Hopefully the numbness will be gone by one year !! Keep Smiling & Livin Large : )
Love, love, love your post op update. I always wonder how people feel long after it's done about their decision. I think it's good to see that the benefits of feeling good about yourself and how that benefits your loved ones last for a very long time. I'm sure any future posts would be welcomed and appreciated. Thank you for updating. You look awesome!
Thanks Lady. I checked on you. Great profile. You sound like you're doing well for so early in the process. That is AWEsoMe! I'm hypothyroid too. I know how frustrating that can be. Maybe I'll come back at a year and post. I recently read that there are still improvements between months 6 and 12. We'll see... I'm skeptical. And besides, how much better can it get? :) Thanks again for your words. Remember to be good to yourself! -Betty
Thanks for your 7 month postop post! I often look on here for women that are 6 months to years postop because I would like to have an idea of where I may be at at that point. I too am wondering when the day will come where I won't wake up thinking about what i just went thru. Your post gives me hope:) Thanks again and you look great by the way!
UPDATED FROM BettyMueller
3 months post
3 months My monthly anniversary is here already....
3 months
My monthly anniversary is here already. Things are stable and good. I'm taking full advantage of summer and have dived back into working out. I run, bike, and weight train at least 5 days a week--sometimes 6. I still haven't built up the stamina to run my 4 mile route. My goal is to have that down by fall. On the up side, I'm doing WAY more weight training then I did prior to my procedures.
Good things:
-I have to do a double take in the mirror when I have a regular tank top on--no spare tire to constantly have to remember to suck in.
-I feel beautiful and at peace.
-Confidence has received a huge boost.
-Bedroom activity level is on the RISE!
-Stomach sleeping has re-commenced.
-I am now, once again, able to ponder the age old questions: To tuck? or Not to tuck?
-I wore a two piece showing the belly for the first time in YEARS. Was able to tan my stretch marks a bit.
-My weight is leaning more toward 135 then 140.
I'm grateful for this journey.
My monthly anniversary is here already. Things are stable and good. I'm taking full advantage of summer and have dived back into working out. I run, bike, and weight train at least 5 days a week--sometimes 6. I still haven't built up the stamina to run my 4 mile route. My goal is to have that down by fall. On the up side, I'm doing WAY more weight training then I did prior to my procedures.
Good things:
-I have to do a double take in the mirror when I have a regular tank top on--no spare tire to constantly have to remember to suck in.
-I feel beautiful and at peace.
-Confidence has received a huge boost.
-Bedroom activity level is on the RISE!
-Stomach sleeping has re-commenced.
-I am now, once again, able to ponder the age old questions: To tuck? or Not to tuck?
-I wore a two piece showing the belly for the first time in YEARS. Was able to tan my stretch marks a bit.
-My weight is leaning more toward 135 then 140.
I'm grateful for this journey.
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Just checked in on you and was really pleased to read your uplifting post. Good for you! I continue to drop pounds...slowly but surely...and am at 122 now. My bl scars drive me crazy (itchy, red, sore) and I have to wear a compression bra pretty much 23 hours a day which is a huge disappointment, BUT I am sincerely pleased with how I look for the first time in way over a decade! You look so good, the breast size is perfect and I am happy for you.
Thank you so much Mothera8. HOLY COW 122 is amazing. Congratulations on that! Why the compression bra? My bl scars are a little bothersome, but not horrible. I suspect that if I had feeling back they would be worse. But everything--including the majority of my stomach--is still pretty numb.
without the compression bra I have tearing chest wall pain. The scars are red and irritated due to their unfortunate location right in the crease where every bra rubs them raw. I did talk to the p.s. about it but he said to wait...so I wait. Mine are not at all numb, like the t.t. scar. They itch. I know I should take some sort of action but with the cancer treatments going on just havent had the stomach for anymore self inflicted pain!! I am trying to be...I am...happy overall. I thought if they still pull and hurt at one year p.o. that I will go in for a revision or something. Thanks for asking. :-)
You look phenomenal with your super flat tum!!
Thanks unique! I just checked your profile and you look WONDERFUL. Your TT and BL/AUG look really good--really natural. How are you feeling?
You look great Betty! I would just caution not to let sun hit scars--I was told not to for the first year because sun will permanently darken them. I super-sunscreened them when I was in Vegas and my tummy got weird blotchy from the heat--I guess because the nerves are still regenerating?
Thanks Sister! I agree. I keep my scars covered. Stretch marks are another story. If I wanted to keep those covered I would have to wear a snowmobile suit to the beach. My stomach gets blotchy too, in the sun. I chalked it up to not being fully healed. The blotchies went away when I came in from outside after a few hours.
Hope you are doing well. Thanks for checking in. :)
Hope you are doing well. Thanks for checking in. :)
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