45 Y/o Ready for my Mommy Makeover! - Minneapolis, MN

I had my first baby at 19. I gained over 60 lbs. at only 5'0 I was a walking watermelon! My oldest daughter turned 25 this year and I knew it was my time. I had 4 consults over the span of 4 years. I am the mother of 7 children total, with 4 at home and youngest being 2. My kids are a mix of natural, step and adopted. I gave birth to two of them. I am comfortable with my decision to do something for myself though tinges on guilt sweep over me ever now and again.

I think I'm ready...at least supply wise. I made a huge list and broke it down into time frame. Lists calm me. Having control over some aspects calms me.
My hubby is freakin out. He's afraid he will pass out ( he's been known too) when he sees me in pain, bandaged up and blood in drains. I'm considering getting a private nurse the first night as we have to stay in a hotel for two nights. The nurse is more for hubby than me, is that ridiculous or what? I'm attaching my wish pics. I'll being putting my be fired on soon today.

Taken about two weeks ago.