41 / 4 Kids / Wanted to Be Normal Again.

If I could go back and undo the procedure I would … all lubrication is gone and it is part of the surgery to no longer get naturally lubricated though bartholin glands . You must rely on Lube . It sucks . I just wanted to be normal again , and yes it’s tight but have to apply lube throughout intercourse . It’s just not worth it for me.

So I went to my 6 weeks post op last week and my doc cleared me to “attempt” intercourse. Because of all the reviews I saw if women being too tight or not being successful I decided to try it my self with dilators 1st so I could know what to expect before I tell my BF I was cleared. So for 3 days I did 2 different sizes one average sized which was the most comfortable & . Holy smokes I could immediately tell that Yes , it was very very tight but I used lotsa lube to make sure it would go in smooth, day 2 I used the same average size and day 3 I tried the largest size but couldn’t get that one all the way in. My BF is large so I wanted to see what the worse case scenario might be. In Short , we finally tried last night and were successful and it - was - great !! Definantly use lube the 1st time ! He also felt a huge difference . I’m glad I tried it my self 1st so I could know what to expect and to maybe help loosen up just a tad ? Oh and a few cocktails helped too :)

I have no pain but still have swelling and sutures that are still in the dissolving stages . I looks forward to everything being back to “normal” again. I will be slowly starting to work out again . I have not attempted intercourse as of yet and I am in no hurry . I hope to be able to hold off another 2-3 weeks before attempting . My plan is to try a dilater 1st in order to get an idea of what I can tolerate . Will update again in a couple weeks on intercourse .