2 more consults complete.....I think I found the one

I been on this forum for a while. Haven't post anything in a while. I don't know if I am selfish or what. I stop posting because me and the hubby was getting in some bad arguments over me want a mm and how he is not for any unnatural ness . I left the topic alone for a year reintroduced it back to him and here we go again. It not want he wants. We been together 19 years, 6 kids and u would think that he would be like go for it or not. I am 33 , not having any more kids, a professional career and accomplish. I just feel I should do something for myself and say F.... It. But I always feel guilty about how he feels and set things aside. My question is should I just do it anyway with the risk of complication in our marriage or just forget all about it? The last thing he said to me was " do what ever makes u feel happy, but I am not support you at all. It is what it is and we will never be on the same page it seems. We would just do what makes us happy now.

So...I been so hectic with the holidays...I have been following a lot of post on here and watching their transformation ....such an inspiration.......I been really thinking hard about the MM...I want it more then every now...after finding this forum..real people with real life experience similar to me. Well my hubby who is totally again the MM ask me last night....do the women on the forum tell u what there hubby's think and how do they feel? Because his friend told him they feel hard like a balloon. I was really surprise he ask me anything about the procedure. does this mean he is thinking about it? Hmmmmmmmm...I hope. Well to all you ladies silicone or saline what does your husband say about how your breast feel? Please give me details..Thanks and Happy New Year!

Well....I started my Mommy makeover consultation....( so excited). I been debating over the years should I get a Mommy makerover or not. Well...after 6 kids ...I so want my body back. I look so youthful in the face, but my breast looks like saggy prunes and my tummy looks like a brain....lol. My husband has been so against it, but he was to the point he did not want to discuss it and even threaten to leave. He surprise me today when he decided to ride with me to Dr. Hochstein office, but he said he would wait in the car. So the office is a pleasure to wait in and staff very welcoming. I got there 10 mins late, but did not wait long to see him. So we discuss what I want which is a large B/ C-. I am right now a 34 B deflated, I think. I brought some pics for what I wanted and he said.....what you are looking for is a small C, which is 300 cc and he recommended I go with silcone. I was thinking like 250 or 275 cc. I hope that does not look to big on me. My weight is 137 lbs, 5'7 and bra size at the moment is a deflated 34 b. I am looking for average size natural look.....but small, cute and perky. My tummy he says will look great because my stretch marks are all below my belly button, so I won't have any( me inside YEAH!). The only thing I was excepting is one incision at tummy tuck area, but he said I would need a lollipop approach to do the lift. Because I am African American I am afraid of the scars on my breast. That is something new I learned today. Dr. Hochstein was my first consult and I plan on consulting with 3 more doctors, before I make my mind up......I am so excited, about my new journey, I just want to educate my self as much as possible and make the best decision. Dr. Hochstein is very professional and kind, but he is not a big talker very reserve like, he answered all my question and I did not feel rush. Michelle his assistant is very open, cheerful and sweet. As far as price they quoted me at $11,450 but they are going to try to work on the numbers for me. I will see what they can best offer me and let's see why happen. That my experience with Dr. Hochstein.....now it's off to go set my next consult..... Any suggestion of great MD in Miami ? Thank you for reading my post