2 Kids Later I Am Ready to Get This Show on the Road

This is long so I apologize in advance.

I have debated about putting my story on here for years. That's how long I have been wanting to have this procedure done. After reading everyone else's path to get here I thought it was almost a requirement to do so. When someone wants to complain it's easy for them to take the time because they are mad. They are wanting to hurt someone's business so they attack them. When in all honestly it seems a lot of the dissatisfaction with the BBL is not the drs fault at all. This is not every case before I get attacked but when I read the garment was too tight so I just didn't wear it and now I have lumps or my friend ps did it this way so I did it that way and now it look
Bad. You research for the best...trust him or her and do what they say. It's work not sitting on my bottom Has been a chore but I love my results and I can suffer a bit for that. As they say nothing in life that free or easy is worth having.

A few things I figure I will hear a lot soon is this:

1. "You took the easy way out" all because I didn't hit the gym daily...and maybe that's true but as a single mom with 2 full times jobs, 2 children and 4 dogs my extra time is very little and what time I have I rather spend with my kids than at a gym. Plus, my kids activities keep me out past my bedtime as it is. Lol
2. "You were skinny and tons of people would have loved to have your body." Yes, I was skinny I have been my whole life. "Skinny as a rail" or "pencil thin" and yes I have always been thankful for that I also do have to exercise to stay thin. I work in a warehouse that has no air and 100 degree temps make loosing weight a little easier. I can gain 20 pounds easily and then I can lose it easily. I have been this way my whole life. I stay between 170 - 150 and yet....I still have no bottom at all and still have the rolls and major love handles. No matter what I do. I didn't even wear underwear bc they would not stay up.
3. I was shaped like a box. I was a straight line from under my arms to past my hips. In fact I had no hips at all. I hated dressing up and I hated swim suits because the only shape I did have was the love handles when I was in anything form fitting.
So, I did it. I decided I was going to do it. Only a very few, close friends and family know. I searched for a dr for over a year. My plan was do do it in the town I lived closest to. There is a dr here that has great reviews. Most love him and I met with him 2 times. I always left just not feeling comfortable. I never could put my finger on it.. he was never out of the way. Never rude but I did feel like he was not putting too much time into anyone till they put down a deposit. I would have rather paid for a consultant and felt important than to feel I was wasting his time. Luckily I had a 2 week trip come up for me to go to Miami. There I decided I would do it. Miami is the plastic surgery go to right?? . So, that's when it got serious.

Before