22 Year Old Change Needed - Miami, FL

I would get a definite date... and put money onit.. or u may be waiting into sept.. or nov...

He books up quick so lock a date in ASAP

Welcome to RS and congratulations! What's your height?

Congrats on your choice :) ! I'm booked with him on July 18th and I have about 40lbs. To lose still :-/ yikes! I did hear about the HCG diet though. I heard you lose a pound a day. I'm doing a cleanse. Wish me luck :) !! I'll be following your journey ... And good luck to you :-)

Good luck honey, I wish u the best. Congrats on ur choice of PS! He's awesome. If u need a list of items check out my blog.

Hey chic ... I'm sorry your felling down :-( but honestly, my boyfriend said the same thing to me at first. He said this whole thing is going to break us up . Now he is supporting me , he really does not want me to get it done ... NO ONE does ...My mom/ family, no one !! But you really just have to be strong hun. That is all about his insecurities. He will eventually come around. You need to do what makes you happy!! It's your life, your body & u have to live in it. So keep your head up and don't let him mess with your emotions. Love is supporting and accepting! If anything else... You know we are here to support you and the beauty of this site is for support. Because we are all going through the same situations. There is always someone on here who can relate to someone's story. Be confident in your choice. Don't let know one bring you down. You obviously know what you WANT, because you are looking into it. So stick with it and we are here if you need us baby girl. Sending support your way :-)

When I met my Fiance I told him one day I would be getting plastic surgery and he acted like it was no big deal...(I don't think he really believed me) and 3 years later when I started really talking allot about it he told me flat out that he would leave me if i ever did it ...pissed off ...depressed...and emotional are an understatement of how I actually felt inside about that ...so I decided that I was going to put myself first and that if my outside appearance or the fact of me getting surgery was enough for him to go then he never really loved me to begin with and he can leave ...But regardless I'm doing it for me... this year I am actually doing it ...and talking to him now about it most of the time is nice and peaceful... but there are moments when I say something and get the eyeroll effect or that sarcastic shake of the head etc... and even I know deep down that he is not thrilled about the whole idea.. I also now see that he has made a huge efforts to try to be as supportive as possible now ...everything from helping me booking the hotel room to making sure ill be comfortable after and taking the kids out etc.... he listens to me now ... its still awkward sometimes when I show him pics of like wish pics etc ... especially for the breasts (we have very different taste on the breasts) and I'm standing on firm on getting what I want... but on the booty I am pretty sure we are 100 percent in agreement with his OK then silent but nice tone of voice remarks (he would never say that he likes this or that out loud) for fear of hurting my feelings by showing him a pic of another woman with an amazing booty (Im grateful for that) and of course he still tells me Im pretty now and how much he loves my butt now even though I don't really believe him ..lol...but one of newest questions he has asked me recently has been ... are you going to leave me once I get the body I want...and he hasn't asked this just once ...but 3 times in the last month (and he is the type of man who would normally never ask anything like this mind you) So because he has tried so hard to be supportive of me when it comes to something he really don't want me to do ...I try to understand the question and where its coming from and this is what I think so I hope it helps you out... everyone is insecure about something especially men (even though they play it off better then women do... they really are the most insecure individuals I have ever met) he is probably thinking about all the extra attention I am about to be getting from other men who in his mind probably look better ... have a bigger you know what (since they are all hung up on their own member size) ... haven't been in the relationship with me so they haven't given me any reasons ever to be upset with them yet... they will probably make more money and drive better cars... have deeper pockets etc... and their imaginations run wild and the list goes on and on ... so of course they are gonna be like screw this !!! Lets just get it over with now cause I dont stand a chance right ??? We know they are wrong and that we love them and feel like if anything this will help our relationship but its only natural for humans to feel threatened and jealous with any change... it may be hard but try to set their mind at ease... try to support them the way you would want them to support u... tell them how great they are and how good they look... buy them little cards for no reason telling them how they are your future and you one n only till the end of time... start making long term future plans for after your surgery with them .(like places you want to see with them etc..) ... talk to them about how you cant wait to get dressed up FOR THEM and wear lingerie etc... even if he acts like the biggest most disrespectful butthole on the planet and does not change anything once you are in surgery on that table those things will matter to them. And once they see your new body and that you still want them they will more then likely get their own little ego boost thinking damn ALL THAT IS MINE ...lol... its a tough road ... but its all about loving yourself and letting others know that your emotions are just as important as theirs are ... I hope that it all works out for you... one step at a time ... if its meant to then he will still be there once its all over with (probably with a change of heart for the better too) Best of luck to you.. take care

Enough said ...do it for yourself cause if he loves you the way he says he would support u so that u can be happy and confident in yourself! His insecurities and low self esteem is NOT your problem! Go BIG or GO HOME!

hi is your wish pics realself girls?? paitient of your doc?

I'm sorry to here that love. I know family comes first. Hopefully everything goes well. I know how hard it is to save money. I'm experiencing first hand as we speak. Keep your head up and I'll be following your journey love.

Do you have the option to finance? You can pay some in cash and finance the rest. I'm going to finance my whole procedure. Me and you both weigh the same and I was told to lose 20lbs too but I plan on going to fisher in November. I hope things start looking better for you doll!

Sorry to hear about your situation I'm in the same boat so I know the feeling of not having the money unfortunately I don't have the credit to finance or else I would have done so along time ago