375 cc high profile, tummy tuck, lipo- size 14 pre, 5-29-18

My husband and I are on the same page with me wanting a mommy makeover. We don't really won't any more kids, if we do we will adopt. I am going to a "lunch and learn" session this next week and will be working on picking a surgeon in Lubbock. My first main questions are 1 - death? 2 - time off? 3 - pain?
As I move forward I'll be making a "want" board as I know what I want to look like, just hard to explain. Hopefully a doctor can tell me what kind of surgery I'm asking for by my want board.
I'll be picking a surgeon based one 1) word of mouth recommendation. I have about 5 friends who have had plastic surgery. 2) How I feel with surgeon and recommendation. 3) Price. I'm not looking for a discount surgery, but will be looking at the full picture.
Below is the start of my breast "want" board. My biggest pet peeve is when fake boobs look like two round balls sitting on your chest or are too wide spaced. I think they should be some what fuller on the bottom, but I don't want to miss out on some cleavage towards to the top.

I actually got a consultation for Monday with another doctor, different than the luncheon learn group. That way I can have a comparison of Dr. starting next week. I still have some weight I want to lose and I'm sure the doctor will recommend I lose more weight, and having this to look forward to our help. I've lost 20 pounds and I weigh right at 200 pounds and I'm 5 foot eight. I start looking pretty slim around 160 or so. I'm currently on a low-carb hydrate diet, so I would expect to be around that weight by my December surgery. I want to ask the doctor what way he would like me up for optimal results. I hope he doesn't think I'm crazy to come in with not all of my weight lost yet. I'm excited to meet him Monday. From what I see onlineThe Monday doctor is cheaper than the Wednesday luncheon doctors. I'm not looking for a discount surgery but he has come recommended.
I'm starting to look at a wish board for the stomach and I'm realizing it's more than just getting extra skin taken off. Fortunately I am pretty shapely and I would like for him to put emphasis on that. I have seen some tummy tucks where women just look like straight lines and I have some questions for him about how to avoid that or how a more current Cuvey silhouette is accomplished

Had my first consultation today. My other reviews have a lot of misspelling due to using voice text so I apologize. This is with dr minns in Lubbock. Very nice. He was knowledgeable and confident. He didn't seem like he was in a hurry and had all the time to answer questions. He said I'm currently a surgery candidate at my weight And it was up to me what my ideal weight would be. I will aim for 165. If I choose him we will have an additional appointment to go over breast size. He felt my tummy tuck would remain the same even with more weight loss.
The only turn offs were the office had some mold on the ceiling. Given we just had a big rain and it is near an elaborate sky light. I did notice and so did my husband. Surgery would be at grace clinic.
Will be having 1-2 more consultations. Doctor did not see an issue for me to do over Christmas break as long as I was at a weight I found desirable. He said about 10 pounds from goal weight is fine.