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i want boobs !!! - Los Angeles, CA

UPDATED FROM Nobody1234

I am closing my account bcus of

$6,000

I am closing my account bcus of a user on realself with no profile who is really annoying me now .. and I'm tired of her/him ... so goodbye people it was a pleasure and thanks for all the support I got but I have to go now hopefully I find a doctor who can do my surgery and all goes well but I have to say goodbye to realself and only say thanks for all your opinions your comments and your advice I really appreciate it !! okay girls you take good care of yourself!

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Don't let someone else ruin this useful tool for you girl! Can't you block them or something?
Can't u contact admin and get them blocked or kicked off or something? That's super creepy and should not be allowed.
What's happened girlies? I'm intreaged!? X
Read a few more comments up^^
I just looked at the exchange on I believe mybreastfrenz. Don't know for sure if thats exactly right, but it looked to me that nobody1234 was the aggressor not brunswoman.
Yep. After I posted the comment I saw that too.
FYI everyone. BRUNSWOMAN was given a bad rap by an obvious SPITEFUL and IMMATURE girl!!! She was soooo willing to try to RUIN someones ability and right to use this wonderful helpful tool that is REALSELF!!!!!! She was so LOUD in this mean endeavour that i have decided to be LOUD about her. I am usually a bystander but this really PISSED me off. I can't take aay all of the FOUL stuff nobody1234 spouted but hopefully I will make brunswoman feel better!!!!! I think that this mean girl has the right name!!!! NOBODY1234!!! All of you women out there DO NOT LET ANYONE MAKE YOU FEEL BAD ABOUT YOURSELVES!!!!!!!
Before you close your acct I hope you get to read my comment. All I wanted to say is that I'm very small in stats 5'2 and 114 and I got 450-475 and they don't look huge on me. I think they compliment the rest of my body. My first PS suggested no more than 375 but after my revision my new PS said I could do even 500 if I wanted to and he was right. I got 450-475 and I really like them. You can see my pics if you'd like. Best wishes on your BA and I hope you find a PS than can give you the look you want.
Nooo don't go! Can't you create a new account? And inbox your regulars who you are? Just an idea this site may really help as you recover and after ward! Plus all the girls you may be helping
I'm not trying to be a [RS bleep] but you were going off on people about not in boxing you if they didn't have profile pics etc..... and whatever all this other drama has been, but correct me if I'm wrong, I don't see any pics of you on your acct. I only see a bunch of wish pics. For all anyone knows YOU could be a pervy guy as easy as anyone else you were accusing!
She actually had a TON of pictures of herself (no face showing pics but I don't blame her on that!) prior to the weirdo freaking her out. Just such a shame that someone has self esteem low enough that it allows them to make negative comments to someone just looking for advice and sharing her experience, and so that it has ruined her experience with this awesome resource. :-(
I know! I seen them all. :( I agree. It happens unfortunately. If she's feeling more harassed then helped I guess she has no choice :( ik it sure has helped me
So unless I'm mistaken there are 40 or 50 something wish pics and i think i saw 2 that may be her. I have been on here for a while and i don't recall her having any others of herself. I could be wrong. But my major thing is everyone freakin out or making comments about what the CRAZY STALKER said and unless everyone reads private messages, all anyone knows is what is being repeated that was said.
And there was still two of her own pics up there under the "these are wish pix I know I can achieve "
Excuse me i used tge wrong words. You said WEIRDO FREAKIN HER OUT!!!!!! How exactly do you know? Maybe she is making stuff up. Did you ever think of that. Also people can choose to not read or respond to any message sent. What it all sounds like to me is someone wanting a bunch of attention and poor poor me.
I seen what some of what was said on another girls profile. They got into a despute over comments and private messages. I didn't see any of those. But as for the comments I seen them all. But some are removed now. Some are still up as well. Basically she gave someone her honest option and the other girl said she was being to critical to the girl she was commenting on and that she is self.critical as well. Then they got in an argument and I'm not sure who was right in all of this but she chose to leave because she felt harrassed. She had a ton of her own pics. I've been following her story since she started her review. I think she took them down because she didn't want to be recognized? There was a ton of her in a shirt/bra and undies talking about her "Pudge" I just didn't want her to go regardless of who was right. But I felt like I should say yeah she did have pictures of herself. She took them down very recently. But its drama none the less that I don't want to be involved in. But it was only fair to say I personally saw her pics. And comments between them. Real self is a great web site but as any other website you fill a bunch of women with, there will be drama! Lol
Well if she was so FREAKED OUT, I would think she would have taken those down too. As i stated before, I could be wrong but those are the only pics of her that I can recall seeing of her and I have been constantly checking in since July.
Oh and on the other woman's defense. I have no idea if she was a weirdo. She had an account but no review. She said she hasn't had surgery yet and didn't want to post pics. I didn't choose a side. (Not aware of what all was said) but too bad people are leaving when it could've been helpful to see how she resolved her sizing issue.
My thoughts are that unless you are ready to hear criticism don't put yourself out there. We are woman after all and not always tactful and it's not someone elses position to respond to what someone comments to someone else. Tgese are our OPINIONS and we are allowed to give them. I don't think anyone should be cruel but we do have a right to say that we like or dislike a look.
If you don't like someone's look or results or whatever, just have some respect and decency, and don't comment! Simple as that! Happywife20 :-) I was also only commenting to vouch that she had her own pics up as well, I just looked at the "pudge" pictures also, not too long ago and said how I have the same damn pudge myself lol.
Yeah kind of seems unfair she's not hear to defend herself lol. Well her Pudge that I seen was not there but she had pix none the less! Lol
I think they might have been missed or she thought they didn't show that much personally she also changed her name from lilliflower to nobody1234. I think she felt harassed (rather she was wrong or right) and she's not on here fighting with any of our opions so I'm guessing she didn't want attention. If you put yourself out there you are asking for any and all types of opinions. You have the right I have the right and so does everyone else and that's that. I said what I sewn and knew to be true. Can't say anything else because I don't know anything else. Or I won't say anything else. I could say a lot. But it wouldn't be fair. Anywho. I'm outta here tootles!
Ditto! Happywife20. :-) I messaged you lol.
And Vicemom, why are you being so defensive? I said "weirdo freaking her out" because that's how she made it seem. I was NOT directing that comment toward anyone in particular so I don't see what your issue is? I merely commented to make the point that before you pass judgment have more facts straight ~ as in light of her indeed having pictures of herself, and MORE than plenty of them. I can't see why ANYONE would make up a story of harassment just for the attention? Seems a bit childish and unlike any of her posts really reflected. And I agree with you Happywife20, if she truly posted "JUST FOR THE DRAMA," she'd be in the middle of our conversation and showing us respect for the fact that two women are gracious enough to try to stand up for someone who isn't even here to defend herself.
Hi ladies, I'm the 'creepy' woman or man, as she said, that made one comment to her about being critical. She bordered on being rude & insensitive to a woman who was nervous about her breasts being too close together as the dropped. She aNd I were in conversation about it & then liliwater or nobody, (whomever she is now,) said "respectfully, they are way too close. I hope that bra fixes them because if you had to have another surgery that would suck." I found that offensive so I shot back. Maybe not the best thing to do, but the right thing in that situation. Real self contacted her and I and I'm guessing that's why she's not here to defend herself. But she presents herself quite clearly in many of her posts. I only know what she's presented. She seems very young or very immature, but that's beside the point. The point was she didn't need to dig into another's soft spot. The mama bear in me got defensive. As far as me messaging her excessively- I sent her a single message identifying with her feelings because I knew what she was going through. I told her some personal things in attempt to show she wasn't alone, which she rebuffed and accused me of being creepy & annoying her, saying I am no one, I have no profile, but I actually do. Part of me wishes I said nothing about her comment, but part of me is glad I did. Sometimes people need to know that the way they come across can sound rude & tactless. As for the mean-spirited things she said about me, I am a mommy of 3, doing my research & getting excited to post my story soon. I'm going to see Dr. David Kim & am nervous, excited, happy, etc... I am not a creepy man or whatever else she said about me. I hope that clears things up. I am looking forward to talking with you ladies & hope this nonsense can be put to rest. Thanks for listening( :
Lol we need a like button
Best wishes to you Brunswoman! ;-) I'm sorry I took it as you had offended her and played on her negative self esteem, which I think all women have to some extent, about some thing about them.. As someone who has always stood up for those being picked on (somehow it landed me suspended during high school as I always try to play mama bear too lol) but anyways, I just felt I needed to stick up for her and the fact that she WAS real as she just seemed so wounded by whatever transpired. I'm sorry she commented negatively about someone else's BA, I would never, as you can read what I said above that even if you don't like another woman's before/after or whatever picture, keep it to yourself out of respect and decency.. Or use it as an opportunity to lift another woman's spirits up in a time of definite uncertainty she's facing. That's all. Sorry again for misunderstanding the situation. I truly was just responding to say she did in fact have her own pictures! Lol!
And that's why I didn't choose sides. But thanks for sharing brunswoman. Really any of us could be a creepy man looking at well self conscious moms? Haha. Anyways. Misunderstanding or not she felt victimized which usually we ourselves are always the victim! But in a mutual defense I don't think that just because you have no pictures yet means you are a man or creep. I could have gotten my own personal ones off google easy. Of course I didn't and it took a lot of courage to post what I have. But this site j think is ment to be bisased and straight forward. I think her option wasn't that rude. I think it was flat out her honest opinion. with that said I also didn't think her opioin was accurate. Or I disagreed anyway. There are plenty of us that will follow your story of and when you post it. I commented and asked questions before I wrote a review. I haven't gotten any surgery yet but plan to. So I have a review and am.updating along the way. Maybe consider doing the same to avoid this whole thing again or don't. Whatever you want to do. Its your journey whoever you are or aren't. I'm sure someone here will support you as well!
I didn't think I was being defensive. I think I was merely DEFENDING someone who I believed was being unfairly badmouthed on here.
To think that you can't believe that someone would make up a story of harassment is very naive. After brunswoman wrote her comments thats exactly what it sounds.like to me!
YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!! Glad you set the record straight. Some people think I'm overreacting or being defensive but you were being treated unfairly and it made me mad so I spoke up!!!!
Okay, so I'm naive. I just try to find the best in people and believe that there's still some decency in the world, that's all. Which I'm certainly naive about that as well I suppose. But that's okay. I apologized to Brunswoman for misunderstanding her part of the situation, though nothing I said was ever directed straight toward her by any means. It's over and done with, so let it go.
It's done. We are all here for the sanw reasons, to research procedures and support each other. My husbands been a police officer for 17 years so i guess its hard for me to see the best in people. I'm jaded.
Same reasons
Stupid drama.
UPDATED FROM Nobody1234

Ok officialy cancelled my BA

I canceled my BA surgery because I had very few options with breast implant size and implant brand. Also being a realself member helped me tons because I got see other girls who had picked this same surgeon and had really bad results ( obviously this doctor told me that every one of his patients was a very satisfied customer) but thanks to realself I found more about my doctor so That also influence my decision to cancel and I'm very glad I did I feel like a weight lifted off my shoulders that being said I'll continue my search :)

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I think you made the right choice. And that's great that you were able to find real results and reviews of the surgeon on here! You will find the right one eventually :)
Anna1989- what size and implant did you get? And what were your stats at time of surgery? Your bobbies look awesome !!
Thanks so much liliwater! My implants are Mentor smooth round HP, 400cc. I was a 34B before (deflated). 5 feet 112 lbs
Good for you. Don't feel pressured to do something that you are not happy or comfortable with. I think high profile get a bad wrap. I got high profile and I LOVE mine.
Thank you and yeah I did feel pressured! Wow yours are huge but really nice :)
Good decision! You have time, find what you want and what you are comfortable with. Best of luck!
Thank you :) I feel better now !!!!
I have a really natural yet big result. I was just as concerned as you are to have a big enough size but only with a natural look and feel. My ps was even able to anchor my nipples where I wanted (lower than center of my boob) to look more natural. Feel free to read my story. I have yet to post pics from today. My most recent pics on my profile are like 5 months post op. I will send updated pics if you request.
I just read all your story :) sweet !!! U got what u wanted :) I'm so happy for you , you sound as picky as me when it comes to surgery ... Yeah it'd be really cool if youd update with some new pictures , I'd love to see your progress ... Sounds like everything went perfect !congrats. Oh and u look great in those pics but def need to update with new ones :))

As much of an inconvenience and expense this process has been so far, I'm so glad you followed your gut on this one. I come across very few reviews where women have the courage and patience to cancel their BA in order to find just the right doctor. I'll be sure to send other members your way when they are feeling unsure. I'm looking forward to your continued research!

Thanks Beth! Yeah it was a tough decision specially since I wanted this sooooo bad but I realized that I wouldn't be happy so I will rather keep looking until I find what I'm really looking for :) even if I have to wait longer
UPDATED FROM Nobody1234

ugh more wish pics lol

i know i annoy with wish pics bbut i like to put them here so i have these to show during a consult . although the surgeons i go see never want to look at my wish pics... wow thats so annoying , they don't even care about the results I'm trying to achieve... they just wan to book surgery eh!

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No I love that you post them! Haha I'm gonna steal so many for my consult haha yeah I mean we know they can't make us look just like the wish pic but sheesh like a blue print or something lol
Exactly , like at least look at my WISH pics doc! Lol .. Yeah go ahead.. Steal way haha hopefully u have better luck than me :) I'm tired of wishing and wishing but I won't give up til I get what I want because those silicone filled bags are quite pricey lol
I'm getting saline but I have more than a C to start with so hopefully I'll get away with it but it makes .r nervous I know how u feel. They won't even give me the option for silicone and I'm like dude I'm paying u a bunch lol good luck I know those consults r pricey!
You're soooo lucky!!! You'll probably get away with any size you want! But why don't you have an option for silicone ?
Because I'm only 20 lol ive had three babies already and am married but they don't bend the rules. Which is silly I've nursed them all and wont be having anymore. I have a mommy makeover review also. I think you're lucky you have a nice body no surgery needed! Haha but I get it we want them boobies! Lol
That's like a hair dresser not wanting to see your wish haircut picture! Strange!
Yes! Now that you say it that way. It sounds awful!

Hey liliwater, just checking in. Did I see that you might be postponing your surgery? Let us know with a review update when you have a chance. Take care and hang in there!

Thanks . I will.
i wouldn't compare hair and boobs... i think you're better off NOT showing wish pics. if the dr didn't care about getting you the best results they'd look at your pic, put whatever implant to get you to that size, and not care if it hurt or didn't fit properly. everyone has a unique body. though another woman may have similar stats as you, you need to consider skin elasticity, breast tissue, etc. so what works for one may not work for the other. also, are you going for silicone? my doc will try to go as big as he can with saline but he's pretty conservative with the silicone. hope you find a dr thats gonna take care of you and give you what u want.im going to beautologie for my procedure. i know they have an office in malibu, my docs capsule contraction rate is only 1%. but i think thats because he's conservative and won't do ridiculously large implants.
Hi. I don't want ridiculously large implants I just want something that fits me but that I could handle as well I don't necessarily have to go with small implants I know that it has to lot and has a lot to do with height and weight And Elasticity as well but more so with BWD which is the most important so I don't know if you know but every implant is tailored pretty much based on height and weight usually those two things put together result in BWD... Which then allows you to see the ccs fir you BWD , I don't mean to confuse you but I've done tons of research. Anyway I don't know why you would want to go with the doctor that only does high profiles that also says a lot about your doctor even though it sounds really nice that he only has a 1% capsular contracture rate but the high-profile thing ONLY sounds pretty strange . Also the more you strech your skin outward the more cc rate one has .. I'd rather go a tad wider than have more projection . The ideal scenario would be to choose a size according to your BWD .. But sometimes were not happy with our BWD like myself but there's nothing I can do however I know a few ml width wise won't hurt .. Not too many but a few it's ok . I was told 339 but I know I can push for 400 but not more. And I want 400 I don't think that's ridiculously big . Ps. I took a look at your wish pics and they're awesome . I think you could get away with 425-450 like u mentioned you would like because your a lil heavier than me and it won't look like 2 basketballs cut in half on your chest . U got more skin to cover those than I do . Hopefully your surgeon knows how to make them look more natural like I see you like on your wish pics
I have lots of breast tissue still but breastfed. I think hp will be good since I'm looking for volume up top. Not sure what is up with him only doing hp but he taught ba surgery and revision at mayo clinic. I think hp would look great on you. You have an athletic figure and hp looks good on that body type. I'm meaty lol but my band size is only 29 inches. I would think la would be boob central for finding a doc.
I don't think height and weight have anything to do with BWD. I'm 5'1, 128lbs and my BWD is enough to fit a 14.3 cm saline implant. I'm just broad in the shoulders and chest but I wear a 32 band bra currently. My PS is doing 475/525cc implants on me.
I believe BWD stands for breast width diameter. I found this website that clears up BWD and breast implant size. I don't know anything about the dr. but the page is helpful in clarifying this. http://www.drconnall.com/Breast/Implants/Breast-Implant-Sizing.aspx
Yeah. I thought because my weight if be able to carry a bigger implant, but my measurements are fairly small. I got so obsessed about the number that I was freaking out that my boobs would be too small or if I increased cc's they'd be too big. Picking boobs is a stressful task. Lol!
Jenn- I think my Bwd was 12. I'm gonna go check out that site now. Thanks!
I'm 29 as well . I guess theres plenty of choices for different likes . Thanks but I still don't like the ideas of HPs :(
Yes it is ... Very stressful !!
BWD is a low number and the ribcage is a different one in 12.5 BWD and 29 ribcage
Hey, I saw your post come across someone else's post I chat with on RS. First let me say BREATHE! You don't need to rush into anything. Your body is beautiful, if I had your boobs preop, I wouldn't have had a post op. I said that to another young woman. There is no need to rush into anything. At 43 and just having had my BA done almost 4 months ago, I can say it is an emotional roller coaster even after the boobs are in. I still don't like mine 100% yet, but they gradually becoming more like my wish pic. If I could go back, I probably would have gone a little smaller. I have a bit of "rack" look that you mentioned earlier. But my PS did say bc I had so little breast tissue, and very tight skin and muscle it would take 6-9 months for them to truly drop and probably year b4 they r where I really want them to be. Most days I love them, somedays I don't. I am never sorry I got them (nor is my husband of 17 years ;-). If you read my profile it will have more info, but I desperately wanted mod+ and my PS said I would have boobs coming out of my armpits bc my bwd was so narrow and having a shallow chest. HP was my only alternative, and at the time I wanted bigger than 450, and she said nope, 450 is about the biggest my body would hold. I have several friends that are PS, I asked them their opinion, no modesty after you have kids,lol. They all agreed, even said a little bit smaller might be better, but I wanted B( . )( . )Bs!! Well I have them 32DDD. In clothes and swimsuits they look great, but I don't love them in the buff just yet, like them a lot but not LOVE yet. LOVE them in clothes, and lets be honest we don't walk around naked ;-) But you do need to be happy, so take your time and find the right surgeon and the right size and profile that fits you. Most docs like you to bring wish pics bc they want to see if you are being realistic with your expectations and get idea of what you are looking for, but keep in mind if it's not a RS kind of pic MOST internet/magazine pics have been altered in some capacity and trick all of us into believing what we see is truly attainable. Quick story, in college, I worked for a company that sold high end swimsuits, they did big photo sessions w/ real models, etc. I was able to see the b4 raw pics, these woman are NOT perfect in any way. Even w/o children they had stretch marks, and pimples, and boobs that did not look perfect. The boobs were enhanced after the fact via computer. Sorry for all the "mothering", but you have a beautiful body you should be proud of and if this is really something you want, time is on your side. Find the right surgeon, and things will fall into place. :-)
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