Sad

Provider Review

• 14 Apr 2018

Sucks that I’m writing this review. This is the last thing I ever wanted to feel the need to do bc it’d mean that my time and money were wasted which is honestly what i feel. Doctor Palmer has good bedside manner. Leading up to the surgery they changed the price of it 4 different times. First 9000 then 8000 then 7000 then back up to 8000 that should’ve been a red flag idk why I didn’t take it as one. Im starting to think he has fake reviews cus this surgery is nowhereeee near what he said it’d be. Surgery day everything went good no complaints at all everyone was super sweet. After care and follow ups he was good overall he seemed very caring and took time to explain but there was definitely miscommunication that he refuses to acknowledge. I just am not at all satisfied with my results. I told the doctor from day one the most important thing to me was to enjoy sex again and be tight enough to feel like my vagina had never gone through anything. I was very loose due to a d&c and unable to enjoy sex. I didn’t care about perfection or what the outside looked like as much as I cared about the inside. I spent 8 grand on a vaginoplasty with him and I honestly feel like I chose the wrong surgeon. Not to say it’s not an improvement from what I was but It’s nowhere near what I expected. all that improved is the floor muscle which is something I can barely even notice cus it’s not relevant. it literally feels like the exact same vagina as before. He told me that he fixed the muscle and can’t control what haPpens when I’m aroused which he never told me prior to surgery. after doing research and seeing another surgeon who’s an obgyn and board certified it just means he didn’t tighten the vagina as much as he should’ve known I’d benefit from. He argued and contradicted himself a hundred times on the phone first saying he can’t control my arosal size no matter what and that he warned me of that ahead of time ... I asked if I knew that ahead of time I wouldn’t have done the surgery. what’s the point of this surgery if I’m the exact same when I’m aroused ? then and he said that I determined my size and ageeed to it with him so If it’s not what I wanted then it was cus I didn’t communicate what I did want. He’s a liar who Makes zero sense and switches things to suit himself. How would I determine the size with him? Am i a doctor? These are things he should know bc he is the doctor. He should Be able to eye my vagina size and the difference it would be when aroused to determine what he should make it. If he does these surgeries for a living isn’t all this his job?? Not mine. Regardless. If I Were a doctor and my patient voiced these concerns I’d offer to help try to figure out the problem and see what we could do to fix it no matter who’s fault he wants to say it is. He just keeps insisting he can’t fix it and that what I want isn’t achievable. He’s a liar who took my money and doesn’t care anymore. He is not board certified. He’s only a urologist which I found out the day before surgery and should’ve canceled then. He doesn’t know how To perform this surgery correctly. He fixed up the outside very naturally but idk what he did to the inside. He says it’s an improvement cus I’m “2 fingers” until arousal where I still feel like 4. And loose during sex. I don’t feel my partner inside of me. I voiced my concerns to the doctor after surgery and drove out of state 3 different times post op for him to tell me it’s in my head and I’m wrong bc I’m “ two fingers “ I just am not. He was trying to explain why he couldn’t make me tighter and my size is peRfectly normal. I think He was babbling his thoughts outloud cus he told me believe it or Not “most penis sizes aren’t even two fingers” and I said exactly my point ... according to u I’m two fingers. Penises are smaller than that and I do not feel my partner in me so I would want my vagina tighter. I’d rather it be too tight and hurt a few times till it stretches than be too lose and me not be able to feel and feel like this was a waste for me. His assistant said to “just find a big boy” which honestly annoyed me bc I had this surgery so I wouldn’t have to worry about any of that. I’m just baffled to be honest. Penis size shouldn’t be of concern to somebody who just spent 8 grand on a vagina to tighten it. He takes pride that it looks like I never had surgery down there and that it’s an improvement but I barely even care about the outside. Yes it’s an improvement on the outside and u would never know I did anything to it compared to pornos who have perfect vagina but I would rather it look like a plastic surgery vagina than have one that isn’t tight enough for me. I’m honestly so disappointed. He said he wouldn’t touch me or offer me anything Cus thatd be “inappropriate” .. to him my vagina is exactly “normal” for my age and that I want a 16 year old vagina .......yes who doesn’t? That’s what people pay money for???? He told me I’m better off going to a plastic surgeon bc MAYBE they’d offer me what I want. I don’t want anything crazy I simply want what I paid for. To be able to feel my partner during sex. Super sad to even have to write this review. I am truly disappointed with my result from him and feel like I wasted my money that I saved up for 2 years. Plz go elsewhere.