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Mother of 2 Lost Her Confidence

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Well I've never been big chested to begin with but...

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Well I've never been big chested to begin with but they always have fit my body now forward yearssssss ahead and now married with two children and with the rewards of motherhood also come the downsides my body was left marked stretched and pretty much left for dead lol ok maybe not that bad. But let's say my confidence was none existent self esteem left the building years ago. So finally talked with my husband and obviously (such a guy) he said whatever would make me happy and if I really was serious to go for it! It was all surreal calling and scheduling consultations finally found one paid in full again I'm just going with the motion doing all this yet having no idea what I'm doing! Days leading up to my procedure were nerve wrecking as I suffer from anxiety and panic attacks yeah I WAS HAVING FULL BLOWN EPISODES I really wanted to back out maybe this was a mistake what if something happens to me all because my vanity got the best of me? NO! I had to stop seeing it that way I had to see if for what is was ... unhappiness I was not happy with who I saw in the mirror I had lost myself I am 33yrs old what's so wrong with wanting to feel sexy and to look it too? So it's DONE! I chose 400CCs and PS decided on 415CCs day if I am 4days post op and yeah it's been a struggle with two children I feel less involved around the house and because of the weather they ended up sick now and my PS specifically said to stay away from sick people because I am more open to getting sick get an infection and it can be bad so now my kids are sick and I feel terrible not being able to hug them and have them near me but I'm trying to stay positive this is temporary right now I may be a little sad but I will heal and I'll be back to normal mommy who smothers then with kisses and love and I'll be a better person because I will no longer secretly envy women on my daily outings I will be more confident and definitely more happy.

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March 14, 2017
Hang in there - you made it! The first week is the toughest. The swelling, the pain, sleeping elevated, the body bloating, etc. Keep the girls well supported and that will lessen the soreness. Here is a great guide on how to figure out what bra size you wear now (measuring with implants is different than measuring with natural breasts). https://m.herroom.com/measure-bra-size-with-implants,904,30.html I find that this link works better on a PC than on smartphone. If it takes you to the main site, find the fitting guides and look for the one called Bra Sizing for Breast Implants - information is life changing! I also have really great luck with the Hanes Hu03 wire free bra. Lovely support and comfort and fir me, has yielded a really beautiful shape! Currently on sale at Kohls and there's a $10 off when you spend $40 on intimates promotion ends 3/16). Stay positive!! Follow you ps orders and you should get that confidence back!!
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March 14, 2017
Thank you for the info ... and I'm two days away from being a week post op and it's been hell actually I ended up pulling a ligament in my knee and went to the ER last night so I needed crutches and of course I said "NO WAY I CANT I JUST GOT IM PLANTS" so I have to deal with pain up top and worse pain on the bottom and I honestly think my knee takes the cake! I rather get another boob job than my knee pain lol plus side tho they gave me stronger meds than my post op pain killers so I'll be pretty happy and high as a kite lol
March 14, 2017
Oh no!!! So sorry this happened to you!! Time for the hubs to completely take over the kids, the house, and caring for you!! Momma needs to rest and sleep!!
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March 14, 2017
It's a mixture of him and my fam because he has to work and already took two days off after my procedure so I'm kinda hoping around the house on my own until my fam can help too :-/
March 14, 2017
Understandable. Apologies... I wasn't trying to be flippant. You are in a tough boat. I'm 14 days po from a breast revision surgery. I have no kids and hubby has been awesome. I do have lupus so not quite all peaches and cream, but I know what you are going through and I know, if I had another significant injury to deal with at the same time, I'm not sure I could handle it. It DOES get better quickly (the boobs). Try not to overdue. Wondering if a medical boot would help? I broke my left foot 5 years ago and only did crutches for 1 day because the hard bout they put me in really stabilized things. I have a torn ligament in my right elbow - a forearm brace helped there as well. Sigh.... I feel so badly for you!!
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March 14, 2017
They gave me a leg brace and I take it off to sleep oh my friend had lupus I've seen how bad it can be so hope you're doing good too. My husband keeps joking that I'm one injury away from being in a body cast with huge boobs sticking out LOL
March 14, 2017
lol!! Your husband and mine would get along well! We laugh a lot in our house and after 25 years, still going strong!

You are very sweet! I pray the gods take it easy on you for awhile. I often wonder what the hell I did to [RS bleep] them off as I consider myself to be a very kind soul but there were times where I was like "really?! You throw THIS at me?!" We both need white flags hanging outside our homes - enough! We surrender!
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March 14, 2017
I know!!! I was feeling guilt as it is when I got the procedure I thought "is this bad? Will god punish me for my vanity?" Then boom!!! Pull ligament on my knee! So I'm trying not to see it as a sign of punishment but maaaaaybe things just happen lol
March 14, 2017
Things. Just. Happen. As far as I'm concerned, EVERY woman who pumps out kids that ruin her body retains the right to have whatever she wants done. Period. I my case, I never had children BUT God decided that my sisters should have boobs but I should look like a12 year old boy. Totally gypped! So I got boobs 26 years ago and just had them removed and new ones put in. One was ruptured (NEVER detected on mammo or MRI), and probably leaking since my first mammo in 2003 where the tech had no clue what she was doing and it hurt like a MF. Surgeon was SO MUCH BETTER than the first guy (26 years ago) and he has made me look AWESOME. I wish I had done the surgery 4 years ago when I knew something was not right but then well, lupus dx put boobs on the back burner.

Here's a mantra for you: My body. My life. NO regrets!
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March 15, 2017
Oh my gosh so the person doing the mammogram probably ruptured your implant?? That's scary that it's a possibility of happening. And I'm the first born but yes lacked everything my sister after me got big boobs and a big butt and me? I have a cool personality! Then another sister who is like me and has nothing then the baby of bunch BAM!! She's 15 and has DD well her dads side of the family are big chested so that's why but my dads side is average or below -___- but I agree my body my choice and chose to no longer be sad and unhappy
March 15, 2017
Yep, I'm sure that idiot tech caused a slow leak right then and there. That is what typically causes capsular contraction to occur so long after implants are put in. One side - perfectly fine. The other side, capsular contracture, leakage and staining (I will post a review and pics of my procedure once I have all the info). PS said the worst he's ever seen.

My advice to you is DO NOT HAVE MAMMOGRAMS with implants! Even my PS is like, "Noooo, tell them you have 'difficult breast tissue' and always insist on an MRI". He is actually going to schedule them for me going forward. He says my breasts are now under "his jurisdiction". HA! (Yes, my hubby was in the room when he said that!)

Funny...two days ago I got my annual letter telling me it is time for my mammo! That was 'recycled' almost immediately!

Don't fret about your breasts changing. THEY. LOOK. AWESOME. and they always will. This is just the start of a new life for you! One with boobies!!

I like you! We'd get along juuuuuust fine! I told my hubby about your husbands comment about the full body cast. Without skipping a beat he said, "well, better make sure it's crotchless!!" :-D
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March 15, 2017
Lmao crotchless omg!!!!!! And yes I have to remember that MRI no on the mamo lol and I hope you recover from this with awesome results are you staying with the same size you had before?
March 15, 2017
Glad I could make you laugh! Did you have to hole your boobs?? lol!

I didn't stay the same size. I went up to a size I SHOULD have done all those (26) years ago but didn't have the balls to do so. I started out with NOTHING (as you know) and I think I was only like barely a 34B with my 280cc implants (under muscle).

THIS time I explained what result I was looking for and my PS advised that I get Mentor 500cc Smooth Round Moderate implants. He. was. so. right. I am now a very happy and fully perky 34D! WOW! AND, because these are a revision, I won't go through all the hardness, etc. stuff that you will deal with. Mine are already soft and dropped and fluffed - LOVE it!! He said I will see full results in 6 weeks (and he doesn't expect much to change between now and then..just a little more 'settling') where for you newbie-boobies, it may take up to a year.

I'm still on workout restriction for another 4 weeks. SUCKS. But, in the meantime, I'm treating myself to Fraxel for spots on my chest and legs and also a micro-something facial peel...waiting for a callback on what the heck it exactly is but from what I understand, I go in, they put a cream/gel on my face, and then things get taut and over the next 7 days, I molt. After that, beautiful skin! No pain, no nothing. Fingers crossed!

Got my stitches pulled on Monday - piece o'cake and everything looks really good. Can't start scar treatment (Scar Away strips) for another two weeks. Got those and my Bio-Oil all ready to go!

How's the knee today?
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March 15, 2017
On wow nice size!!! I hope I'm happy with my settling results so you have to wait for your PS to tell you when you can massage them to help them drop and fluff?....and my knee is being a pain today I'm so sick of those damn 9day pills I have to take I have two more days to go
March 15, 2017
Thanks! No, no massaging for me! My girls are already pretty much dropped and fluffed! The "benefit" of revision surgery! I went thru all that process 26 years ago. Happy to skip it this time! Ugh... Sorry your knee is being a [RS bleep]. Funny... You are tired of pills after 97 days. I have a 7-day, 4 slots each day and iPhone reminders for all the meds/supps I take. Really, I'm like 80 years old with this thing! But I get it. I hated all the "extra" meds surgery brought with. Glad that's over! Let's hope tomorrow is a better day for you and your knee!!
March 15, 2017
Oops! I meant 7 days!
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March 15, 2017
Did you just do the massages when you first got them or did you have to wait for your PS to tell you when to? And I know what you mean my husband says with the way I'm walking and pill reminders I'm like a grandma he calls me "grandma wife" -_____-
March 15, 2017
You know? Back then, in the dark ages, I'm not sure there was a massaging routine like there is now. I just remember it taking so long for things to settle. But yes, as I understand it, you need to wait for your PS to give you the go ahead. They want you to heal before you start manipulating anything out of place. Grandma wife.... Yeah, he's priceless..
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March 15, 2017
He's a funny jerk lol
March 16, 2017
and he's allllll yours! :-)
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March 16, 2017
Unfortunately lol
UPDATED FROM RSMember14405
5 days post

Day 5

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So I know it's still early in this but I notice my right is coming down from the swelling more than the left and I don't know if I like how smaller the right looks lol im probably just being impatient because I know they need to drop and fluff before they get the actual size but it is a little noticeable that the right is bigger than the left lol -_-

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UPDATED FROM RSMember14405
7 days post

First week 7 day Post Op

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Well my left is still so much more swollen than my right one and I'm still getting needle like pokes in the left one which isint a excruciating pain but it is uncomfortable and just like alerting OWWW

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