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Nervous About Tummy Tuck - Las Vegas, NV
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I have been debating on a tummy tuck since 2009....
onehappymomAugust 13, 2011
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I have been debating on a tummy tuck since 2009. At one point I was so ready and the Friday before the surgery I called the Surgeon's office and canceled. Luckily he refunded all the money but $500 for blood tests. Now two years later I am ready to do it. I went from 115 to 222 pounds after I had my second child. They are now 8. I had them 10 months apart. After that I had 3 miscarriages. I finally learned I would not be able to have more children. I am now at a steady 145 pounds and 5ft-2in short. I had a personal trainer tell me he didnt want to take my money because no matter how hard I tried, that excess skin will always be there.
I have such great fear of being put under anesthesia. Death always comes to my mind. I think of my 2 girls and how they would suffer without me. But I am at the point where I also get frustrated when it comes time for a special event. I hate how my clothes fit me or actually the clothes I want to wear don't fit me. Even my girls tell me I could wear a bathing suit only if I fix my stomach. One even said my belly reminds her of a peanut. Both the shape and texture from all the stretch marks.
I am scheduled to have the surgery done September 12. I met with 6 doctors. I have read many of the stories here in order to give me motivation but something in the back of my head still tells me not to. I want to do it for myself. My husband and I will be celebrating our 10 year anniversary next year and are going on a cruise. There is no way I can wear a swimsuit looking like this. I have posted some pictures so I can get some feedback. Also, I noticed all surgeons advised me to get lipo on my flanks. Is that really necessary? Does it make a big difference? Has anyone declined lipo and was unhappy with the results? Your feedback is greatly appreciated.
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19 days pre
19 more days until surgery date. I am getting...
onehappymomAugust 24, 2011
19 more days until surgery date. I am getting really anxious and want to just get it over with. I want to see how I will look after the surgery. Monday is my pre op.
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August 25, 2011
You will see you will look great!!!! Be very positive!!! Everything will be all right.
September 4, 2011
Looking at your body and mine it is almost like looking in a mirror. I am the same as you, a few years ago I went to a doctor and then I got scared and said I can do it myself. Well that hasn't happened yet! haha. I know you are scared and I feel anxious for the same reason. You know what is weird for me though is if I were going under for a surgery to have my gallbladder like I did, I wasn't scared about not waking up. I wasn't scared about what could go wrong in the surgery because it was needed. I guess when you are deciding yourself to do it that is when it gets scary for some reason. But if you think of it people do this everyday all over the world! I sometimes ask people if they know of anyone that has had plastic surgery and had problems. Now I wouldn't go and Google it because it would just be too overwhelming. I think you will do fine and you are doing the right thing. Like you said you see all these stories on here of making it through recovery and they are having their dream come true! It's like being scared to go on a plane because you think it will crash, but how often do you hear of plane crashes? Especially compared to the amount of planes that fly around right? It sounds like you will have support and just keep thinking of allll that you can do when this is over and the weight that will be lifted off you! I totally will be your cheerleader through this! We really do look almost identical so I'm feeling a little connected here. Hopefully when I get to be able to do my surgery I can help someone else out and get a buddy! You are going to be fine!! :)
September 5, 2011
I cannot believe what I am reading. I feel the exact same way. I had my gallbladder removed a few years ago and I didn't feel a bit nervous. I guess it is the mentality that if it is necessary something is less likely to happen. With one week to go it seems like people are more negative as the days go by. Over the weekend I went to fill my meds to the pharmacy and the pharmacist asked why I was doing it and if I was aware of all the bad side effects and that people die from cosmetic surgeries all the time. She kept going on and on and was so negative. I came home and told my husband I didn't want to do it anymore. Luckily my cousin who worked for a plastic surgeon talked me out of not doing it. I am not going to lie, she did make me think twice but I really want to do this and I am so ready. One more week. It's funny that you talk about planes because I don't fly. I have a fear of flying. I think the exact same thing, that with my luck the plane will crash. But I promised my kids that next year in the fall we will fly to DC. Well hopefully we can cheer each other on.
UPDATED FROM onehappymom
7 days pre
Less than a week for the big day. I am more...
onehappymomSeptember 5, 2011
Less than a week for the big day. I am more nervous as the days go by. But I think about how good I will (hopefully) look and feel better.
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September 6, 2011
Onehappymom:
Believe me, I also hate flying. I felt more comfortable going to the OR that getting on an airplane. Just think about the final results and try not to listen to negative people!!!Good luck!:)
Believe me, I also hate flying. I felt more comfortable going to the OR that getting on an airplane. Just think about the final results and try not to listen to negative people!!!Good luck!:)
September 6, 2011
I am scared of flying too! haha I have been on a plane once, well 2 times technically for the return trip and the worst part was the take off. I felt myself going back in the seat a little and I felt like my feet were coming off the ground but after that first minute I started to relax. The take off might have been worse because I was so tense, I had to remember my yoga breathing. I don't remember being quite as scared the return trip but now it's been almost 2 years since I flew and I'm back to being scared again haha. You should have asked the pharmacist how many people go through plastic surger and DON'T have complications with it. I'm sure it isn't that many percent wise because if it were why would the surgeries still be allowed?? I think it is just making sure the doctor is good and you have thought of every question to ask. I am already making a list. Just be prepared for the rollercoaster emotions and the pain of not being able to move much and the helpless feeling. I cried with my gallbladder surgery because it felt like it would never end and I would never eat again and would never poop haha. Well I assure you I have ate again haha. Maybe have yourself ready your favorite movies or tv shows, some books or magazines that you like. Once the pain is gone I think it's about distraction and for sure letting your fears and joys out. After I would talk to my friends and cry I really felt so much better. I have asked a doctor before about if the tummy tuck will pull any fat that is at the bra line on the back up tight and they said it would some. Of course this was just a long talk with a coordinator I didn't go in to get physically looked at yet. Did they tell you about any of that? I am for sure going to be thinking about you next monday and I will pray for you too!
September 6, 2011
From what the doctor PS told me, I would need lipo for my back or flanks. The tummy tuck wont really help those parts of my body. I opted not to because I am hoping that once I see a flat belly I will get motivated to go to the gym. I have lost a lot of weight before and I am sure I can work on a few more pounds. Maybe if you do an extended tummy tuck that wraps beyond the hips it would pull down but I am not sure. Hope that helps. Thanks for your prayers. I am going to need all the support I can get.
September 7, 2011
That is what it is called hehe , extended. I think that's a good idea going to the gym for the rest. Get you a cute little outfit and show it off! I am glad to be of support! :) This is a good step! Have you went and bought your garments for after?
September 7, 2011
I am getting one garment from the doctor's office. However I didnt think about purchasing any additional. I am trying to get everything prepared that I forget the small details. I should get an additional one since I am only allowed to hand wash it and hang dry. Thanks for the heads up.
September 7, 2011
No problem! I have heard people say they like the Cupid brand from Walmart. So how are you feeling about the big day so far since this is wednesday?
September 9, 2011
Well I am very nervous since it is now Thursday night. I haven't slept that much the past two nights.
September 10, 2011
Hey it is going to be fine. The worst part is the anticipation of it. Once you get there and can talk to the doctor and nurses you will feel much better and tell them how you feel because they can make you feel more confident and safe!
September 7, 2011
You're going to look great, good luck!
Welcome to the Tummy Tuck Club!!
All I can say girlie is DO IT! Â You are going through all of the normal pre surgery fears. Â We have all been there and made it through just fine. Â It's honestly the best thing I ever did for myself. Â I feel like a completely new woman and would do it all over again for the results I ended up with. Â
Stick with all of us on RealSelf and we will all help you through it and support you. Â
Glad to hear you met with a number of doctors. Â I highly recommend that:)
You will be fine and looking hot in that swim suit on your anniversary cruise.
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