My Sex Life is Ruined

I’ve been putting off leaving this review for 9 months but I now know for sure I’m totally botched.

I initially went to Dr Sen in Nov 2024 - following a labiaplasty in 2022 (elsewhere) where I felt it made the hood look bigger where I had nothing left labia wise. He recommended the Barbie vagina package without labiaplasty as I had nothing left to remove.

Paid around £3k.

Recovery was slow and fat was very hard and lumpy for many months- clitoral sensation was reduced significantly, I had lots of little bobbles around the clit form reduction and the labia and surrounding areas were much darker than before after bleaching (I also brought the recommended creams and serums and followed all aftercare)

By August 2025 we knew I needed a revision- the fat had just made me look like I had testicles and had not resolved the issue of making the hood look smaller I was also concerned that you could still see the pink inside my vagina which I didn’t have before.

He consulted me on the day and said to remove the fat it was so recommended to have a Labiamajoraplasty which I was very scared of because of scaring but he told me it would be barely visible and if we just removed fat I would have excess skin now (that I didn’t have before he overfilled it) he revised for free

I explained my concerns were still as they were when I initially consulted (larger hood and did not want to see inside myself and the raw pink skin when I opened my legs) he also checked I had no prolapse or anything that was all fine .

What happened next has totally changed my life and I don’t think I’ll ever be the same again.

Recovery was horrific. Still 8 months later I have pain and a dry raw tearing pain all the time on the inside where I have sensation. The whole right top of my leg (would say labia but I have nothing left at all total amputation) and clitoris has zero sensation where I can’t even tell when I’m seeing sometimes- the pee steam goes whenever it wants. I tried to have sex and masterbate but I can’t feel anything on the outer side and the perinium (which he’s told me he hasn’t touched but you can see in photos he has) is so ruined I feel loose there whereas before I was always tight.

My hood looks even bigger than before (which was my main concern) and my scarring is horrendous (again main concern for no one to know)

I have waited a while to write this review as I was told 8-12 weeks recovery, then 6 months and now up to a year. Since month 3 nothing has changed.

I know have a totally open vagina which is not functional. I don’t know how I’m ever going to date or have sex again. I struggle to wear any nice knickers or jeans as the sensation is so strange.

I reached out to Dr Sen after I nearly died at 28 resulting in an emergency total hysterectomy- I wanted to treat myself to a perfect looking vagina to help me regain confidence during the menopause and in my 30s wanted to feel sexy again.

What I’ve got is the worst decision I ever made in my life.

Absolutely heart broken and no idea what I can do to make this better!