Labia Puff and Perineoplasty - 15 days away from surgery

I heard about a labia puff a few years ago and was always interested.. I mean if I spend time and money getting Botox and fillers on my face why wouldn’t I give my lady parts the same attention? I am 40 years old and have 3 grown kids. I’ve been with my husband for 22 years, not really any complaints about sex… lack of desire but I think that can mainly be caused by raising a teenager, work and just regular life. Anyways beside experimenting with viagra (him) and me lots of kegals and my secret weapon the china shrink cream ( hella embarrassing) I was suckered into buying and trying it after coming across a review and well yes it works to the point where sometimes it’s hard to even penetrate. I did readin up on it and didn’t find health concerns with it but deep in my gut I was starting to get scared of prolong using it… and then I started to not want to have sex with out it because I became paranoid that I wasn’t tight enough…so I was like I have to find another option to spice things up so I looked back into labia puffing and made a appointment with dr David ghozland .. it took a couple weeks to be seen but once I was things went much faster. The office is nice and clean and the staff was friendly. The dr seemed busy but still answered all my questions and even suggested to me a perineoplasty to tighten my entrance to my vagina, I decided to do both procedures and scheduled for may 6… which is 2 weeks away. I only told my husband I was getting a labia puff which he replied Im crazy and why do I do stuff like this lol I didn’t dare tell him the rest or Im sure he would stop me… or would he lol??

I put a $500 deposit and was called by a pharmacy to pay for a prescription that will be added to a post op care bag after surgery. I was qouted like 7600 …. I lied to my husband and said I was only paying 3000 for it … it’s my money I saved up anyways so I don’t feel like I have to tell him the exact price unless he is offering to pay for it. I also bought stool softeners, arnica tablets, pads, thigh braces, perni water bottle to clean myself properly, dial anti bacterial soap and flushable wipes.

I am nervous about everything, I been researching and went to YouTube where I saw the procedure being performed. The labia puff they will be liposuction my inner thighs for fat to transfer to my outter labia, I hope that the liposuction is performed good and doesn’t leave dents on my inner thigh. That is worrisome. I don’t think much fat is needed for such a small area, so hopefully everything goes good. Now the perneoplasty looks much more intrusive!!! I will be cut and muscles will be repaired and I will be sown back up to a PREPREGNANCY state!!! That’s kinda refreshing for someone who just turned 40 ;) I will have stitches… it takes 8 weeks to recover.

Im currently waiting to receive pre op and surgery day instructions, I’m 15 days away from surgery, if I don’t hear from the cordinators I will email or call them, kinda nerve wrecking!

Anyways So here’s to this new journey~ I’ll post before pictures closer to my procedure.

So I have my procedure scheduled for 9am, I have to be there by 8:30. I live in San Diego about 2 hours away from the dr. So we rented a room in LA about 20 minutes away that way I don’t have to battle Friday morning LA traffic… so that’s nice. I told my husband about the whole procedure he is so nervous for me. I am too but more excited now. I’m scared of feeling pain during procedure because I will be awake. Just numbed and sedated. I was told to bring comfortable clothing so I opted for baggy sweatpants and a comfy long sleeve with warm socks… in the morning I will shower with dial antibacterial soap and shave everything. I can’t believe it’s almost time, I been counting down the days and it’s finally here. I will be documenting my experience… I don’t see many reviews on this and I don’t know of one person personally that has done this so it’s pretty new to me, hopefully my review will help others.

I got to Dr.Ghozlands at 8:45. I paid for surgery and signed paper work, my husband waited in the car. Before I went back to surgery the receptionist came and informed me that I had over paid, and gave me money back…I wouldn’t of even snapped. So I appreciated her honesty. A few minutes later I was called back to a room and undressed from the bottom down and got up on the table. Dr ghozland came in he’s a cool dr and put me at ease and told me he was going to get started on the numbing, I tried to act tough but I won’t lie it hurt, it was the most uncomfortable part. Getting shots in you vagina and butthole area is no fun.. and shots to the thighs hurt like a bitch too. I started to have a bit of anxiety and the drs main assistant noticed and comforted me with a Xanax. Thank god. then the numbing kicked in and I was ok. The dr and 2 assistants helping him they were awesome and kept me distracted with there side talk, I also put on breaking bad in the tv in the room for as much distraction as possible. Then the dr started my perineoplasty which I didn’t feel at all, I was most scared of that so I was relieved that I didn’t feel it . I smelt a lot of burning flesh from the laser, it smelt like burnt hair. The dr. Also fixed one of my labia that was a little longer than the other so that was really cool of him to do. Again the shots hurts, I got a few more in my labia before he fixed it and they hurt. Then everything went even more numb. Next was my lipo and labia puff… now I dunno if my thigh anesthesia had started to wear of already but I kinda felt sharp stinging pain in certain areas, along with pressure but the pressure is normal, when he injected the fat into my labia it was very uncomfortable feeling. I was so relieved and proud of myself once it was all done. if I could go back I would have done this under General anesthesia. But then the dr showed me my results and let’s just say I am so impressed and excited about the outcome. Yea it hurts but sooo worth it. After everything was finished Erica (the main assistant) went over post op and give me a bag full of surgery supplies and went over my medicine. She was so helpful and made me feel so comfortable during such a scary time for me. I appreciate that. She said she call and check on me monday. So now here is part 2 of surgery.. the recovery! It’s up to me so I can have optimal results . Right now I’m laying with a pad on. My lipo incisions are weeping I put on bandaids I’m wearing a long shirt in bed with a towel under me in case I bleed. I’m not bleeding from my vagina much. I took antibiotics and a pain pill. Going to rest now.