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54 year old in shape but finally my abs show--very happy with my new tummy! - La Jolla, CA

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This is going to be long, as I’m telling my whole story at once—after the fact.

After losing 75# and working with a personal trainer for more than a year, I realized that the sagging skin on the front of me wouldn't be going away. It actually got in the way when I did certain exercises. I have muscles elsewhere and I knew there were some abs in there, too, but I wanted my stomach to look as fit as I felt. I hated looking in the mirror unless I was dressed. People would tell me I was "skinny" and didn't need to have anything done, but I sure didn't feel skinny with that extra skin hanging around. I wore a size 6 but I'll bet you wouldn't guess it by looking at my before pictures! I wanted to do this for many reasons, but the most important thing is, I wanted to do this for ME.

I had a consultation with Dr. Edelson and was very impressed. Though I wanted the tummy tuck, my husband wouldn’t agree to it. He just didn’t get why I needed to do this, he loved me the way I was, etc. In the meantime, I had consultations with a few other doctors, neither of whom I was impressed with--I'm talking unprofessional staff and doctors with non-existent bedside manner. If they're that way when meeting a possible new client, how will they be after surgery? I knew I'd found the best doctor the first time. A year after my first consult, I brought my husband in to meet Dr. Edelson and he finally agreed to support my decision.

I had nothing but good experiences with the doctor and his staff---all very personable and professional. Everything proceeded very smoothly. I've never had such a positive experience with surgery (I've had many). The day of surgery, the doctor marked my tummy, took the dreaded before pictures, and I was brought into the operating room and climbed on the table. Operating room staff were wonderful, the anesthesiologist told me he'd use all the tools he had to keep me from being nauseous & throwing up (which has happened with every surgery I've ever had), and next thing I knew, I was waking up. I had absolutely no nausea afterwards. I actually felt pretty good.

Recovery went very smoothly and the doctor followed me closely--saw me the day after surgery, a few days after that, then a week post op--he removed my stitches and drain and changed the tape covering my incision. I had no doubt that I was receiving the highest quality of care.

For a while, I was concerned about the eventual outcome and maybe had a little depression (would it look natural, would the swelling ever stop, sick of the compression garment, tired of my back hurting from not being able to stand up straight, I did this on purpose to myself) -- DESPITE being glad that the overhang was gone. I had heard some women temporarily have this reaction so I didn’t worry about it too much. I got through the first 4 weeks fairly easily and was given permission to stop wearing the compression garment and to start working out again. That made a huge difference physically and emotionally.

By 6 weeks swelling was barely ever present and I could see my new stomach was going to look great. It suddenly started to look like it belonged to me, and at 9 weeks post op, I have to say that it has turned out much better than I ever could have imagined! I didn't just get rid of the extra skin, I got an amazing looking stomach and more confidence to go with it.

There are still some odd feelings like when I scratch one place and I feel it in another, and when I get cold, my stomach muscles will tighten up and feel hard.
And of course, the numb feeling.

I'm considering having a little lipo done to the surrounding areas (thighs and flanks) eventually, so they look like they match my tummy a little more.

(I may post a few additional comments as I think of things that might be helpful for anyone considering having a tummy tuck.)

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January 22, 2016

You look fantastic and I thank you for sharing all of the details of your process.  

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January 23, 2016
Your before and after are amazing..
January 23, 2016
Thank you so much! I think the best is yet to come--they say you have your final result in 6 mo. and a year....
February 24, 2016
You look fantastic!!!!! My husband was exactly the same and had to beg bc he thought I looked great and did not want me to get surgery either. I'm so happy as well. Ps. I get that wierd cramping like a birth contraction every morning. So wierd!!!!
February 24, 2016
Thank you! I have to say that I don't feel as flat these days as at 9 weeks! Maybe because of swelling, but not swollen always. Am I the only one who is worried the results won't last for some reason? Not logical I know. Weird about the cramping! Have you asked your ps?
(Husband has gotten over it but haven't yet told him I want to have a little extra fat taken off! LOL)
February 24, 2016
Lol. I actually would like to do the same! Haha. I forgot to ask about he cramping! But another gal on here has the same thing and then I googled it and tons have mentioned it. So it must be common. Ps. I secretly feel like it won't last either!!!
February 24, 2016
Thanks so much and happy to help :)
February 25, 2016
You really do look amazing! In my humble opinion you don't need any lipo, you have a very nice figure. But I'm sure that this is something you've put a lot of thought into, and of course, you're the one that has to live in and be happy with your body. I'm sure you'll do whats right for you (and hope your husband supports you).

Wishing you lots of good health (to enjoy your fabulous results)!

Ps, I would personally love to see some close ups of your incision and bellybutton if that's something you would consider posting.
February 25, 2016
Thank you, KC--in real life it's lots lumper than it looks! I found underwear, placed just so, covers some of the irregularity, I have areas on the side of my scar, especially one side, that bulge out. It's like not enough fat was taken out to blend in on the side or something. That definitely has to be smoothed out, but if my doc says that my skin will just be loose with more lipo (conservative) then I won't have more. I will past a few pics. Scar is very flat and still quite reddish. BB is small--what the heck with people putting marbles in to shape their bb?! Mine is too small for a marble--maybe a bean though!
February 25, 2016
Ps: I feel bigger the last week or so! More swelling but even when not swollen, don't look as flat, despite weight staying stable and working out with trainer. Annoying!
February 25, 2016
Pics posted.
February 25, 2016
I read you picture post before this one... I'm sorry you're still having problems. You'd think that 3 months out one would be totally fine (it makes me scared :-(
Thank you so much for your pics, I, and so many others, are so appreciative of all the ladies that post their stories. Ups and downs, it's all a part if the journey I guess.

Let us know what you finally decide to do about lipo and if you decide to do a revision. Good luck with everything.
February 25, 2016
Not still having problems--it's "normal" to have swelling still apparently! I've done really well with recovery and I'm sure you will too.
February 25, 2016
Thanks. I wish I would have scheduled my surgery sooner --like September of 2015. I was hoping that by scheduling in March I'd be all systems go for summer but I think I was being naïve. I hate to think that my kid's summer fun will be hampered by my recovery. I'm honestly working on the hope for the best scenario, that I'll just bounce back like no other (because if I don't, I know I'll suffer from the I'm a selfish B syndrome later).
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3 months post

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February 25, 2016
My scar is a little like that but my PS went low in front because I had a pre-existing vertical c-section incision she wanted to remove. I don't really care, though. Your BB is so tiny and cute!
February 25, 2016
How funny-my bb seems TOO small to me, but thanks! I guess cause it's never been tiny. I don't really care about the crooked scar that's so much lower on one side since it will fade and disappear eventually, EXCEPT the way the hairline is affected on that side. Makes it look a little funky. Apparently it's just a minor procedure to fix.
February 25, 2016
Whybrown, thanks for posting! You are a true (RS :-) friend. Again, I think you look great! You have healed well. (That is what we all hope for.) I have to say, I'd be very happy with your scar. It's low and thin, and easily concealed under bathing suit. Are you really planning to do a revision? Will your surgeon charge you more? Please keep us updated.
February 25, 2016
No, he doesn't charge for the revision--it's a simple in office (local anesthesia) procedure he says. my scar is very flat and thin for sure, it's just that hairline thing that bugs! Yours will heal fine too I'm sure--are you not happy with it?
February 25, 2016
Just realized you haven't had your surgery yet! Oops! But hey you're young and I'm sure your skin is way more elastic and you will have a great result! You have a nice figure. That tummy is going to be gone and you're going to feel like a new person! Sounds like you're just about ready to roll.
February 25, 2016
Haven't been under the knife yet. But the scar is what I've been preoccupied with, well that and not dying. LOL.
February 25, 2016
LOL, sometimes I think I'm ready, other times I think I just want to forget the whole thing. I know my husband would rather I change my mind. (But I think I'm going to see it through. I need to stop looking at all the botched stuff though.)
February 25, 2016
You won't die! Put that out of your head right now! You may wish you were dead for a little while (not really) but you'll be fine. I wasn't fixated on anything ahead of time but sure am now! Driving my husband nuts! Wouldn't even look at myself naked before and now I'm looking in the mirror constantly and noticing every little thing!
February 25, 2016
Do it! You may regret it for a few days or weeks (normal) but you'll be so happy you did it in the end!
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This is how my upper abs pooch out between my ribs. More on one side than the other.

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February 25, 2016
Omg. ME TOO. I wrote in to the Dr's and they said its from the TT not being right enough. No physical therapy will help!
February 25, 2016
Thank you for showing me. What does your K's says about that?
February 25, 2016
I haven't shown him and it didn't seem as bad by my last appt (8wks)! I had it to some degree before but it wasn't as puffy between the ribs. I do come in really small right at the bra band line since I lost weight but ribs showed more than the center. I'll think about sending the pic to my doc. Don't want him to think I'm a PITA!
February 25, 2016
What's a PITA?
February 26, 2016
Oops, I didn't respond in the right thread! Pain in the ass.
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February 25, 2016
Mine does the same, though not as pronounced. I hope it's swelling and not fat that wasn't removed.
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February 25, 2016
I'm also 9 weeks post op. I have this padding of fat right below my breast.
February 25, 2016
I know, I think the same-hope it's not fat! Mine looks like a second set of boobs lol
February 25, 2016
Pain in the ass
February 25, 2016
Pain in the ass! Lol. And NO. I think from researching that it's "thick fat tissue" and it's an outer layer of thicker fat that lipo does not respond to...... I copied some articles I can show you. Look at my newsfeed and I'll show you.
February 25, 2016
Will do! I was worried it was from the kind of exercises I do, after reading that another tt lady said that the only kind of exercise that we should do was the Tuppler Technique, not planks, crunches etc. She says those make your tummy bulge out! But I can't find anything about that online. I figured I'd ask my doc when I see him this summer. But I'll probably obsess about it til then!
February 25, 2016
I'll read when I get home tonight--too small on my phone!
February 26, 2016
I know. Sorry about that! Lmk what your thoughts are.
February 26, 2016
Interesting. Like who do you believe? What do you think of the articles? I looked at my before and I did have it but not as much. Ribs still though. But it was there. Didn't have much fat in lower tummy so mostly skin removed; maybe there was just more fat in that part and pulling the skin down exacerbated it. I don't know. I know I'll ask my doc when I see him. Didn't one of the docs say that lipo could be done there?
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February 25, 2016
This is something I talked to my PS about prior to TT. Some people have smaller torsos and some have more prominent rib cages. I have a smaller torso and my ribs do pooch out so I'm curious how my results will be weeks down the road.
February 25, 2016
I am short waisted so that makes sense. My ribs stick out but it's between the ribs. Was slightly there before, I think but indented in the middle. Have to go look at befores now.
February 25, 2016
It feels soft like fat but if I really tighten my abs (like expecting to get punched in the stomach) I can feel some muscle. But I want flat. Ribs are ok though.
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February 26, 2016
My upper abdomen seems a little bigger than the first few weeks PO. I read that our lymphatic systems are cut through at the incision, so we will swell above and below the incision. Nothing really gets through there. I'm sure you're having temporary swelling that area.
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February 26, 2016
Even 3 mos PO. Doesn't the swelling come and go for at least 6 months?