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47 Yr Old, 5'4", 125 Lbs, Planning on 500 Cc Saline High Profile Under Muscle - Geneva, IL
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I've finally decided to have this surgery...I'm...
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I've finally decided to have this surgery...I'm nor sure why now at this age, but here I am...I've decided that if I'm going to do, i may as well go big....id hate to have regrets later that I should have hone bigger. I am a little nervous about what the outcome will be...because I also don't want to wind up ridiculously large. I still have about a month to decide. I really hope I don't end up checkering out altogether. I've posted some before photos, and some of me at the doctor's office trying on the sizers. Opinions, input welcome.
UPDATED FROM stillwell6
1 month pre
Second Guessing Things
So, I have been reading so many profiles lately, i honestly don't know if I will be able to go through with this surgery now! It sounds so painful, and so many I have read talk about a depression afterwards...Gosh, I just don't know if this is going to be worth all of that...I am single, live alone...kids are grown and have lives of their own so I really don't have a lot of support out there for me if all of this happens....as it stands right now, I don't even know if I can find somebody to pick me up from the surgery center...certainly no one to stay with me afterwards...the nurse was going to drive me there....I just needed to find a ride home...
I mean, i still really want to do this and all, but I am really starting to second guess whether or not this is actually going to be feasible for me or not...I was planning on the Tuesday before Thanksgiving, going back to work the Monday after...at this point, I don't even know if that is going to be enough recovery time....OMG, I don't know what to do!!!
I mean, i still really want to do this and all, but I am really starting to second guess whether or not this is actually going to be feasible for me or not...I was planning on the Tuesday before Thanksgiving, going back to work the Monday after...at this point, I don't even know if that is going to be enough recovery time....OMG, I don't know what to do!!!
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October 17, 2015
I honestly had no pain. Ive been thru a breast reduction in june with only tylenol extra strength which is over the counter and i went thru the implants in sept and only took tylenol for 2 days. I have never experienced depression so i can say i had no fear of obtaining it after this last surgery after all i was excited to get the surgery to begin with. I honestly think that the pain meds can cause the depression since it alters ur state of mind the less time ur on pain meds the better off u r. my surge was a thurs and by saturday i was back up and around doing chores. Its all just a state of mind for some of us. I told myself that this was a piece of cake and it was. I had to remind myself to slow down come monday because i felt so good. The key here is to know going in u will experience some tightness and some soreness but you'll bounce back quick. it definitely worth the surgery, i do have a husband who drove me to and from surgery but i just slept it off the day of surgery and was up and around the evening doing stiff for myself. The quicker u get up and moving the better off u r. Any how thats my 2 cents.

October 20, 2015
I just read your reply to her and I couldn't agree more. Women who stay on the meds too long and expext "perfection" tend to have difficulties from all I've read.
Perfection is tricky because it's never going to be perfect to the female who constantly compares herself to others.
I'm glad you also had a great recovery experience.
Perfection is tricky because it's never going to be perfect to the female who constantly compares herself to others.
I'm glad you also had a great recovery experience.

October 20, 2015
I had a ba when I turned 40 and I'm now 46. It's all about you're attitude. Are you a happy person now? Positive thinker? Realistic expectations?
I wanted breasts after nursing 3 kids and was always an a cup.
I went into it not expecting to look "perfect". I knew my right breast would still be a tad lower than left. That's ok. They turned out beautiful. I knew I would be conservative on the pain meds. And I expected pain.
My recovery consequently was fabulous. I tapered and stopped the meds asap (I think that's key...not relying on the meds. A lot do so and it prolongs their recovery mentally and emotionally because they feel groggy and sluggish longer.)
I have never regretted my decision. It boosted my confidence immeasurably. They became mine. (This WILL likely not be immediate so expect to have to adapt to a foreign body for a bit.
Don't be scared. Find a great doctor and enjoy your new look!
I wanted breasts after nursing 3 kids and was always an a cup.
I went into it not expecting to look "perfect". I knew my right breast would still be a tad lower than left. That's ok. They turned out beautiful. I knew I would be conservative on the pain meds. And I expected pain.
My recovery consequently was fabulous. I tapered and stopped the meds asap (I think that's key...not relying on the meds. A lot do so and it prolongs their recovery mentally and emotionally because they feel groggy and sluggish longer.)
I have never regretted my decision. It boosted my confidence immeasurably. They became mine. (This WILL likely not be immediate so expect to have to adapt to a foreign body for a bit.
Don't be scared. Find a great doctor and enjoy your new look!


October 20, 2015
I'm 51 and my BA in February when I was 50. My husband was overseas at the time so I too had to go through it alone for the most part. I asked my adult kids to stay with me just in case but I was fine. They stick around for 48 hours but then I told them it was ok to go home.
Regarding pain and depression, I did not have any depression and was on pain killers and muscle relaxers for 2 weeks. I had pressure and yes pain but ibuprofen, ice packs and sleep were my friends. I took my dog for a walk on day 2! I felt good enough to do it but then was hurting when I got home. Not a good idea!
My husband always teases me and says that it was the best $7000 he ever spent! He seriously cannot keep his hands off of me - which I love!
Oh, one more thought...I notice that a lot of women will post much more when they are feeling blue or in pain which is completely understandable as they are needing support from their RS sisters. The majority of us who do not post as often are back to work feeling and looking great. What I'm saying is that you may be subjected to many more bad stories because a lot of the great BA stories are going unreported.
Regarding pain and depression, I did not have any depression and was on pain killers and muscle relaxers for 2 weeks. I had pressure and yes pain but ibuprofen, ice packs and sleep were my friends. I took my dog for a walk on day 2! I felt good enough to do it but then was hurting when I got home. Not a good idea!
My husband always teases me and says that it was the best $7000 he ever spent! He seriously cannot keep his hands off of me - which I love!
Oh, one more thought...I notice that a lot of women will post much more when they are feeling blue or in pain which is completely understandable as they are needing support from their RS sisters. The majority of us who do not post as often are back to work feeling and looking great. What I'm saying is that you may be subjected to many more bad stories because a lot of the great BA stories are going unreported.

October 20, 2015
I see you were trying on 500cc HP sizers. That's what I got. Check out my page to see what they look like at 8 months post op. Good luck with your decision!

October 20, 2015
Czechchick, i checked out your profile...omg, they look great! I would love to see some pics with you in clothes as well. You and i are both thin, but got are 4" taller than me. ..i still want to do this. ..I'm just trying to work it out. ..

October 20, 2015
I have some. I'll look and update with pics in the next day or two. I think 98% of us said it is 'Worth It' according to the RS statistics. Just let us know when you get nervous and we will support you!

October 28, 2015
Hi again, I posted some pics of me in clothes. I hope it helps with your decision in choosing a size!

October 28, 2015
Thanks for posting those. Everything is helpful at this point. You are 4 inches taller than me too i realize. I went to see Dr. Kopolovic again last night. I took my daughter with. She is so against this. She thinks I'll look like a stripper when I'm done. I think she is really embarrassed by me doing this. That really bothers me. I'm still at a loss here. And i get so nervous i feel sick to my stomach sometimes...and i honestly think if i weren't seeing the guy I'm seeing, i wouldn't be doing this at all. Such a dilemma for me.

October 29, 2015
My 26 year old son said " you're getting a boob job?! You better not go too big!" His fears were short-lived when he realized I wasn't going to look like a stripper or Dolly Parton. Don't do it or not do it for anyone but you. Everyone else will be happy when they know you are happy. I've read how women agonize and worry over this procedure for months even years and once it's done they can't believe how much energy and time they had spent worrying as it really isn't too terribly painful (mostly uncomfortable) and the downtime goes by so quickly.
October 20, 2015
Right there with ya sista! Have the 8k saved but no one to ask for help in recovery. Single divorced mom but not 100% sold on it. If I do it will be saline too. Just don't like seeing the complications afterwards in these RS posts

October 21, 2015
I read mpcc3's comment and found it similar to my thinking. I was 49, single mum, three girls 13-19. They hate my boobs but were great the first week. It does hurt, I was in dreadful pain for first week or two. I'm just over 3 months and still have sore boobs due to my heavy lifting job. You will need help, you will need those painkillers and although mine aren't perfectly perky and identical either, neither is the rest of me. I love my boobs, am glad I had them done and despite what my kids say about them, don't regret my decision for a minute.
Good luck
Good luck
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October 20, 2015
I am 54 and had mine done on July 3rd. Alot of ups and downs, but now I am past all of that. Wish I would have gone bigger. I am about a c....wish I would have went a d. Worth it all! Glad I did it. You won't know how you will feel no matter how much you read till you go thru it yourself. But in the end you will be glad you did.
October 22, 2015
I did the rice sizers, too. They were big and heavy, but i keep reminding myself that u lose some under muscle. I am going with 535cc hp because of that. You are looking great. I am having similar issues with it right now. My ba is scheduled for Jan. Been checking reviews like a madwoman. Nervous as hell. But it's our time. Cheers!
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