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Disappointed with Thigh Lift - Fairfax, VA
UPDATED FROM Havanahipster
24 days post
"After" pictures
$13,000
These pics make me sick... So disappointed and such a waste of money.
ORIGINAL POST
I previously had an LBL with my surgeon and was...
I previously had an LBL with my surgeon and was ecstatic with the results. It did everything I wanted it to...removed my muffin top and ditched my "pooch" tummy. A few weeks ago I went back to him for a thigh lift. All things considered, and relative to massive weight loss patients, my thighs aren't that bad. But I did have wrinkly, droopy skin on the inside of my thighs, slightly dimpled skin, and perhaps most bothersome, lumpy cellulite on the back of my thighs that showed when I wore tight capris. Dring the consultation he said he could "lightly lipo" the back of my thighs but that it may not do much because the anger of overdoing lipo in the back is it disrupts the crease where the buttocks meets the thigh. Check. Got it. I want no part of that so I understood in my mind at any improvement whatsoever to the back of my thighs would be a bonus. As for the inner thighs, he pulled on the skin and said yes, he could remove the excess skin. The day of surgery he marked me up and away I went. He did a great job ensuring symmetry with the scars side to side (big pet peeve of mine); however, the reality is, my thighs were not pulled as tight as I would like. When I mentioned this to him during a post-op visit he said the skin on the inside of the thighs is thinner and trickier to work with, and that all types of problems ensure when the skin is pulled too tight. So...I am left with what I consider to be a $13k investment with a less than desirable result. I still have dimpled skin. There is laxity on the inside of my legs. And I cannot exercise (which is my outlet) to deal with all of these emotions. My emotions range from anger to disappointment to a deep depression, wondering when the hell I can have a revision surgery to fix it. After having such a successful LBL with this same surgeon and then encountering this, I am at a loss. If he didn't think he could achieve the result I wanted, why wasn't this discussed more in depth during the consult? Do I even try to go back to him for a revision or do I seek out another surgeon? And when?
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August 21, 2013
Ditto your feelings! I went to a plastic surgeon after diet and exercise over the years did nothing for skin laxit. My main goal was my thighs. I wanted them tightened o I could wear shorts secondary was my butt I wanted it lifted. I grabbed my thigh fat in the back and inner thighs to demonstrate areas that I wanted dealt with and he didnt say anything. All he said was I can't give you a 20 year olds butt. I said I'm 59 I don't want a 20 year olds but only some lift and shape. When I first got out of surgery and 9 days in aftercare along with 10 lb weight loss from surgery and recovery I looked awesome! It did not last however and by 3 months all started to sag. I was having flexibility issues big time could not shave legs, put on socks etc and when I asked him about this again at my 4 month appt. he said that if I got flexibility back ( I was concerned) I would also get back cellulite and loose skin! He never ever mentioned this per op! There are so many things doctors don't tell you and I feel that I wasn't informed well enough to have made an informed decision. I can't wear a bathing suit and I can't wear shorts any where above my knees. Those were my goals that I had expressed to my surgeon prior to surgery and Zi was never told he couldn't achieve those goals. Very frustrated and disappointed!
August 25, 2013
OMG! this is my same story except I am scheduled to have mine done September 5. I am worried like hell because I have wrinkly, droopy skin on the inside of my thighs, slightly dimpled skin, it's not that bad I just want to be able to have nice looking legs, wear shorts and bathing suits. The doctor I am going to is a great surgeon with the same promising results. I am nervous and I would like a great outcome. I don't want to be disappointed. I want the thigh to be pulled tight but not to wear the cut can possibly separate because that's a part of why they can't pull it as tight. I am woried about the scars more than anything. Do you have any pictures?

August 30, 2013
I think your expectations need to be managed. If I learned anything from this procedure it is this: it will only *improve* your legs, NOT fix them. If you are comfortable with that in your mind and assume that your surgeon is going to be conservative, then I would say you are mentally prepared for a thigh lift. If you are worried about scars...it comes with the territory. If you are worried about them migrating, then you are trying to fight the laws of gravity. Fruitless effort! If you are worried about the cosmetic appearance of the scars, then ask yourself if you really want to trade off losing excess skim for a scar. I was a no brainer to me...I don't care about scars. If you feel you have unanswered questions from our surgeon then call his office and see I he can meet with you again. In hindsight, I wish. We,d have stood in front of a full length mirror, had the surgeon pull my skin on my legs, and demonstrate what type of result I could possibly get. I think I would have immediately noticed that the result would have been short of my expectations, and it would have caused me to seriously reconsider not having the procedure done. Now I am trying to figure out the soonest I can have them revised.
August 30, 2013
I did this with my surgeon the first time - stood in front of the mirror and he pulled my skin. Later I felt that I still did not fully understand what my results would be. So I went back for a second consult and he pulled my skin again. This required me traveling to NJ from the Midwest. I had him show me what my results would be like if he did a shorter incision versus a longer incision. That was a worthwhile thing to do because it was clear to me to get the results I wanted that I would have to go with the long incision. I no longer have the mental image in my mind of what my legs looked like but I do recall that I liked what he showed me. I have high standards like you and I hope that I will be thrilled. But sometimes I get scared that I won't. I know if anyone can give me nice legs it is Dr. Capella.
August 30, 2013
I wish my surgeon would have done that with me. I have been the one pulling and tucking showing him what results I am expecting
August 30, 2013
I just came back from my follow up and my surgeon was the surgeon I wish he had been when I went to see him. We both agreed that if he had been as thorough and upfront with me during my consultation that I would not have had such a negative experience and I may not have gone through with the surgery. I'm glad we learned the air. That doesn't mean that I am so disappointed that I spent the money, risked my life, but still didnt get what I wanted. It is unfortunate and There is nothing I can do to get a partial reimbursement for my unhappiness wth my legs. I feel and felt that I had expressed what I wanted he was just not on point during the two consultations prior to surgery. I never doubted his surgical abilities because I did my due diligence. My lesson here, and perhaps for others is, don't go to a doctor that is getting ready to go on vacation or one that is tired during your consultations. They are not at there best. Even though I believe it is their duty to inform their patients completely and make sure everyone is on the same page prior to surgery.
August 30, 2013
Cleared the air .. That doesn't mean that I'm still not disappointed that I spent the money. Sorry I type to fast for I pad
August 30, 2013
My surgeon told me today that he old not have recommended the vertical incision for me because there are a lot of problems with wounds opening and he didnt think I had enough problems to warrant that type of incision; although that would have given me the smaller tighter thighs I wanted. This is what he should have told me prior to my surgery and we discussed that and he apologized for not understanding me.
August 30, 2013
This really sucks. I am so sorry. It is not right that he isn't doing anything for you. I have heard so many patients not happy about their results lately. SMH. I am clear on my thighs, but there are other areas of my body that my surgeon is operating on and which he did not pull my skin. I got very emotional on the phone yesterday because I know that he has in his mind what he is going to achieve but he has not shown me. He assured me what he would do and that he would show me when I come back for my pre op... but I am a very visual person, I need to see it and I am concerned that the pre op consult is too close to surgery day. My rational self knows that he does fabulous work but my emotional self says "but what if..." I am getting anxious because I like to be in control (especially of my body) and since I have these unanswered questions I am feeling the loss of control.



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