Work on Self Love
Work on Self Love
Although I was still having doubts. His nurse Christina reassured me that I won't look different. I'll just look refreshed. He knows how much fat to remove based on my face ect.
Well here I am months later hollowed out under both eyes. Asymmetrical cause my right side is worse. And facial contouring is completely different. Went from looking tired to sick.
Needless to say this has been THEE worst decision of my life. Been depressed since and lost all interest in my usual activities. I will probably need filler if I want to remedy the problem. And of course tear trough filler is prone to more complications and risk than other areas. So please remember that.
I've since then have gone to about 20 different places for consultations, with all of them telling me something different. So I've came to the conclusion that in this line of work, they all have different ideas of beauty. And they'll all seem confident cause they want the work. So I'm working on acceptance and self love at this point, and trying to move forward. Trying to be thankful that outcome wasn't worse with serious medical complications. After hard researching and support groups I'm realizing that this is common. It doesn't matter if you go to Beverly Hills and pay 20k. Or if you find the best in your area. People have dastardly results and complications.
So please just reevaluate and make sure you can handle the outcome if it doesn't meet your expectations. And know they only post their best procedures online. And a lot of people suffer in silence. But really just focus on loving yourself as you are. We all age and you are beautiful the way God made you.
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Everyone reading this - please please please avoid fat repositioning
I don't know whether you can access the medical journals, but for sure google the abstract of "Orbicularis Retaining Ligament Release in Lower Blepharoplasty: Assessing Efficacy and Complications" (2018) DOI: 10.1097/IOP.0000000000000902
"Results:
There were no significant differences in overall aesthetic result, change in steatoblepharon or tear trough deformity, and postoperative ecchymosis in patients who had ORL release compared with those who did not. Patients who had ORL release had postoperative swelling and chemosis of significantly longer duration and a higher likelihood of developing postoperative ectropion.
Conclusions:
Orbicularis retaining ligament release does not appear to result in additional aesthetic benefit in lower blepharoplasty patients and may increase morbidity in the form of ectropion and prolonged swelling and chemosis."
Best,
Yes, standalone. You are 100% right, they downplay the risks. And nobody who seems ethical wants to risk a revision owing to the high risk of complications. That leaves me with the cookie-cutter Instagrams celebrity surgeons, who seem to stop at nothing to make a buck. They have told me so many flat-out lies (even just compared to their own published papers) during our consults, that could figure on the cover of the Book of [RS bleep]. Did your fat transfer go well?

I have the opposite of you. Dr. Straka repositioned my fat so poorly that I now have a huge bump on the left and I'm too full on the right. I'd love to be hollow. My contour is completely gone - he stole my beauty from me.
I'm glad you are focusing on self love