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38 Yo Mum of 3, New Year New Me! - Birmingham, GB
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Well where to start! I'm now 38 yo and in January...
Mamma3November 30, 2014
$8,500
Well where to start! I'm now 38 yo and in January will have another birthday so almost reaching the big 4 0!! I have 3 beautiful children, 12 yo, 10 yo and 19 months, that I adore but I have been left with a body that feels alien to me. Most of the damage to my stomach was done during my first pregnancy as I was HUGE and thought I must of been having a baby elephant but no just a modest 8lb 8ozs.
During my 2nd pregnancy all was well until the birth and had an emergency c section. Obviously I was so happy and relieved to have my little one safe and well but this made my stomach even worse and I've been wanting a TT ever since.
First starting researching TT about 6 years ago and met with a surgeon but life circumstances changed as I met my new partner who wasn't supportive of the procedure and as it happens went on to have my little angel no 3. Due to the previous problem this was a planned c section.
I've been trying really hard to get in shape and lost the weight but can't do anything about my stomach. I am currently the lightest I've been in my adult life at 9st 3 and aiming for 9st but my stomach bothers me day and night.
My partner and I separated at the start of this year, my choice as he was a waste of space and thought I'm better off on my own, so now feels the right time for the procedure. Ive been doing lots of research and met with mr federico mayo from the hospital group. He was really lovely and put me at ease straight away. He was calm and explained clearly what he could do and what to expect. I came away thinking he was the right PS but did some more research before making the decision. The internet is an amazing thing and I could read lots about his work in Spain as he has his own practise there for over 15 years and is regarded as one of the top PS there. Also thank you to real self and the people I've spoken to here.
So procedure is booked for 23rd of jan, all paid for, time off work booked, child care arranged, and support for me sorted (love you mum). I've added some before pics but I hate looking at them :-((( it's so strange how you can feel confident dressed then the complete opposite with them off. Wish the TT was sooner but know that I need this time to properly get my head around what's going to happen and prepare myself physically and mentally.
I'll check in again soon as my prep continues!! X
During my 2nd pregnancy all was well until the birth and had an emergency c section. Obviously I was so happy and relieved to have my little one safe and well but this made my stomach even worse and I've been wanting a TT ever since.
First starting researching TT about 6 years ago and met with a surgeon but life circumstances changed as I met my new partner who wasn't supportive of the procedure and as it happens went on to have my little angel no 3. Due to the previous problem this was a planned c section.
I've been trying really hard to get in shape and lost the weight but can't do anything about my stomach. I am currently the lightest I've been in my adult life at 9st 3 and aiming for 9st but my stomach bothers me day and night.
My partner and I separated at the start of this year, my choice as he was a waste of space and thought I'm better off on my own, so now feels the right time for the procedure. Ive been doing lots of research and met with mr federico mayo from the hospital group. He was really lovely and put me at ease straight away. He was calm and explained clearly what he could do and what to expect. I came away thinking he was the right PS but did some more research before making the decision. The internet is an amazing thing and I could read lots about his work in Spain as he has his own practise there for over 15 years and is regarded as one of the top PS there. Also thank you to real self and the people I've spoken to here.
So procedure is booked for 23rd of jan, all paid for, time off work booked, child care arranged, and support for me sorted (love you mum). I've added some before pics but I hate looking at them :-((( it's so strange how you can feel confident dressed then the complete opposite with them off. Wish the TT was sooner but know that I need this time to properly get my head around what's going to happen and prepare myself physically and mentally.
I'll check in again soon as my prep continues!! X
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Replies (7)
December 1, 2014
so good to hear you're getting the solution you are so keen to have. it sounds as though you've thought this through and have researched it well. As you say, giving yourself time to prepare for the physical and psychological change is important. I found this site invaluable in learning about what would happen and most importantly managing my expectations about the results. I do hope you get plenty of advice and support from other members of the community. I had BA rather than TT so can't really help other than to wish you every success and happiness with your surgery. It's hard posting those photos of the parts of us that we hate isn't it - but it does help to remind you where you started from once the surgery is done. Good luck hun x
January 19, 2015
Hi Mamma, not long to go now, are you excited yet? This procedure is just as big a mental challenge as it is a physical one and a positive attitude really helps. Now that you have done all your preparations, told your PS of your expectations, it is time to relax and get excited about your big day. Look forward to it with enthusiasm, it is the only way. You will have read enough reviews on here to know that the first 3 days really 'suck' (that is where the positive attitude kicks in), but it does get better on a daily basis. You also know there are thousands of 'experts' who have been through this (including me) and there isn't anything that someone hasn't come across, so reach out with any questions .
I send my best wishes for your big day and a speedy recovery.
Time to get to the start line for your marathon, good luck.
UPDATED FROM Mamma3
Day of treatment
Day one PO
Mamma3January 24, 2015
Well I am on the flat side, having had op yesterday morning. All went well and not had too much pain would, describe it as strong discomfort around a 4 to 5 out of 10. In hospital for 2 nights so being very well looked after.
Mr mayo has been lovely, lovely manner and makes you really at ease. From what I've seen he has done a fantastic job too!!!
Had a problem with the drains not working which meant they had to be replaced, so I had a sneaky peak of my tummy which looked AMAZING!!! Can't wait to see it properly. Didn't get time to take a pic tho :-(
Feeling quite human and really positive for happy healing. Plan for today is sitting in chair and walking down the ward, and hopefully have a bm.
Hope everyone else is going well. And I'll post pics as soon as I can [RS bleep]
Mr mayo has been lovely, lovely manner and makes you really at ease. From what I've seen he has done a fantastic job too!!!
Had a problem with the drains not working which meant they had to be replaced, so I had a sneaky peak of my tummy which looked AMAZING!!! Can't wait to see it properly. Didn't get time to take a pic tho :-(
Feeling quite human and really positive for happy healing. Plan for today is sitting in chair and walking down the ward, and hopefully have a bm.
Hope everyone else is going well. And I'll post pics as soon as I can [RS bleep]
UPDATED FROM Mamma3
2 days post
Day two PO
Mamma3January 25, 2015
Well I'm home and feeling okay. The drains were removed first thing ths morning, and won't lie that did hurt, had oxygen to help get through it. Mainly stinging burning pain but didn't last long. Managed to get a quick pic tho!!! Had a 2 hour drive home that wasn't too bad.
Just trying to keep on top if my pain meds and make sure a walk about every couple of hours. Being well looked after by my mum.
The hard bit will be not peaking again until my follow up apptment on Friday. Need to rest and take small steps on my road to recovery!
Hope everyone else is doing okay xx
Just trying to keep on top if my pain meds and make sure a walk about every couple of hours. Being well looked after by my mum.
The hard bit will be not peaking again until my follow up apptment on Friday. Need to rest and take small steps on my road to recovery!
Hope everyone else is doing okay xx
Replies (2)
January 25, 2015
You look so flat and smooth! Keep letting your dear mum look after you and continue your smooth recovery. :-)
January 26, 2015
Hi Mamma, a great start to your recovery, long may it continue. Great photos too, they will be a reassuring influence later on.
Thank you for joining the community and sharing with us. It's just wrong what our poor bodies have to go through. You look like you are at a good weight and in shape, but the skin will not go away on it's own. No worries you are about to get a beautiful new tummy.
I will watch for your updates:)