A 39 Y.O. Mother of 3 Wanting to Get my Sensation Back

Well. My hubby just said he wants to send Dr Goodman flowers... his enjoyment increased tremendously since the procedure, his orgasms are really longer, many times stronger and he finds it more difficult to hold it back...(he always, ever since we met, had perfect control over his timing, so it's actually a disadvantage for me but so very flattering and satisfying by itself). He really loves both how things look and feel now. As for me- I have control of my pelvic floor muscles and vaginal muscle again, no stress incontinence whatsoever, sexually -we have to learn things anew because it feels somewhat like a different organ, I do believe I have some unreversable nerve damage from the childbirths, it's not as easy as when I was pre children nor as enjoyable but one can't expect to reverse time and damage completely, I have suffered significant damage giving birth. The bottom line is that my orgasms are stronger and many times the whole thing is more pleasurable. ( I think it will get even better as we learn the "new me" some more for example I never could climax from just penetration alone and now get pretty close, I think maybe someday I will).

OK ladies, here are the saucy details you really want to know when you decide whether to do this procedure.
I did this because after 3 deliveries, I became lax and weak muscled. It was very difficult for me to obtain an orgasm, whether clitoral or my precious blended one, and when I did it was as weak as a fly sneezing, totally not worth the trouble and not really enjoyable.
Well - 2 month post op and 2 weeks of serious kegel exercising with the "Apex" kegel trainer my wonderful Dr. included in the surgical fee, and I have it back!
My husband and I had sex 3 times since I was "good to go" again. The first time was very painful. It was the most surreal experience, like being a virgin all over again and being with my spouse of 14 years for the first time. the second and third were less and less painful. I know it will be OK soon. I couldn't climax during intercourse because of the pain, but did have clitoral orgasms and they were real, strong orgasms. Maybe not as good as when I was 18...but they were the real thing and will probably get better as I keep strengthening my muscles.
I am tighter, my husband, who didn't feel it was a problem before, said at first it felt "somewhat tighter" but then admitted is certainly is. (I mean truly, he was barely able to penetrate the first time but then my doctor didn't make me extremely tight because my husband is well endowed). He also had, each of these times, the longest, on the verge of bizarrely long, orgasms - an unexpected and nice added value...
I am so happy I did it - definitely worth it!!!
Hope my review helps someone. And here are pics as well

Well it's 1 month post and I'm feeling great. Went to a local OB/GYN who simply admired the work Dr Goodman did and said "it's like looking at a work of art". He appreciated the fabulous delicate, accurate and aesthetic work so much, acknowledging it was done by a "master" at this field. I look like an 18 year old down there... husband and I love the looks.
It's hard to explain but it feels like everything is back in its proper place, all the pelvic organs. I don't have urinary incontinence at all anymore, I can empty my bladder fully (before I always had some urine retained that I had to "push" out). I wasn't aware but I was constantly constipated before and had to strain- now it's effortless and feels (pardon the details) that the rectum is straight again (which it is thanks to a successful rectocele repair the surgery included). My body feels like when I was before childbirth. And because my vagina is no longer gaping, or because of the Femilift or both, it isn't as dry as it used to be and I feel much more arousal, like when I was young. And I have muscle tone there! I am so happy already that I did it, so many advantages already, before I even find out what it will do to me sexually (and I have a hunch it will improve things tremendously). 4 weeks to go- we'll see...