Nervous! - Connecticut
Considering getting BR but very nervous and dont...
Considering getting BR but very nervous and dont take well to pain! I am a 38g/h and cant take the neck and back pain any longer. I gained 50lbs 2 yrs ago and doubled in my chest taking me to this size. So scared about the pain after surgery and if they will be even and nipples in exact location...trying to drop some weight so they will possibly get smaller but easier said than done. Being 42 odds are against me bc I cant exercise being im so large..HELP!!!
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Hello everyone! Well my surgery is scheduled for...
Is the pain terrible please be honest I am beside myself. just so uncomfotable the way I am so I know iI need to do something.you know what they say..if nothing changes nothing changes. So I am hoping for the best. Hope I pull through this is a big procedure.
Thanks for everyones words of encouragment.
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You can do this. Child birth is far worse!!! The results you will end up with with make you over the top happy. Go for it and keep your chin up.
Honestly I had more discomfort that I did actual pain.

Ok so tomorrow is my surgery date! soooo nervous....
Please wish me well all. Hope I make it out ok.
Thanks for giving me feedback your words of encouragement mean alot! I will let you all know how everything turns out. keep your fingers crossed. Oh are you able to get up and walk around or is it too painful? let me know thanks
Welcome to RealSelf!
You know I was never able to drop the weight before my reduction. I was so big and bouncy and it hurt. Honestly getting this done made me feel so much better. Which then really motivated me to drop my weight.
Please don't let the pain scare you away from this. That is temporary and this procedure will give you so much relief. Start by meeting with 3-4 surgeons and doing your research. Once you start that process you will feel better about this. You need to be mentally ready and only you can make this personal decision.
All I can do is assure you that you will feel better and be happy in the end. I tell you it's a really good feeling not having them on the waist and in the lap. There is also something to be said for having the nipples both facing forward and not at the floor:)
We are here for you!
Petite thank you for the nice feedback:) I am happy you are here with us and love being a support for all of you wonderful ladies.
I am glad to hear you are doing so well post op and look forward to following your journey. Keep us up to date on your healing process.
ebg you are ok girlie:)