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26, No Kids, Have Always Wanted to Feel Sexier, Need Help!! - Columbus, OH
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So I'm not even sure where to begin. Like most,...
achapJuly 29, 2015
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So I'm not even sure where to begin. Like most, I've always felt very lacking in the sexy category. I have always wanted boobs but just never filled out. I'm a 34A on a good day and would love to just go up to a full C. I don't want anything too big or unnatural. I don't have an kids and am not sure I'm planning on ever having any. I'm married to a wonderful man who says that he loves me either way but I just know he would really love it if I got this done. We have the money so I can do it whenever I make up my mind. I have my first consultation with Dr. Roxanne Grawe tomorrow!! I am a little worried about the recovery but I'm very active and healthy so I think I should recover pretty well. My biggest hold up with all of this is I keep reading the "Explanting" stories because I want to know why people are getting their implants removed. The majority of the people say they experience lots of sickness, joint issues, GI issues, and most are diagnosed with auto immune disorders... I'm so afraid to do something just because I want to look better that's going to make me feel awful and I'll never feel like myself again. Does anyone have any advice on this? Are the stories I'm reading just a small percentage and the rest are so happy? Those of you who have had your BA for 2 or more years have you noticed any changes in the way you feel or your health? I'm just trying so hard to weigh the pros and cons. I know saline is maybe supposed to be a little "safer" but I also hear of people getting the health issues with it. I know technology has come such a long way and everything is FDA approved but im still scared with all the horror stories! They all say its their biggest regret. Someone help please!!
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August 2, 2015
Hi achap! Everybody is different. Some people tolerate the implants well, others get sick immediately. I had mine for 20 years before I got very, very sick. Silicone is toxic to the body. It doesn't matter if the implants are silicone or saline...the implant shell is silicone and you are placing a foreign material in your body. Saline can also develop mold in the body. I don't mean to scare you. I tolerated mine really well for over 20 years. "Sexy" is not how our bodies look...it's our minds, our self-esteem and feeling confident and self-assured. You will eventually have to have surgery again -- to revise or remove them. Implants are not lifetime devices. You're so smart to do your research. I wish you well as you consider the options and make a decision that you are comfortable with. All the best.
August 3, 2015
Thank you so much for your advice! It's so hard to get opinions from people who have had them for awhile! I would have never thought about the mold in saline! I'm just so torn. I'm really trying to research every possible issue and looking into exactly what the FDA says about them and other studies done. I want to feel 100% prepared if I do decide to do it. I loved the PS I met with last week and she did answer a lot for me but at the end of the day I'm sure she's just trying to make money like everyone else. Just looking for honest opinions! Thank you so much!
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Booked for new boobs!!!! Need suggestions!!
achapAugust 31, 2015
I finally took the plunge! I'm scheduled for November 13!!! I'm super excited although i know the closer I get to the date the more scared I'm going to get. I guess my biggest concern is how long I have to wait to workout. I'm finally at a good level physically and normally workout at least 3x a week. I don't know how I will do with taking 4-6 weeks off!!! The only plus is its going to start getting cold in November so I wouldn't be able to as much anyways. I would love for someone to give me a list of "must haves" for after surgery. What kind of lotions and things did you all used? It there anything you found to be really helpful you wouldn't normally think of? Thank you all so much!
Oh I also told my sister I'm having this done. She cried and told me that God will be so sad that I've done this to my body and that He made me like I am for a reason. She also told me how stupid and selfish it is. i was hoping for a little bit more support especially since I already feel like its selfish and indulgent. How have you all gotten past the negative people in your life? My husband is 100% on board and probably even more excited than I am, so thats helping keep my sprits up. Thanks for letting me vent!
Oh I also told my sister I'm having this done. She cried and told me that God will be so sad that I've done this to my body and that He made me like I am for a reason. She also told me how stupid and selfish it is. i was hoping for a little bit more support especially since I already feel like its selfish and indulgent. How have you all gotten past the negative people in your life? My husband is 100% on board and probably even more excited than I am, so thats helping keep my sprits up. Thanks for letting me vent!
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September 14, 2015
You can not let what others say/think affect your decision. You've done the research. This isn't an impulse decision. If you are comfortable with it, then move ahead. I've wanted to do this for 30+ years and I've finally booked Nov 4. I've told the people I have to tell (boss, coworkers etc) and some family members. I am not telling my mother (at 51, I don't need her permission and her reaction would be very similar to your sister's), but I've told my brothers. One is for, one against. Your husband is on board, so that is a plus. It's not easy going against what some people think is right for you, but at the end of the day, you are the only one who can decide what you do for yourself. What decisions have you made as far as cc's, under/over muscle, profile? Stay strong and please keep posting! You never know when something you say or ask on here will help someone else.
September 14, 2015
There is also a page here of 13 things to do/buy before breast augmentation. If you use the search feature, it should come up.
September 15, 2015
Thank you so much for your encouragement. I'm feeling better and better about my decision as the date gets closer. I'm more nervous about possible long term complications such as the crazy unexplainable sicknesses some people swear is from the silicon implants. Although I've already prepared myself to have to get them out if I ever start to feel what these women are describing.
I've not totally decided on size yet.... I'm a 32-34A now and want to be a nice full C. I'm thinking 300-350 ccs. I'm afraid to go too big because I do like to be active and workout and run and I don't want them to be too heavy or get in the way. My surgeon does the half under the muscle technique (I forget the medical term for it). and I actually don't know what the profile is, we never discussed it an my appointment. What have you decided on, and what's your ultimate goal?
I've not totally decided on size yet.... I'm a 32-34A now and want to be a nice full C. I'm thinking 300-350 ccs. I'm afraid to go too big because I do like to be active and workout and run and I don't want them to be too heavy or get in the way. My surgeon does the half under the muscle technique (I forget the medical term for it). and I actually don't know what the profile is, we never discussed it an my appointment. What have you decided on, and what's your ultimate goal?
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375 HP smooth round!!! Only 3 weeks away!
achapOctober 23, 2015
Had my pre op yesterday! Less than 3 weeks away! Decided size although I pretty much already knew what I was wanting going in. I'm sooooo thankful for this amazing site that has educated me about everything and made me super prepared. I've finally added a few before pics and a few with the sizers! Let the countdown begin.
You're not alone with your thoughts. There are always risks and implants aren't necessarily for everyone. Glad to see you're doing a lot of research and even going on a consult. Let us know how it goes today and don't rush into anything if you're not feeling confident. ;)