46 Yrs Tummy Bulge Affecting Quality of Life

I am 57yrs old and I just had my tt on 6/12/17...I am so happy I did it. I had an intertube for a belly - I worked out, just like you, did clean eating and this tire would not go away. Doc explained pregnancies; genetics; previous surgeries - this was not going away on its own. The drains are not that terrible. I have been taking it easy, as told as I want this heal real nice. At my post-op when the doc removed the binder I cried...I was so happy with what I saw already. Make sure you have help - do as your doc says - I am over a week and feel stronger each day. I am also convinced having worked out and having a strong core is helping with my recovery. I wish you the best - you will be happy.

Your feelings are completely normal! Pretty much every woman I have met on here says the same thing, including myself! One minute you're excited, the next you're thinking "what am I going to do? Is this necessary?!" Good luck on your journey! When I had my TT I had your same stats. I'm 5'3" and now weigh like 131, so I've lost a couple lbs since surgery

Hi Newbie..TT - I had a TT on 6/19/17 with Dr Iorio. First let me say that Dr Iorio and his staff are great. I consulted with 6 PS and hands down found Dr Iorio to be the best. I was in the same boat as you - I go to a Crossfit (like) gym 3 times a week & eat a very healthy diet. However, 2 c sections & weight gain during pregancies left me with a "fat/skin apron". I lived with it for 18 years. I'm turning 50 in the Fall & want my appearance to reflect the amount of effort I put in at the gym.

I am 2 weeks post-op. I feel pretty good. The first night was rough but things got better each day. By day 3 I was taking the pain medication only at night to sleep. I stopped completely by night 6. The drains are gross looking but they are not painful. My first drain came out day 4 po. The second on came out day 10 po. There was no pain in the removal of the drains, just a weird wiggly worm feeling as they pull it out.

What does stink, literally, is not showering until the drains are removed. Some Doctors allow you to shower or take a sponge bath, Dr Iorio is not one of them. I got bath wipes & dry shampoo. On the 4th day I washed my hair by leaning over the tub. It worked out fine.

I hope this has helped you with your feeling of being torn. I will be glad to answer any specific questions that you have.

Hello! What did you decide to do? I am feeling the exact same way but have surgery scheduled for Nov 7th. I’m scared and hope this is a good decision.

Thank you all so much! Your encouragmental is making me more excited then afraid!

Ugh hoping it's nothing and you get clearance for your surgery. Good luck!

Best wishes

When you guys say the first night was rough, we are talking pain level right? Ugh! My worries are all the same as above but I also worried how this nice tummy will look with my giant arms! I’m only 5 ft tall, exercise and eat very healthy. Arms are a hereditary thing. Their big especially for my frame. My breasts are large for me too. I sometimes think you are going to go through all this and still look fat. Wish I could just be happier with my body

Hang in there it is going to be alright. Before you go in for your next EKG, focus on your breathing. Just give it to God and know that you will be in good hands.

Getting ready for surgery can be stressful enough, let alone having to do more. Sorry to hear things came out abnormal, but it's a good thing your drs are being thorough and taking good care of you. Hoping things work out for you :)