The results so far seem ok - my concern is with his nurse staff

This was my first ever elective surgery. While the results so far seem ok, (3.5 weeks post op) my concern is with his nurse staff. After the surgery the dr. Was very RUDE to my mother when she asked a simple question about a specific detail of the surgery. Then my 1st and now LAST post op was scheduled almost a week to late, delaying may recovery? During the post op my questions were not answered by Colleen or Phyllis the "NUUSES"?. then cusick came in, spent maybe 5min with me and was not clear on all future steps needed. When I called back a week later to descibe sudden symptoms i was having (possible symptoms of a blood clot?). I asked if I needed to be seen again. Phyllis told me to tough it out and go back to work so I dont lose my job. They wanted to give me 1 week to return to my very physical job after being cut in 8 differnt places. When everything Iv'e read says my recovery should be 3-4 weeks min. Leaving me to self diagnose from crap I've read on the internet. Now I may lose my job if I can't return do to limited arm mobility. I guess there was a reason I got the consult and surgery completed in less time then all other surgeons wait times for just the consult was. SO I GUESS THIS IS ALL MY FAULT. If your in the KC area make sure you get other consults from PS's in the area if your thinking about using this guy. I can't belive this minor surgery may now cost me my good job.