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Abeer Made Me Feel Like I Was Deformed, and Seduction Has Ignored All my Concerns with my Post Op
UPDATED FROM Drea34
3 months post
Update
4 months post- The pain is the same I still can’t sleep on my side or seat or drive without my bbl pillow. If I attempt to the lumps are rock hard and I get serve sharp pains.
I have reached out to the owner. She ignores most messages but will respond and says she will have someone call. Once they did I called right back and nothing. That was the day after this post. One lady nice and promised to follow up. A week later she said told me she had to quit because they were a mess, had no answer for me. I filed a complaint with the BBB they respond within 48 hours and claimed my surgery was successful. So they can respond to that but not to my pain. I will be filing another claim. I have been told by a lawyer the to file a complaint against Dr. Abeer with the medical board since my medical file has false records. Other than that there is nothing I can do legally about my results.
I have reached out to the owner. She ignores most messages but will respond and says she will have someone call. Once they did I called right back and nothing. That was the day after this post. One lady nice and promised to follow up. A week later she said told me she had to quit because they were a mess, had no answer for me. I filed a complaint with the BBB they respond within 48 hours and claimed my surgery was successful. So they can respond to that but not to my pain. I will be filing another claim. I have been told by a lawyer the to file a complaint against Dr. Abeer with the medical board since my medical file has false records. Other than that there is nothing I can do legally about my results.
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Abber Made Me Feel Like I Was Deformed, and Seduction Has Ignored All my Concerns with my Post Op
I had surgery with Dr. Abeer on May 4, 2021. I had researched doctors for over a year. I was excited about working with her. After our virtual consultation, I was comfortable. I learned that she was picky and would cancel if she was uncomfortable. That made me anxious, but I appreciate it. I contacted my coordinator every week to ensure I did what I needed to avoid getting canceled.
The day of my surgery, she was 2 hours late. When I was finally called back, I met with the anesthesiologist, who was friendly, communicative, and informative. When I met with Abeer, she was professional but dry. She began marking me up. Before I could get into what I wanted, she asked me to turn around. When she saw me from behind, she laughed and asked me what happen. I did not understand what she meant as nothing had ever had happened. As well as I have had the previous consultation and never had that response. Abeer proceeds to stay me that Seduction always gives her problematic cases. I explained that no one gave me to her. I choose her, and she then said the difficult ones always do. As I proceed to try and understand, I asked questions: Will I have good results, do you think I will need around 2. She responded I will take care of you. She then asked me about a couple of areas on my body, specifically a ridge on the top of my butt. We agreed that it should be removed. Once she left the room, I burst into tears. I lost all confidence in the surgery and in her as my surgeon. I wanted to cancel, but the anesthesiologist came, and I knew I would not get a refund. So I proceed. After the surgery, I was immediately unhappy with my results. The next day, I thought I would see Abeer at my post-op, but I saw her medical assist Aylin.
I expressed my feelings about my experience with Abber as well as my dissatisfaction with my results. My butt was big, square, and flat, and I had a massive pocket of fat on my left hip. It was very firm. I even explained that I had to go to the emergency because I had a rough time coming off the anesthesia. I was admitted overnight for observation. Alyin proceeded to tell me there was no reason for me to go to the hospital. As well as dismissed my complaints about my results and told me I have to wait 6 months before I could complain. Aylin then said that Abeer has a reputation for being rude but that she had gotten much better. I explained that I wanted her to know, and I wanted an apology. I never heard from Abeer.
Finally, when I got my medical records, Aylin, the medical assistant, falsified my medical records by saying that I was happy with my experience and post-op with Abber, which directly conflicted with the conversation we had. I paid for a cell saver, and according to my medical chart, there is no mention of it ever being used.
I have been calling, texting, and messaging Seduction and its owner Gretal Jardon. No one has called me or follow up.
I am 10 weeks post-op, and I have huge lumps throughout my butt and hips. The same hip I complained about the day after surgery. The bumps are hard. I cannot sit without a BBL or laying on my sides or back because it's painful. It feels like sitting on laying on a bed of rocks. I follow all the post-op instructions. I did not even attempt to sit until I was two months. I was off work and kneed, lied, and stood for everything I did.
I went in with a butt that I had had over 37 years and just wanted to feel better about myself after losing weight and a breakup. I now have a butt that is still oddly shaped feels horrible. I am not even comfortable enough to have sex because I don't want my new friend to know that I had a bbl. And I can't hide it with large hard lumps throughout my butt. Seduction and Abeer just did what they wanted and don't even respect me enough to pretend to care.
The day of my surgery, she was 2 hours late. When I was finally called back, I met with the anesthesiologist, who was friendly, communicative, and informative. When I met with Abeer, she was professional but dry. She began marking me up. Before I could get into what I wanted, she asked me to turn around. When she saw me from behind, she laughed and asked me what happen. I did not understand what she meant as nothing had ever had happened. As well as I have had the previous consultation and never had that response. Abeer proceeds to stay me that Seduction always gives her problematic cases. I explained that no one gave me to her. I choose her, and she then said the difficult ones always do. As I proceed to try and understand, I asked questions: Will I have good results, do you think I will need around 2. She responded I will take care of you. She then asked me about a couple of areas on my body, specifically a ridge on the top of my butt. We agreed that it should be removed. Once she left the room, I burst into tears. I lost all confidence in the surgery and in her as my surgeon. I wanted to cancel, but the anesthesiologist came, and I knew I would not get a refund. So I proceed. After the surgery, I was immediately unhappy with my results. The next day, I thought I would see Abeer at my post-op, but I saw her medical assist Aylin.
I expressed my feelings about my experience with Abber as well as my dissatisfaction with my results. My butt was big, square, and flat, and I had a massive pocket of fat on my left hip. It was very firm. I even explained that I had to go to the emergency because I had a rough time coming off the anesthesia. I was admitted overnight for observation. Alyin proceeded to tell me there was no reason for me to go to the hospital. As well as dismissed my complaints about my results and told me I have to wait 6 months before I could complain. Aylin then said that Abeer has a reputation for being rude but that she had gotten much better. I explained that I wanted her to know, and I wanted an apology. I never heard from Abeer.
Finally, when I got my medical records, Aylin, the medical assistant, falsified my medical records by saying that I was happy with my experience and post-op with Abber, which directly conflicted with the conversation we had. I paid for a cell saver, and according to my medical chart, there is no mention of it ever being used.
I have been calling, texting, and messaging Seduction and its owner Gretal Jardon. No one has called me or follow up.
I am 10 weeks post-op, and I have huge lumps throughout my butt and hips. The same hip I complained about the day after surgery. The bumps are hard. I cannot sit without a BBL or laying on my sides or back because it's painful. It feels like sitting on laying on a bed of rocks. I follow all the post-op instructions. I did not even attempt to sit until I was two months. I was off work and kneed, lied, and stood for everything I did.
I went in with a butt that I had had over 37 years and just wanted to feel better about myself after losing weight and a breakup. I now have a butt that is still oddly shaped feels horrible. I am not even comfortable enough to have sex because I don't want my new friend to know that I had a bbl. And I can't hide it with large hard lumps throughout my butt. Seduction and Abeer just did what they wanted and don't even respect me enough to pretend to care.
Replies (5)
I'm so sorry you had that awful experience . I really hope you can get your money back or something !!!
I can imagine what you feel on a daily basis, and I'm sorry you were treated like that. You should file a complaint with the Medical Board and with the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB). This is horrible!
Honey I am so sorry this happened to you. You deserve a voice and you certainly deserve respect. I have had indentations from fat/cellulite. The silver lining in this is that can can be manipulated to smooth out(well the fascia that is being pulled and stretched) it will take some effort and time BUT YOU CAN DO IT!!!! I had it on the backs of my legs and my butt. I can share with you how I addressed it you like? I do not work for anyone nor am I selling anything lol I simply have been in a place we're I was beat down and felt terrible about myself. Sending love
I would appreciate any help you can provide. I been getting massages every week and it’s not helping. I still can’t seat directly on my butt without my pillow because the lumps are painful. Or lay in my side.
I'm so sorry this happened to you. Like the others, I truly hope you're able to get a refund/compensation so you can get this fixed. You've been so strong, I hope you're able to find support here and move forward to a better place. Much love! ♡
Call the medical board for whatever state you are in...it will be difficult to sue her because you would have to get a couple of letters from other doctors stating it is a botched job and they will comply because they don't want to get sued...just trash her name and reputation all over the internet with photos to prove the damage Abeer has done...with a name Abeer maybe she had a few before she performed your surgery.
Meant to say the doctors usually will NOTcomply by writing a letter stating the doctor was negligent. However, if you document your situation and complain to the Medical Board and if the surgery was in a hospital, complain to the hospital. Or, have another doctor repair the damage and maybe he or she will be able to help you get compensated monetarily..there is no excuse for rudeness, being late and entitled...there is a Code of Ethics all licensed individuals must abide by...so sorry you had to go through this...
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You are alone, this plastic surgery industry isn’t policed and women like me and you ate harmed by surgeons with zero accountability. I have nerve damage and chronic pain since my surgery. Don’t be afraid and keep sharing your story. I’m proud of you for being open to sharing your experience so others know how they handled patients.