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38 Years Old//1 Child//Afraid I'm Wasting my Money - Birmingham, AL
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Hello Real Selfers, As my title indicates I'm 38...
definitely.MAYBEJanuary 31, 2018
$6,500
Hello Real Selfers,
As my title indicates I'm 38 years old, a mother of one and preparing for a tummy tuck. My surgery date is 2/9/18 and I'm equal parts anxious, excited and terrified. I change my mind about the surgery several times a day mostly because it's so much money. I can't help but think investing nearly $7,000 into a tummy tuck is shallow, vain and fiscally irresponsible. But on the other hand, what's wrong with a little vanity especially when it improves my quality of life and raises my self esteem. I'm 38 and have never worn a two piece, can only engage in intercourse under the cover of darkness and I frequently describe my naked body as a melted candle. My heart whispers "I need this tummy tuck" but my head screams "Lady, get a grip. The only thing you need is Jesus".
It's just so much money. I'm so indecisive. I don't know. Ugh, this is frustrating. 2 weeks...in 2 short weeks I'll either have a smaller waist or a smaller debt to income ratio.
As my title indicates I'm 38 years old, a mother of one and preparing for a tummy tuck. My surgery date is 2/9/18 and I'm equal parts anxious, excited and terrified. I change my mind about the surgery several times a day mostly because it's so much money. I can't help but think investing nearly $7,000 into a tummy tuck is shallow, vain and fiscally irresponsible. But on the other hand, what's wrong with a little vanity especially when it improves my quality of life and raises my self esteem. I'm 38 and have never worn a two piece, can only engage in intercourse under the cover of darkness and I frequently describe my naked body as a melted candle. My heart whispers "I need this tummy tuck" but my head screams "Lady, get a grip. The only thing you need is Jesus".
It's just so much money. I'm so indecisive. I don't know. Ugh, this is frustrating. 2 weeks...in 2 short weeks I'll either have a smaller waist or a smaller debt to income ratio.
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5 Days Pre-Op
definitely.MAYBEFebruary 4, 2018
Hello Real Selfers,
Tomorrow is my last Pre-Op appointment before surgery. I'm no longer excited, just really nervous. I have so many questions and concerns. Now that I've decided to proceed with the TT my worries have mutated; changed from cost sensitivity to results apprehension. What if I don't like the results? What if after the TT I'm boxy or really thick in the middle? I've been looking at photos of people kinda shaped like me; some of the results aren't flattering at all. I'm trying to align my expectations with reality, I'm trying to be realistic but I think I'm failing miserable. Tomorrow I'm going to address my concerns with Dr. Oliver. I have about 12 questions written down and a couple of pictures printed I plan to present and discuss with him.
Another major concern, I don't have the support of my family. I'm not married nor in a relationship. I have 5 siblings but none of them are willing to come care for me after the surgery. I live 4 hours away from them. So that plays a part too. I really don't know what I'm going to do. I plan on discussing this with Dr. Oliver too. I hope he doesn't suggest I postpone my procedure. That would be a bummer.
TTYL Real Welders!
****I'll post pictures today ????????
Tomorrow is my last Pre-Op appointment before surgery. I'm no longer excited, just really nervous. I have so many questions and concerns. Now that I've decided to proceed with the TT my worries have mutated; changed from cost sensitivity to results apprehension. What if I don't like the results? What if after the TT I'm boxy or really thick in the middle? I've been looking at photos of people kinda shaped like me; some of the results aren't flattering at all. I'm trying to align my expectations with reality, I'm trying to be realistic but I think I'm failing miserable. Tomorrow I'm going to address my concerns with Dr. Oliver. I have about 12 questions written down and a couple of pictures printed I plan to present and discuss with him.
Another major concern, I don't have the support of my family. I'm not married nor in a relationship. I have 5 siblings but none of them are willing to come care for me after the surgery. I live 4 hours away from them. So that plays a part too. I really don't know what I'm going to do. I plan on discussing this with Dr. Oliver too. I hope he doesn't suggest I postpone my procedure. That would be a bummer.
TTYL Real Welders!
****I'll post pictures today ????????
Replies (2)
February 4, 2018
Hello, I;m sorry to hear you have no one there for physical support. Can you stay a night in the hospital, I know that maybe an added expensive You don't have a friend you're comfortable with. You can get through it alone, it will be hard the 1st few days but if you stay on top of your meds it's doable. Oh, I feel so bad you've come this far, I will pray that your surgeon gives you the answers you need to give you the strength to go forward with this life changing experience. Stay positive and Be Blessed
February 7, 2018
I had my TT 10yrs ago and it was amazing...but you have to have someone check in on you.. it won't be easy for a couple days so please find someone to be with you after.
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February 6, 2018
Hello, how'd your appointment go. I think you'll have amazing results. Try to prep your meals, NO SALT, in advance. put everything counter height that you can. Have you found anyone to assist you, just know we're all here for you....Good Luck, Happy Healing
February 6, 2018
My appointment went very well. I was finally able to get a food friend to stay with me for 3 days after surgery. I'm super excited but also really scared. Is it crazy that I'm more afraid of a botched surgery than dying from surgery? Death I can deal with but being disappointed after spending nearly $7,000????? I can not!
February 6, 2018
****I don't know how the word food got into that sentence...Please disregard
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