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POSTED UNDER Neck Lift Reviews

46 Years Old but Looked About 56

UPDATED FROM Tobetamy2
2 years post

So disappointed

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Tobetamy2
$7,000
I was so pleased with the results immediately after and while I was swollen and recovering. I didn’t have any bruising at all. Had my surgery two days before Christmas and was back to work after the weekend of Christmas. During my recovery and up to 7-8 months I had a pouch of skin under my neck and while addressing it with my surgeon he injected something in there and said that should do it. It didn’t. He did the injection like 2-3 more times. After a year and half I look exactly like I did before my surgery. When discussing this with my surgeon he said skin is skin and my daily skin care is a big part of it and he would send his nurses in to go over the options of laser procedures and other things. I was very upset and didn’t even wait for the nurse because it had only been a little over a year and he wanted me to dish out more money to fix something I paid a lot of money for. I refuse to spend another penny for laser treatments 1 and a half after having a neck and lower face lift. I moisturize every and and have stayed out of the sun, so I am not sure what else he expected me to do. This is what it looks like now! ????. Very hesitant to go through this again if this is what will happen 1 1/2 years after. I am not only embarrassed that I look like this again, but it really hits me hard when friends and family ask me if what I had done was suppose to be a temporary fix!!! Now I am back to wearing turtle necks and scarfs. Please if this has happened to anyone else, comment and let me know what your surgeon has done or/and told you why, and did they make it right for you!!

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Jonathan Weiler, MD

Jonathan Weiler, MD

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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May 21, 2019
So sorry to hear! I've been in your situation. My first SMAS face/neck lift failed by the 2 second month and my doctor at the time would not acknowledge it at all. So by my 6 months I was on the hunt for a new surgeon to fix. Found one and by my year post o[ from the 1st surgery, I had a 2nd face lift with a new doctor. Well, by the 1st month of the second surgery my neck bands returned and a pouch underneath my chin!!!! But this time my 2nd surgeon offered to revise the neck when I reach my 7 months post-op. Well I reached 7 months and I just had my neck bands revision this past week and I can already see the bands again!!!! Very disappointed, Dr. saids that it's just swelling but I truly think it's loose skin and I need to be tightened again, but I don't think he'll even entertain that idea at all. Plus my jowls are looking a little heavy again, so I'am worried that the whole deal will not last a year or more. I'am crossing my finger that I'am wrong and the bands will get better with time, but from experience, is that if I can see them this early on, they'll only be worse later. Good luck, I'am sure if you're doctor is dismissing you now, he probably isn't going to fix it, you may need to consider another surgeon. It killed me to have to do that but my first surgeon was such a jerk about my results that I had to go to someone else to fix it. It cost me an arm and leg and even still, I'am not sure how things are going to turn out in the long run. Keep me posted and I wish you the best.
May 22, 2019
Holy [RS bleep], I'd demand my money back or take him to court. That is ridiculous!!
May 23, 2019
Your results are really surprising. I have found that folks tend to have excellent *results* right after surgery, but that the disappointments happen 6-12 months post op. I just had scar revision on my neck lift. I see my doctor next week and will ask about your situation. In the meantime, please change your review to "not worth it!"
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May 24, 2019
Well It was back to the way it was before surgery before my one year anniversary. I made several appts and make it perfectly clear that I was upset with the results once all the swelling had gone done and once I finally realized he was not going to make it right, I went through depression and knew I couldn’t afford to go see another surgeon and pay that again or more a year later. I just do y know what else to do!! I appreciate it and message me and let me know what your surgeon says about it. Take care and I hope everything stays on the up and up for you.
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May 23, 2019
So sorry your results didn’t hold up as expected. I had facelift, fat transfer and a chin implant.
My implant shifted twice and had to be removed and replaced, then after 6 months I developed an infection and it had to go. I understand disappointment and the depression that comes with these surgeries. My dr was great and did everything possible at minimum costs each time. He even re_tightened my lift due to sagging after the chin was removed. A fat transfer might be a good solution if you wanted to look into that. Best wishes.
FYI your header said you were satisfied with dr/procedures. Probably from your original reviews
May 24, 2019
Can we see how you look now? The pix posted look great! Let’s see why your now unhappy. Also, maybe what you really needed was the “corset” procedure
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May 24, 2019
The 7 pictures I posted with this post are my recent pics. I k ow if you seen them you probably thought those were my before but they are now. I look older and worse now than I did before my surgery!!
UPDATED FROM Tobetamy2
1 month post

4 1/2 weeks post op!

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Back to life as usual! Really never had any complaints. Still a little hardness down my jaw bone area, ears and under my chin. I have started using moisturizer and massaging it gently per PA. Will f/u with Dr. Weiler in 3 weeks! My scars are really almost invisible already! I must be a great healer. Here are my newest pics. Leave me comments and let me know what you think! Thank you!

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January 25, 2017
You look totally amazing. Thanks for all the updates. You really do look fantastic, very glamorous & fresh. The surgery seems to have taken years off your overall appearance (you look closer to 36 than 46!). Good luck in the future.
January 26, 2017
Your posts have helped me with my decision to pursue these same procedures. Love that your procedure/posts are so recent, too. We're the same age, with very similar features & (for you, former-ha!) problem areas. Your results, healing time & scar (in)visibility are amazing! I really appreciate your detailed & candid info in your posts. What has kept me on the fence about proceeding is finding a PS I can feel confident in. I live in Oklahoma and there aren't that many plastic surgeons to begin with & there are very few reviews and ratings about the ones that do practice here. If you (or anyone reading this) knows of someone you would recommend, please let me know! I see a few prospective docs that offer only pics of body work they have done (tummy tuck, breast aug, etc.), but I need to feel comfortable in choosing someone who has expertise in facial procedures since it's so crucial to get excellent results in this area. You were lovely before, but your procedures have just enhanced it & really have taken 15-20 yrs off your appearance! I'm excited to pursue this & glad to know such great, natural results can be achieved & that recovery time & scarring can be so minimal. Heck, I may just take a trip to Louisiana soon. Ha! Thanks for sharing your story & I wish you continued healing & happiness. Btw, be sure & let us know when your husband gives in to the tummy tuck you're wanting. If he's like most men, it's just a matter of time. LOL!
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March 25, 2017
Thank you for all the compliments! I have been very truthful about the whole procedure, the healing, the amazing results! God luck with your procedure!
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April 22, 2017
Hi Britt44, I am a HUGE fan of Dr. Lori Hansen in OKC. She's amazing, maybe set up a consultation with her
January 27, 2017
You look great
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March 25, 2017
Thank you so much! I feel amazing!
February 5, 2017
Could you tell me if you had just a lower facelift? Did you have any Botox or filler's. I am scheduled for July.
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March 25, 2017
I had a neck lift and lower face lift and that is it. Good luck with your procedure in July. Let me know how it goes!
February 5, 2017
Bloody amazing!
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March 25, 2017
Thank you so much!
UPDATED FROM Tobetamy2
25 days post

3 week post op

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Healing really well. A couple little bruises by my temples and some numbness and firm areas but other than that, I am doing amazing! Thank you all for all the wonderful compliments and a special thank you to Dr. Weiler and all his staff!

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January 18, 2017
Holy moly, girlfriend, you look stunning! This has probably taken 15 years off! We're a lot a like. I'm a 46 year old with long blonde hair who is dreaming about a neck lift. But listen, you need to break that promise about not ever mentioning the tummy tuck again. It has had an enormous impact on my life. I know we have to triage these things! But you never know when you might get two more nickles to rub together! I've got a whole list of "home improvements" I'd like to get done. ;)
January 19, 2017
You look fabulous. I think I want to do this procedure. Did you get a neck lift only or with a lower face lift? Reason I ask is I also have a little jowling and want to know if a neck lift will address that in any way.
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January 24, 2017
Thank you so much. I am loving all the comments.I had a neck lift and lower face lift. I wasn't quit ready for a full facelift.
January 22, 2017
Now you look 36
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January 24, 2017
Thank you. I feel so much netter about myself. I was having serious anxiety about how my neck aged me and I couldn't stand to be in any pictures!
January 24, 2017
Well, you are beautiful now so keep posting.
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January 23, 2017

Wow, you look amazing! Any favorite compliments so far? :)

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January 24, 2017
All the compliments have been encouraging and everyone on here has been so positive! I love them all.
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January 24, 2017
I am going to work on getting that neck and lower face lift paid off quickly so I can get my tummy tuck! The neck had to come first though because it was what was seen by everyone! I will get that tummy tuck!!!