Im 5'6 and 189 - BBL - Aventura, FL

SIX WEEKS IN. still sore on the back and stomach but def getting better , butt has dropped and back has gone down. Still hard spots on stomach none on butt but then again Im always rubbing on it so I dont know if that caused it to soften. I heard no massages on the but but ladies I have everyone i know rubbing my butt for relief. I know it sounds wierd but I find relief in the rubbing sensation bc my butt was sore for a while.This may shock you but its crazy you wait and wait to sit and then when you can... you can't! well not for long periods of time. Sitting is so uncomfortable and strange . You would think that you havent been sitting all your life . I sit down like im pregnant. because I have to ease into a seat and even then I find myself shifting. Ive been to the movies, work and a graduation and each time I have had to test my endurance. Ladies I have to discuss the negative side of this surgery for me. Since we talk about everything on here I just have to share two experiences since this surgery that I wasnt prepared for. One I lost my relationship. All the attention made my mate insecure and the attention was too much to handle. So im single now. Second sometimes the attention is negative and you have to have tough skin. For example today at work I get called into my supervisors office who basically tells me Im violating dress code policy due to being too shapely and my clothing is now considered provocative. Mind you Im wearing the same clothes as pre BBLhowever bc my Sup (who is a woman ) has determined that she does not like the way they fit Im in violation. Trust ladies I am in dress code but I guess my body is not. Ladies my point is this you can never prepare yourself for the negative attention but hold your head up high and don't let anyone make you feel less than because you now have more. Peace . Love and Big Bootys

Almost 1 Month post op and I have learned some things. Here are my TOP TEN Booty Lessons.. 1. I sleep on my side and I don't see any negative effects. 2. DO NOT go without any support . I didnt wear any support or my garment during the day at work for two days and my stomach and back became very swollen.3. I can sit but I have to do it in increments not exceeding 15 mins bc its uncomfortable. I sit on pillows even at work.4. Water is a must not juice. not kool aid. not water with flavoring . Plain water. I drink it all day everyday. I go alot too but It seems to relieve swelling in my stomach.5. My eating habits suck. Im not gone lie I have not been sticking to my healthy diet but Im going to change that because i don't want to ruin my results but I crave salty foods and we all know salt is the enemy! 6.I obsessed with my butt and rub it every single time i get up from sitting to feel for an difference. I rub it constantly in the store , walking around and at work.lol People probably think Im crazy but I just have this strong innate urge to rub on it.7. Trying on clothes is now fun but challenging I love the way I look in anything stretchy but anything without lycra or spandex is a no go. Thank God its warm and I can wear dresses. 8. Im addicted to lotion, my skin on my stomach is a diffrent texture after surgery and my butt gets dry so I am constantly slabing on Eucerin every time I \can get to my stomach back and butt. I have convinced myself that this is aiding is softening my butt and stomach.9. I havent had Sex because my VJJ is still swollen some and I want to make sure all wounds are closed but by no means should this stop anyone else from getting it in . Its hard when you feel sooo sexy, Just gauge how you are feeling and decide. And please know its hard because i do feel the pressure from my mate.10. I have learned to just enjoy my results . I obsessed over this procedure and I just knew I knew exactly what I wanted but in reality I really didint. I thought I wanted this huge butt but when I first finished surgery I was praying for it to go down. I let go of what I thought my perfect body would be and learned to love having a nice sized butt that looks so natural people that have known me for years arent really questioning me about it and ladies you know my butt is not that small. Is ok to feel anxious before surgery even second guess it . Dont automatically expect support either if you have it great but If not don't expect people that dont share your desire to understand why having a butt is so important. just vent on here. WOOSAH!!Its normal thats why I say make sure you do this for you . Be vocal withyour surgeon but make sure that the look you are going for will look good on you. I looved Bria Myles body (wish pics) but I had to realize I wasnt built like her to start with and the doc can't change my bone structure so I had to trust him to sculpt the best me he could. Is surgery scary. Yes. Is recovery painful. Yes. Is the healing process long and sometimes frustrating/. YES. Yes and Yes . But when I look in the mirror and see the new me would I do this all over again? HELL YEEESSS!
** Thank you to everyone for your love . laughter and support. To all the BBL who have come before thank you for all the insight and Sharing . To all that are on your way Don't forget about us when you get all fine. Keep sharing you never know your experience can change someone ellses life. Well thats all for now. PEACE. LOVE AND BIG BOOTYS!

Ok many have asked me about this so ...When people are bold enough to ask me about my butt I tell them.....drumroll please...That while I was out of town I was involved in an accident. Most people assume car accident but I just say I don't like to talk About it but I'm fine. I haven't had one person yet to continue to question me. I'm not proud of it but it A. Explains why I have to wear a garment for support.B. why my waist is so much smaller bc the garment does not. allow me to eat as much .C why my back hurts and I have trouble sitting D. Why I go to therapy (massages)And E. Of course my butt looks bigger bc my waist is so much smaller,it creates a stronger illusion (but I did have a little butt to start with) .I'm not proud of my excuse by hey it also keeps people from wanting to touch me bc they think they will hurt me. Ironically my back is still sore and hugs aren't that comfortable right now so I'm ok w that. It works for me .hey don't judge me lol