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Horrible Anxiety & Depression After New Tattoo - Atlanta, GA

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I got a phoenix on my left forearm two years ago,...

I got a phoenix on my left forearm two years ago, and being the perfectionist I am, wasn't too happy with it. I could point out 20 things wrong with it at any time. As time went on though it bothered me less. I recently met a sweet tattoo artist who had a unique style. I asked her to add onto my phoenix to accentuate it / make it look 10 times better to me. And I feel it has done the opposite. It looks cluttered and scattered. There are parts I don't mind then there are parts I hate and keep putting my fingers over to cover. This tattoo is less than a week old and I am already looking at laser removal. I knew leaving the place I regretted it. I have been struggling with anxiety and depression for a long time and I don't know why I thought this was a good idea to do. I am afraid I'll never be able to get rid of it fully, and if I can it will be too expensive and take years. I wouldn't be opposed to adding onto my arm to continue the sleeve with a very professional artist. But I don't know if it can be fixed. Tell me what you guys think. I really need advice. I cannot stop staring at my arm and crying.

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Hi there! My name is craig and im pretty much in your shoes right now. My tattoo is in the same exact place and nearly the same size. The feelings your going through... The anxiety the crying the depression I've been there and some days I still am as its only been about two months since I got it. I'm glad your here because alot of people dont get what tattoo regret feels like. Something my laser technician tells me is "you don't regret it, you changed your mind" I know that sounds silly since its a tattoo but it helps just a little to say it to yourself. My advice to you is to start looking around at removal places. I know the first step is the hardest as I'm only one treatment in. But once you get the ball rolling you know you now have that goal. Staring at it can be the worst. I wear long sleeves when I can but I always peek and say yep its still there... For now. If I'm not mistaken in pretty sure Dr. Tattoff opened a location in Atlanta I could be wrong but if they did maybe check them out! The price isnt the best but when you factor in that its gonna be spaces out every 8 or more weeks that your really paying, its manageable. I work retail so if I can do it anyone can haha. I wish you the best of luck and feel free to drop a reply if you wanna chat I'm always here :)
So sorry for you, I know the feeling. I have just started the removal process. I got the tattoo on a Friday and called to have it removed on Monday, I had to wait @ a month for complete healing. I am a grown woman and know the choice was all mine but I went in with the thought of a small tattoo on my inner wrist. I left with a larger tattoo on my inner forearm. It was supposed to be a memorial tattoo for my dad. My heart breaks everytime I see it. Why did I agree to something that wasn't me???? I will never know. If you aren't happy with it get rid of it. Good luck..... Ice helps if you use it a half hour before treatment.
I did the exact same thing, but mine was for my brother that was killed. I have the tattoo on my inner forearm, too. I've had it for 5yrs. I wear long sleeves all the time and am so embarrassed when people see it. It also makes me think about my brother all the time. I need to get rid of this. It's giving me terrible anxiety. There are lots of ppl that look good with tattoos, I am not one of them. Can you tell me how much it costs and if you can make payments? Thank you so much and good luck.
Holy crap I literally did the same. Came for a small tattoo and left with a large forearm piece. I think it's because of people at tattoo shops always trying to convince you to get a bigger piece in order for you to pay them more.
Hello, first of all, the tattoo in my opinion is beautiful! But it´s not my place and I regretted a tattoo which I loved how it turned out and for which I was 1 year on the waiting list! However, I put it on the wrong part of my body and it turned out a lot bigger than I imagined. I remember how excited I was that morning and how everything seemed perfect until I got back in the bus home. A hot flush came over me, did not eat for 4 days, not a bite! Within a week I got my first laser treatment.. not everyone recommends it, but my doctor was ok with it and I wanted it gone ASAP. Also some doctors here said it was fine. Now, 2 months after I am having my 2. treatment. I also cried, had panic attacks... hated every other tattoo on my body..tattoos which I had for a long time and loved... but it does get better... I suffer from depression, so believe me it just needs time. Sometimes I also feel down and can´t stop looking at the tattoo and can´t believe I regretted something I waited 1 year for.. but it happens. You have colors which respond well to Picosure, at least from everything I have seen here on the forum and read online (I am no expert of course). The black parts can also be removed, my tattoo is all black. I think it is great you are up for a cover-up tattoo but please do not do anything more until you have decided whether to start laser removal or not. I think this is best, do not rush things because if you end up adding and still disliking it, it will be harder to remove. Give yourself time, that tattoo in my opinion is very pretty and has a special style to it. Best of luck.
Thank you for sharing for this. I am going throught the same thing right now. Its so hard. Thank you for sharing it. Its nice to know I am not alone in my feelings
hi there. i can relate to your feelings. mine also placed in my forearm and it is very visible to my eyes everyday. although personally i think your tattoo look awesome, but your opinion is the most important because it is on your skin. i think you should give yourself some time to let your tattoo healed and maybe can think more clearly what to do next. it's not going to be easy, i'm still struggling with it everyday. but keep yourself busy with work or hobby might help. go out with friends also helps for me. and if it too hard to handle, you could seek professional counseling, i went for a free proffesional counseling and it helped me. if after the tattoo healed you still don't like it and want it removed then go for it. of course no one can assure will it be completely gone or not, etc. it is scary, the uncertainty. i haven't start any laser treatment yet, but i'm planning to after my tattoo is healed enough to get one. we are not alone so keep your spirit up, we are here for each other. best of luck..!! :)

Hey there, I am really sorry that you are struggling so badly with tattoo regret, it's not an easy place to be in. Listen, it does get better, as colorfulregret says, give yourself some time before deciding what to do next. My first reaction when I saw your tattoo was that I loved the colors and that it was a very unique design, it catches your eye. I like the idea of going to see other artists and check out your options. I hope you are feeling better, now get out there and enjoy the weekend.