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Just Scheduled my Surgery and I'm Already Shaking. LOL - Asheville, NC
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I'm a 37 year old mother of two (ages 6 and 9) and...
sunnydays2December 20, 2012
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I'm a 37 year old mother of two (ages 6 and 9) and I suffered silently about how uncomfortable I am with my body up until recently. The second pregnancy really took a toll on my body and I unfortunately have a lot of self esteem tied to my body image. I just made my MM apt and am already nervous about everything. I have my husband's full support in this, but haven't gotten the nerves up to tell my mom yet. I don't know if I can deal with her being a nervous wreck over this. She lives 2 minutes away, so not like I can hide this from her and I am sure I will need her assitance with the kids. I know that's it's now or never for me getting this done and I see how happy everyone is "on the other side." I'm not sure what to do first to prepare. In the past few months, I've hauled 4 carloads of stuff to Goodwill. You'd think I was having another baby or something! I just want a clean slate at home to make my recovery period that much easier and really give me a fresh start. I'm so thankful for this site already.
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January 10, 2013
Hopefully, your mom will be able to relate to your body issues, since she's a mom too. Your hubby supports, which is a bonus. Good luck!
January 11, 2013
Thank you for your words. My mom actually had a face lift 2 years ago, and only told my dad (obviously he would have know. lol) , me and my husband. I have kept that secret safe, because it is her body and I know it can be overwhelming to hear everyone insert their opinions on things when you have an elective surgery. I remember when she came over to tell me, she had all of this paperwork on the doctor and told me about the educated decision she made. She truly thought I would give her a hard time, but I didn't. I actually told her that a tummy tuck had crossed my mind and I remember her eyes getting HUGE! LOL I'm truly not sure if she will be able to keep the secret, because when she gets stressed, she tends to share information to friends for support. I still haven't told her, and am thinking about (I know...crazy) telling her around 2-3 weeks prior. She's more likely to hound me with questions and I don't need added stress. I provide enough stress of my own. I am already going through the mood swings of questioning this surgery decision...but when I look in the mirror and see what I see and don't feel good about it...I know that I can't waltz through the rest of my life like this. I want my confidence back. I am so thankful for this site. I see that I am not alone :)
And we're so thankful you joined the community and started your story! You're really getting the house in order and that will help when you're stuck there for a couple weeks recovering. :)
Maybe your mom will react in a more strong way than you think.
Here's a great list of supplies to consider for your healing time.
Please keep us posted as you go through this process!