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So glad I did it - Albuquerque, NM

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I have two kids both teenagers. I gained so much...

Almost40anddoingit
WORTH IT$10,041

I have two kids both teenagers. I gained so much weight after each child. I finally lost it after 18 years. I have lost 85 pounds and scheduled for a full TT with thigh lift.

The anxiety is getting so bad that I am no longer sleeping. Since I am so close I really cant take anything for it. What advise is out there for dealing with this.

I have had surgery before but this one seems to be scaring me. I have read so many of the posts and feel prepaired for the proceedure so I dont understand why this is happening. Please tell me this is normal.


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Neil T. Chen, MD

Neil T. Chen, MD

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April 5, 2011
i was the same way. i never had problems sleeping but a month before my TT i couldnt sleep for shiznits!! you're going to be just fine. i was obsessed with thinking about my tummy tuck. it's all normal! now im 2 weeks post op!
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April 6, 2011
My TT is on Apr 7. Have been having the same problem with sleep and anxiety. My doc prescribed valium and have taken it the last two nights. It helps. You need your rest.
April 6, 2011

Oh yes all normal jitters!   We have all gone through this and it will pass.  This is a big and exciting process but you will settle soon. 

Good for you in making the decision to do this for yourself.  You will love the results.  Only two more days and then your recovery period will begin.  Try to get some rest but if you don't you will be doing plenty of that the first two weeks post op.

Do you have everything ready at home? 

So tell me how did you find your doctor and how long did it take you to do so? 

Just remember to take baby steps after surgery and let others take care of you for a while.  I look forward to your updates ad pictures.
April 6, 2011
Oh girl, you are going though a little pre-surgery jitters which is perfectly normal. Been there! In my experience the day of my surgery I awoke with a sense of calm confidence knowing I was doing something I had wanted to do for years. Hopefully you will feel that way too. Good luck and let us know how it goes.
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April 6, 2011
Hi Almost,

I can soooo relate! I also have two teens -- and have wanted nothing more than a 'normal' tummy. I have thought this through a hundred times over, and I saw 3 different surgeons for consult.

Well.... I finally went for my 'treatment' (love how you word that) just 2 days ago! I was an absolute basket case for a good 3 weeks prior. I couldn't sleep, I couldn't focus, and I felt like crying at the drop of a pin. All I could think of was the surgery and the recovery... I was beyond focusing on the results and the reason I was getting a full tummy tuck in the first place. I referred to my state of mind as "abdomino brain". LOL

Even as I was sitting in the prep room on Monday morn, I contemplated 'bailing', and I think that the only reason I hung in those moments before was the non-refundable 9K!!

Long story short...I cried and worried far more than neccessary! Although, I still fear some of the recovery process... the worst is definately over! I have not cried post - op!

Let yourself go through the emotions, and no that you are stronger than you're giving yourself credit for. Wish you all the best!!
April 7, 2011
Thank you for your story. Seems like you went through exactly what I am feeling now. It really helps to now that I am not alone with my emotions
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Well today I seem to have had a calm come over me....

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Well today I seem to have had a calm come over me. I have to be at the surgery center at 6 am. TT scheduled for 7:30 am. I started my weight loss journey in 2006, I lost 60 pounds then gained it all back. Over the past year I lost that 60 again plus another 15. My total weight loss this time is 75 pounds. Going into surgery at 5'3" 157 pounds. As many of you will agree. This site has been a blessing. It really has helped to have a network of people who know exactly what I am feeling. Thank you -EVERYONE. BTW I will be posting pictures as soon as I take them.

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April 7, 2011
We are both tomorrow!! I felt & still feel the same feelings as you. Every morning, including this morning I wake up and look at my tummy & say, "oh I think I'll cancel, it's not that bad". Then all I have to do is bend down a little & all the sags & wrinkles start to really show. I know I will regret it if I don't do it. I go through this every single year & when swimsuit time rolls around I am so upset that I work out so hard & can't do anything about my belly. So here goes!!!

Good luck to you, you will be fine! We just won't sleep tonight! Mine is at 10:30 a.m. & I have to be there at 9, so I don't have to get up super early for it & I get to drop my kids off at school. Looking forward to reading your recovery updates!
April 8, 2011
Thank you. I just wrote an update. Surgery scheduled for 7:30 am. Still dont plan on sleeping much. I figure Ill get plenty of sleep over the next two weeks. How long are you taking off work? - Me two weeks. I cant wait to hear your updates as well. I will keep you in my prayers.
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April 9, 2011
Thank you for keeping me in your prayers. I am doing very well for having surgery yesterday, but the hardest part was standing up & sitting down. I felt like I was tearing my insides, because I had a hard time not using my abs. I also felt nauseus (but luckily did not throw up). Once I got the hand of standing & sitting properly, I was able to eat & instantly felt better. Now I am home on my recliner. I will look at your update.

I am taking 2 1/2 weeks off from work, but since I am on my feet running around, I may just take the rest of April off.
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April 8, 2011
You're not alone at all :)
Our thoughts are with you... Sleep the best you can tonight. Either way, 730 will come, and you'll make it through just fine.

I have yet to forget those pre-surgery feeling, but overall, recovery is NOT as bad as I anticipated.

Keep in touch!
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April 8, 2011
It's about time for you to be checking in for your preocedure! I certainly pray that the peace you experienced yesterday is with you today as well! Praying that you do fabulously and that all your expectations are exceeded!!
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April 8, 2011
THINKING SKINNY THOUGHTS FOR YOU!
April 9, 2011
Im going in sept. And my thoughts are all about my tt. I just can't wait!
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So my PS weighed the skin he took off of me. 6...

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So my PS weighed the skin he took off of me. 6 pounds. Yesterday I needed help walking but this morning I walked by myself. I keep up with the pain meds, so the pain is managable. I have not been able to see my tummy yet until Thursday. But i do see it looks flat even with the bandages. Photos attached show how large I as before the weight loss and night before surgery. Ill post those on Thurday (or earlier)

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