So glad I did it - Albuquerque, NM
I have two kids both teenagers. I gained so much...
I have two kids both teenagers. I gained so much weight after each child. I finally lost it after 18 years. I have lost 85 pounds and scheduled for a full TT with thigh lift.
The anxiety is getting so bad that I am no longer sleeping. Since I am so close I really cant take anything for it. What advise is out there for dealing with this.
I have had surgery before but this one seems to be scaring me. I have read so many of the posts and feel prepaired for the proceedure so I dont understand why this is happening. Please tell me this is normal.
Well today I seem to have had a calm come over me....
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Good luck to you, you will be fine! We just won't sleep tonight! Mine is at 10:30 a.m. & I have to be there at 9, so I don't have to get up super early for it & I get to drop my kids off at school. Looking forward to reading your recovery updates!

I am taking 2 1/2 weeks off from work, but since I am on my feet running around, I may just take the rest of April off.

Our thoughts are with you... Sleep the best you can tonight. Either way, 730 will come, and you'll make it through just fine.
I have yet to forget those pre-surgery feeling, but overall, recovery is NOT as bad as I anticipated.
Keep in touch!



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Oh yes all normal jitters!  We have all gone through this and it will pass. This is a big and exciting process but you will settle soon.Â
Good for you in making the decision to do this for yourself. You will love the results. Only two more days and then your recovery period will begin. Try to get some rest but if you don't you will be doing plenty of that the first two weeks post op.
Do you have everything ready at home?Â
So tell me how did you find your doctor and how long did it take you to do so?Â
Just remember to take baby steps after surgery and let others take care of you for a while. I look forward to your updates ad pictures.
I can soooo relate! I also have two teens -- and have wanted nothing more than a 'normal' tummy. I have thought this through a hundred times over, and I saw 3 different surgeons for consult.
Well.... I finally went for my 'treatment' (love how you word that) just 2 days ago! I was an absolute basket case for a good 3 weeks prior. I couldn't sleep, I couldn't focus, and I felt like crying at the drop of a pin. All I could think of was the surgery and the recovery... I was beyond focusing on the results and the reason I was getting a full tummy tuck in the first place. I referred to my state of mind as "abdomino brain". LOL
Even as I was sitting in the prep room on Monday morn, I contemplated 'bailing', and I think that the only reason I hung in those moments before was the non-refundable 9K!!
Long story short...I cried and worried far more than neccessary! Although, I still fear some of the recovery process... the worst is definately over! I have not cried post - op!
Let yourself go through the emotions, and no that you are stronger than you're giving yourself credit for. Wish you all the best!!