47 Years Old, Been Waiting 17 Years for This??

Canceled my appointment for tomorrow because my gum isn't healed completely where he removed one abutment and now there are bubbles around the abutment on the other side. It happened after I wore my temporary lower dentures using fixadent only on side where abutment WASN'T removed. This caused a lot of rubbing on my gums and within 3 days I had these bubbles AGAIN. I haven't been able to wear my bottom temporary lower dentures in a month.. can't work or eat. Scheduled appointment to see top oral surgeon tomorrow morning to get his professional opinion. The dentist who performed my surgery couldn't reschedule me until October 30th..
MAJOR REGRETS!!!! And depressed.

Had 4 front teeth with veneers and a partial on top. Had 9 teeth in bottom in front with cavities and 2 broken and abscessed on bottom left and only 1 tooth on bottom right to chew with. Haven't been able to eat so many foods in so long and haven't been able to smile without my partial showing every time. Daughter's wedding, birth of grandkids, no family photos, kids graduation, couldn't smile at any event. Finally, my turn to do something to change it after a year of research. I will give honest updates. I had 13 teeth pulled and 4 posts placed in my lower gums. Dentist recommended not wearing my non snap in temporary dentures so that they wouldn't rub or irritate my sutures. June 26,2017 had lower sutures removed and protective plastic caps covering abutments removed. I did EVERYTHING by the book. Left with my temporary dentures in and wore them 3 to 4 hours a day. By July 2nd my jaw was hurting. Called dentist office, my dentist who had done everything up until this point, was on vacation that week. Other dentist said I needed to go in so he could look. I reminded them that it's a 2 and a half hour trip one way but again was told to go. So I did. A thin layer of my gum was covering one of my abutments. Dentist said he needed to numb it and do a punch like procedure that is like a tiny cookie cutter type thing that goes over the abutment and cuts the gum covering that abutment and removes it. Mins you my gum was very inflamed and tight and sore. I've had too many needles to count in my lifetime and never an issue. I've also had 4 kids, and never have I screamed in either situation, but when he stuck that needle in my gum and I felt it against that post, I was yelling, STOP!!! TAKE IT OUT!!! But he didn't. 45 seconds later he did. I was crying. 5 minutes later he comes back and informs me that he has to do that two more times but because I'm pretty numb from the first shot it shouldn't be bad. I trusted him...i shouldn't have. It was just as bad. I opted to see an oral surgeon instead as he suggested at that point. I saw the oral surgeon who stated that he would never attempt that on a patient unless they were sedated. He scheduled that for 1 week later. Guess what..it healed and no longer covered my abutment. Saw him July 11th. I went back to my regular dentist over 2 hours away on July 25th because my gum had a bubble in it behind a different abutment. He gave me stuff to clean them and around them with, prescribed me an antibiotic and told me to come back in 2 weeks and said if the bubble doesn't go away he'll need to remove that abutment, let the gum heal in that spot then 2 weeks later he would do that cookie punch procedure. Well once again it healed on its own and I went for my follow up for that on August 8th feeling great that the bubble was gone and all he would need to do is adjust my temporary dentures so that I could finally wear them. WRONG!!! He didn't like the way the gum looked, saying it wasn't as healed as it should be by now. Said he needed to remove that abutment. He did that and I felt nothing. He said it was really loose which could've caused the problem but he didn't want to leave it on and tighten it for fear it wouldn't heal properly and I could end up losing the implant. Said if the implant or post wasn't taking or was being rejected, it would've came out with the abutment. I don't understand why he didn't check the other abutments to see if they were tight. My initial date to have my permanent dentures snapped in was September 20th. Before leaving there on August 8th he tells me to come back on the 20th at which time he'll do that cookie cutter punch procedure AND snap my permanent dentures in. That's a LOT of pain. I'm very scared, very nervous and extremely concerned. What if my gums aren't healed? What if other abutments are loose? What about all that pain I'll have to scream through AGAIN?? This has been a very depressing thing to go through. As of now I don't leave the house without a mask on. I can't stand to see myself in the mirror, I hate talking because I can't pronounce a lot of words, all because I can't wear even my temporary dentures due to all these "issues." That's where I am now. I will update as things change or progress.