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40yo Mommy Makeover: Tummy Tuck, Lipo 360, Breast Lift, 5'3" tall, 150lbs

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2 months post

Keeping the Secret

WORTH IT
Oh, I haven’t told anyone in my life (besides my husband and kids) about my surgery. I’m a stay at home mom and live a few hours from family so I just managed to be unavailable for a few weeks. My kids know I had surgery but not that there was a cosmetic component to it, just that my muscles were repaired.
Anyway, I’ve seen my mom several times since the surgery now but I guess I’ve been wearing baggy clothes and she hasn’t noticed. But earlier this week, I was visiting and she asked “have you lost weight?” But we were interrupted before I could answer.
I wasn’t sure I’d be able to keep such a big thing from my family but it doesn’t seem like it’s going to be an issue. (As long as I can keep my scars hidden!)
Incidentally, I weighed 153 the day of surgery and I am at 149 today. It’s not much weight, it’s just where that weight was that makes such a big difference!

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My advice is to say that you lost 5 or 6 pounds.
Everything's looking great! I'm sad to have my tummy tuck next month so meeting about your experience has been helpful. I also I have not told anyone else in my family other than my husband. Two of my good friends now, one that lives in town who I know wouldn't tell anyone else and my other best friend who lives out of state. My kids just think I'm having my muscles tightened and having a hernia fixed. I'm glad to hear that by two months he felt pretty normal other than occasional twinge here in there. I think you're looking really good!
You look amazing, thanks for sharing, very helpful. Good luck with that last issue.
Thanks! I'm doing great! Hard to believe I was ever so scared about it all.
Look, there is nothing to be ashamed of!! Omg what can they do now? You already did it! I told my family members after the fact so they wouldn’t talk me out of it. But hell nobody cared what we had to go through with our bodies to have these kids! So nobody should be worried about it now. Who the hell wants to go around looking crazy for the rest of their lives just bc you had some kids. Shoot you did your part for humanity and your family. My surgery was the best thing l ever did for myself. I wish you the best but just tell the truth it will be fine
Thank you!
I told my kids it was the 21st century and therefore l will be going back to how l used to look! Lie to them for what? I’m sucking this fat out and throwing it along with my stomach in the trash!! People spend money on anything else and it’s ok but it’s socially unacceptable to spend money on yourself ? Not on my watch. It’s ok to spend 35-45 thousand on a car but not 7000 on me? Lies.
You look great - and you deserve it! I totally agree with RoriK. My sister and her husband used to spend $6000 every year on maintaining their yard. Why wouldn't you spend the same to maintain yourself? I am saving up for a forehead lift. A little harder to hide but I am tired of looking angry!
UPDATED FROM ProjectBikini
2 months post

Two Months

This will be my last nude update but I plan to take bikini photos each month to continue to show the healing process.

At two months out, I feel completely myself most of the time. Every now and then I will feel tightness and pain at my incision but deep inside. I think it maybe from twisting and stretching more than my muscles were ready for.

I’ve had about 4 spots that scabbed and weren’t healing. About two or three weeks ago I started putting Vaseline on them and keeping them moist. The scabby parts softened to a grey-white material that I felt needed to come off. (Based on internet research not talking to my doc). With 3 of the wounds, when the grey material came off, they healed up quickly, but one spot was still pink-red. I let it dry, but today that scab came off and liquidy white pus oozed out. I applied pressure and the pus continued to ooze out for some time. There was a lot in there! I think if your incision is scabby you need to keep the wounds moist with Vaseline and clean off any dead-looking material.

I’m keeping an eye on it and keeping it under a bandaid with Neosporin for now. If it shows any signs of infection or develops pus again I’ll call my doc.

Other things: that left side is still looking dog-eared. ???? I’m using silicone strips on my breast and belly button. Will use silicone on my TT scar when the wound is healed.

Pics show progress!

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I really enjoyed seeing the surgical photos. I was laughing over the pizza emoji you added thinking wow, that kind of does look like pizza
UPDATED FROM ProjectBikini
2 months post

Six Weeks

Thanksgiving was my six week anniversary. I had my checkup earlier in the week. Everything is healing well.

I am still wearing my XS faja 24/7. I have gotten any lymphatic massages but I do massage my skin after a shower.

On Thanksgiving, I flew to LA with my daughters and went to a BTS concert! We good in line for 8 hours to buy concert sweatshirts. Omg it was exhausting, but nothing difficult and no complications from the surgery.

The next two days we went to Disneyland and I was able to walk all over and ride anything I wanted to. I’m feeling great!

I still get a little stiff after sitting for a long time but movement is no problem. I am getting used to my new shape and I’m ready to go shopping!

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