Ear lobe repair or reconstruction
The size doesn't really matter that much with regards to cost. If your disks were that large you'd probably want to leave them out for 6 to 12 months before repair. My cost ranges from $1200 to $2000 for ear lobe repair.
Best of luck
Chase Lay MD
Reducing the gauged ear to a smaller gauge surgically
Yes you can do that. This can be surgically altered relatively easily. You may have an incision but this should look okay. Sutures are removed at 6-7 days.